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writes: I have observed that humiliation is one of the ways i get sexually aroused. Same is the thing i have noticed in some girls i have been close to. In fact, for me the act of sex itself is one that of humiliating the woman i am involved with. And i am kind of a guy who is much in demand by women, especially the mature ones. Young girls find me less of an attraction, though i am just 26. What could be the reason behind this. Is it possible for me to experience healthy sexual stimulation/attraction towards the opposite sex? Sometimes I think as if unhealthy sex is the only popular and accepted norm. Please advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): I'm going to go out on a limb and suggest that you seek out your local dominatrix and ask her to spank you for being such a silly boy.
No, just kidding. What you're describing can be unhealthy, but isn't necessarily so. It depends entirely on whether or not you're seeking out relationships on the basis of what you want or if you're basing your relationships on what you think it is normal to want.
You'd be very surprised at how sick and twisted sex can get, and the many multiples of motivations and fetishes that exist, even among seemingly normal people. So, no - nothing particularly unhealthy about your fetish, but I would suggest that you seek out more information on how to pursue what you want safely, and hopefully find a meaningful and stable relationship in which your needs are met.
On a personal level, I'll never understand what it is you're talking about, but I stayed at a Holiday Inn once, and now I'm a genius.
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