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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm don't know whether to have feelings or don't pay him no mind.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What should i do if me and this guy have been friends for 2 years, we start off dating then we lost contact with each other. Now we have start back talking again. He tells me he loves me but don't share no other feelings. I don't force him to tell me anything. I'm don't know ... (69 words)

I want to get a mohawk (im a girl) but im afraid of what people will say.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. I want to get a mohawk (im a girl) but im afraid of what people will say. i dont want to be bald all the way on the sides just short kind of. can someone help me find pictures or somthing so i can get an idea of what i want. ... (52 words)

I'm worried about my mate...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hi I'm worried about my best m8 because we went out together and my dad took us,then i saw my male friend there so i thought we could all hang out as mates cus i thought we were i woz so wrong!!!!i feel sorry 4 my male friend because recently 4 various reasons my other friends ... (218 words)

I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I asked him about it but he said that he didn't. He always hangs out with his best friend who is a girl. She borrows his boxers, goes to the movies with him (he pays) and even sleeps in ... (91 words)

Why would she jump the gun like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i was recently broken up with. we went out for 10 months. arguing was happening, we had problems. i wanted to sit down, relax, and talk about our issues and feelings with each other. most of the time in the past she would think problems would brush off and fix themself ... (179 words)

Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me. I dont mean like a slap a full on attack. I dont know what to do i really love her, im walking round with bruises all over my body. This isnt the first time she has lashed out at me what am i doing so wrong?... (65 words)

I'm 22, a virgin and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some help. Im 22 and ive never had a proper bf. Ive been on dates and ive kissed a guy before. Last week i went out wiv this guy who was really nice, he was clingy though and i ran a mile. now he thinks ive messed him around and wont talk to me. Im still... (82 words)

I got on my boyfriend's PC, he was talking with this girl and they were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. Recently i managed to hack into my boyfriends internet account and found him talking to this girl at work. They were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication! Although you can see nothing actually happened. In January this year we both ended up wi... (123 words)

Since we started seeing one another we've not been as close. How can I get things back to what it used to be like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - ive been seeing this boy, Sean for about two months. at first we were just really good friends, but everyone always told me that he really liked me. however, i ignored it and we continued to be close friends. about two months ago when we started seeing each other, i really ... (183 words)

We've had sex twice but now he's not calling me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 3 weeks. we had sex on our second date. he says he is ready for a serious relationship. we work very close so i see him everyday but thats all he does not call. we had sex again but since then he has not called what should i do?... (56 words)

Every time I masturbate or have sex I always think of my ex girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Every time I masturbate or have sex I always think of my ex girlfriend i mean this is terrible and its destroying my life i mean i just dont know what to do i am not on speaking terms with my x so i can't even tell her to try to get it out my head... (56 words)

I constantly seek reassurance that I'm pretty.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I constantly seek reassurance that I'm pretty. I think that i am very pretty wen i have makeup on but wen i dont i just feel disgusting. So wen im out i carry round my makeup with me and im constantly touching it up, thinking about it, looking in mirrors. I dont wear masses of ... (146 words)

How would you react if your new boyfriend told you his last girlfriend had "a lovely big pair of tits"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

- hey girls id like your opinion. How would you react if your new boyfriend told you his last girlfriend had "a lovely big pair of tits" sorry to use this kind of language- these are his words not mine... (45 words)

I like a friend as more than a friend, he has told me he feels the same way but currently has a girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a friend as more than a friend, he has told me he feels the same way but currently has a girlfriend. I think i should talk to him about it but don't want to affect his relationship. Can anyone give me some advice?... (45 words)

Please help, I've never kissed a boy before...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Plz help!!! I've never kissed a boy before and he's my 1st boyfriend, how do i know if he wants 2 kiss me or not, plz help!!... (27 words)

He taking a female friend to the cinema and I'm jealous. How do I deal with this 'jealousy bug'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently bumped into an old friend and agreed to go to the cinema with her, just the two of them. I felt a bit uncomfortable with this so asked if he could take a friend with him just to put my mind at rest. I know he loves me, and i trust him but i dont trust ... (95 words)

I'm a virgin and want a relationship, but I fret about the size of my penis..any advice?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6368 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi iam 17 and still a virgin i would love to have a relationship with a girl but iam very insecure about the size of my penis as it is only 6 and a half inches when erect should i be woried or am i fretin about nothing ... (48 words)

What should I do if I'm talking to a boy but he won't really tell me his feelings because he thinks he will get hurt if he falls in love again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do if I'm talking to a boy but he won't really tell me his feelings because he thinks he will get hurt if he falls in love again?... (31 words)

