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writes: hi there dont know what to do got a bit of a problem what would you think if your partner was downloading porn on the computer you told him you didnt like it the first time and how it hurt you espicially when he said he didnt until you showed him what you had found .Then he denies it again and when confronted waits 10 mins b4 hes got an anwser and says he downloaded it 4 someone else but takes my ring walks out and does nothing but have a go at me 4 having shorts and t shirt on the day b4.hope you can help cos i havnt got a clue wots going on iv been feeling hes got someone else 4 ages and i think, well i dont know what to think anymore. he doesnt talk or phone me anymore hes distant he does nothing in the house just drink and if we argue its always me that has to make the 1st move to recon
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): I just found my boyfriend downloading heaps of porn. He lied about it and it makes me feel insecure and inadequate.He was angry and was yelling at me when i confronted him.like you i don't know what to do either but I had an ex boyfriend that dank and abused me mentally and physically and was never there for me.I got out of this relationship and seriously thinking about getting out of my current one. Get out while you can. You can get someone who truely loves you and cares for you.that's what i'm going to do. They are out there!! No liers no players that's what you deserve..It's hard but do it and you will never regret it. best of luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 May 2007):
 If you aren't married and have no children, then I'd show him the door and move on. If there are children or you are married then it's more complicated but I'd still go for a separation to sort out all the details. He sounds like an insensitive jerk, you'll be better off without him.
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