Sometimes I wake up and for a while my world feels like it's tumbling into Hell.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes I wake up and for a while my world feels like it's tumbling into Hell. I cannot explain this because I can find happiness in friends, the arts, nature...but for some reason I have mornings where I wake up and feel "Oh God this life is miserable!" and cry and cry. ... (429 words)

My boyfriend wants me to get a nude/topless photo of myself done professionally so that he can put it up in his house.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I need some advice. My boyfriend wants me to get a nude/topless photo of myself done professionally so that he can put it up in his house. I'm not sure because I don't know why he came up with the idea. He said he would do one for me in return but I don't really know ... (103 words)

We broke up and now I find it very difficult to trust men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend was really popular with girls and when I was with him people were always telling me that he was cheating on me. I used to get really upset about it, cry about it and was really disbelieving of them. But then when I broke up with him recently, I saw him the next ... (168 words)

Why do I have to do all the work when we're having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ive been getting kind of annoyed lately because in bed it seems as if im always doing all the work. I mean its fine to do it sometimes but I would like to get some pleasure back. Really hard to explain. but i dont know what to do. can someone help?... (52 words)

I lost his number and asked him for it again but he said no.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't no what to do? help ok i really like a guy at work and i heard he likes me so i gave him my number and he text me so i could have his number i was so happy. He's 22 and im turnin 17 next month and don't worry he knows. but i deleted his number when i asked for it bac... (115 words)

My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much. For example, I called her and said "Hey, what you up to?" and her reply was "I was just thinking about fooling around with my boss". I know that she knows that this... (86 words)

Why do I seem to worry over small things and not bigger things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - dear cupid i need major help, i keep on getting worried over smaller things, e.g one of the post about my neck, i been to counselling and its not helping me in any sort, y am i getting worried over smaller things and not bigger things like my missing knuckle, but am gettin pa... (134 words)

I only like him as a friend, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this boy right and i always have and all of my friends know, but one of them has started going out with him.. i dont know what to do because i really like him but i cant ask him out or anything but i sometimes go places with them ...she is a shy girlfriend.. i ... (270 words)

I have never cheated on my boyfriend of 4 years but he's got it into his head I have and it's driving me mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with my partner for over 4 yrs now. But i am at the point now of deciding whether or not to end it. There is a considerable age gap between us and perhaps this plays its part in the problems. My partner does not trust me nor has he since day one. N... (240 words)

How do I know if my ex boyfriend still likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid how do i know if my ex-boyfriends still likes me?... (13 words)

I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm still a virgin. What's it like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

31 May 2007 (?) age 30-35 - can someone please help me with sex, i am a virgin and i am with a guy im 15 and he is 16. we really want to have sex, im scared of letting him go down there because i find it embarrasing although i realli like him. we want to have sex but can someone tell me what its like? 1... (130 words)

I am crazy about my cousin, should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunt I love my own cousin who lives abroad whereas i live in the uk i have been to his country twice for a holiday and a personal reason i have got to know him through his family but the thing is he or i have never had the guts to talk to each other he always ... (187 words)

Every time he puts on a condom he goes limp. How can we fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

- I have been with my bf fot 14 months. We started having sex back last august. We have only had sex like 15 times since as i still get a bit anxious and after a while feel pain when having sex. He finds that when we have finished foreplay and are ready to have sex he gets turn... (160 words)

Should I ask to go for a friendly drink and a catch up? Am I being foolish to think that we'll be able to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, im 22 and just last week my relationship of 3 years came to an end. This came about because we argued a fair bit and i admit i didnt do my best to fix things, my boyfriend is the one that did it, over the phone (it hurt that he was such a coward to do it that way but were ... (461 words)

Is it just the commitment phobia or he is behaving normally and my thinking is wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am ankita from India. I have just got engaged a months back (It will be an arranged marriage) and the boy is working in a different city (So we dont meet actually). He calls me nearly everyday but we talk for just 10-12 minutes. Initially, I used to feel that may be ... (246 words)

She always wants her own way and throws tantrums.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm writing to ask what I should do in my current situation with my girlfriend. We have been together 3 months now and it's all been pretty much fantastic. Since our first date we have been with each other everyday since and apart from the odd arguement here and there things ... (496 words)

I have never had a female talk to me the way she does without having deep feelings for me. HELP!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (?)

- I am in love with a friend of mine. We are both in our late 40's or so. I would have bet my life on the fact that she was falling in love with me as well. Our flirting was so obvious that some people noticed it and said things. However in January I finally told my friend that I ... (455 words)

Is there anyway you could help to me to make things in my sex life better for the both of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and just got married about 3 months ago after being with my now husband 3 years. I dont enjoy sex that much anymore and I am not for sure why. After about 3 months of dating him I lost intrest in sex altogether, I think I like it so much when we first started dating ... (107 words)

A question for the agony uncles... Can breasts be tooooo big???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... This is a question for the guys i suppose. I was wondering if breasts can be tooo big? I have huge breasts but have heard that more than a handful is too much and theres much more than a handful. Im small in proportion to them. Hmm its been on my mind for a while so i ... (71 words)

He is still a part of my life and I have deep feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

- dear cupid, i used to really like this lad x we used to be really close we were sorta seeing each other but had to keep it a secert becasue our friends didnt get along and forbidded us from seeing each other we kissed and i wanked him off and he gave me a love bite and cu... (386 words)

My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2021 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this? Sometimes when i kiss her i think yuck, Thats only happened twice in the 2years we've been together. Just knowing that she gave an ex partner a blow job is disgusting. At first i couldn't let h... (147 words)

Do you really do things you don't want to when you're drunk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I guess this is more of a poll than a question. Do you really do things you don't want to when you're drunk? I say no. We commonly hear "I only did it because I was drunk", but I think it's just an excuse. From what I have seen with others and experienced myself, alcohol ... (188 words)

My boyfriend is going on holiday with 3 female friends and it bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship over 2 years now. Because of our belief, we don't have sex and don't sleep together in the same room, only if we go somewhere over night with friends. Now my boyfriend wants to go on holiday with 3 of his friends of his works - all female. He spends a lot ... (391 words)

How can I get rid of this "pouch" on my tummy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

- Hey agony aunts, I'm just wondering a few things, 1) I have this little i guess you could call it a "pouch" lol on my tummy, i'm actually quite a skinny person, but my stomach is a little chubby :( How do I get rid of that, just by running/situps? 2)I'm really confused again ca... (132 words)

I confronted her about cheating on me and now she's ignoring me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the story. I got an email from someone saying that my girlfriend of a year cheated on me. They told me to look at her myspace inbox in september and it would be there. This is what it said: Guy: I hope that we can still be friends after last night. You said that... (261 words)

I have a gut feeling my husband may be cheating on me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i need some advice i normally wouldnt do this but i have no idea what to think!i think my husband is sending me lil signals that hes cheating on me or that he has cheated on me. Well lets see hes in iraq and he use to call me like all the time and now he only calls me like ... (284 words)

He broke it off but we still have sex! It's raising my hopes, so how do I stop since we live together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been together for a long time. For the last 3 months tho, we have been living in different states, with plans for me to move in with him when I had found a job, the week before I was due to move down, he broke it off... This absolutley kills me, he claims ... (226 words)

This guy told me if I kept skipping school he wouldn't talk to me anymore! Why does he care??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Am 15 years old and I was talking to a 17 year old guy.Well sometimes I skip school with my friends.I would never tell the guy that i was talking to that I skipped but my friends talk to him and they would tell him everything.Well one day he erased me off his myspace and me and ... (144 words)

My bf gets so angry, he even curses God when he plays video games! Does he have some kind of problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend who is addicted to a computer game turns into a totally different guy when he is playing. He starts cursing, really bad. up to the point where he is using the MF word and he also says words that put down God. I find it really uncomfortable when he starts doing this ... (78 words)

My bf loses his temper and lashes out at me very easily and out of the blue - is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advise. My boyfriend loves me very much. We have been together for 8 months and we also have an apartment together. He holds me tight and tells me he loves me. Sounds like a fairy tale right? but there are also times when he gets mad at me very easily for things ... (121 words)

Ever since returning from France, my life has totally sucked. What can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - this thing called life....kinda sucks when not in europe so recently i have come back from one of the greatest experiences of my life. i spent 4 full months in france studying abroad and although i hated it at first, i soon after found i loved it and was more than sad to... (824 words)

I know I love him, but sometimes I feel I don't like him! We fight all the time. What can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and 9 months now. When the relationship started everything was wonderful and perfect and i was so in love with him, it was amazing. About six months into the relationship we started fighting a lot, and it never got really ... (134 words)

We had an argument and now my bf won't return my calls! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i quarrelled just this monday and he refuses to return my calls what should i do?... (19 words)

I get really emotional over my body - help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

31 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need to talk to someone who understands how it feels to get really emotional over their bodies. Can someone talk to me, please? ... (25 words)

My boyfriend said sex hurt him, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) age 51-59 - My guy and I recently had sex after a few months because we were in different parts of the country. He said that it hurt him, he felt good but also pain. Is this normal ? I am worried for him. I was on top of him just for the record here. We did not have sex since we are apart ... (64 words)

My girlfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time this weekend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

31 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf have been together for 7 months have have decided that on saturday night when i stop over that we will have sex for the first time, we are both virgins btw. We are incredibly close as we have been best friends for many years, have have slept together before (only ... (278 words)