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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he really that upset with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Right, basically I was with this guy for 3 months, and we were friends for about a year and a half before. He sent me a drunken email, saying how he liked me and we started to go out. He never used to push me into anything, but started to get a little distant. And then one day, ... (303 words)

This is meant to be a "no strings" relationship but I think he's falling for me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this no strings attached sexual relationship with this guy for over a year. He's the one who said he wasn't ready for a committed relationship, and now we see each other very infrequently, and have sex at his place. I started to fall for him and realize I may have to ... (189 words)

I've never had a boy like me so I don't know the signs, do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (?) age 30-35 - well there is this guy that i really admire!! he is really nice and funny and good looking. there is a local club that we go to. me and a few friends go in and have a chat and chill out. this guy is always in the club and he always sits alone. he looks at me like he wants me to ... (177 words)

Can you love someone as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - can you love someone as a friend???... (7 words)

I am really at the end of my tether with my daughter's father...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have done so much for my daughter's father and I'm getting the end of the stick. I still care for him however, he's with another woman who I know he will do the same thing to her (cheat, use her, live in babysitter, pay his bills, etc). I am so upset with him about w... (224 words)

I'm so nervous about asking him out, any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am 16 years old and I am female. I was hoping somebody here could offer me some advice. I have known a male friend for over 6 years now, and I want to ask him out. He asked me out when we were 13, but I didn't feel ready for a relationship. Now I think I do. We ar... (125 words)

Do you think his "me time" is excessive or am I being paranoid here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, well, I am new to this but need to ask all of you out there whether I am going mad. I am happily married with 2 small kids and love the majority of my life. However, my husband has stated that he "needs" to go out at least 3 - 4 evenings a week as he is self employed and ... (168 words)

Is my weight normal for my age and height?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

- Hi I'm 14 and 5 foot 5 and weigh about between 9 and 10 stone throughout the day and 10 stone when ive just weighed myself now is this normal? but thats probably because its the end of the day and ive eaten more. I would like to loose weight i have a chubby belly and would like ... (162 words)

His gift is too big for me, what can I do???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just bought me a beautiful Gucci belt to go with a bag i recently bought... the only problem is that it's too big for me !! He doesn't have as much money s i do so i know he must have had to save for it. I don't want to hurt him by never wearing it, but i know he's ... (75 words)

I have a fluctuating sex drive. Should I be worried and is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a fluctuating sex drive. Over the period of about two months, i can go for weeks with absolutely zero interest in sex, and then one day, become this ravenous sex animal, and not want to leave the bed for hours, if not days, on end. Needless to say my boyfriend enjoys ... (99 words)

How can I make my girlfriend feel more confident about herself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

28 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my gf have been together for a year and 2months now. We have known each other all our lives and have always been close friends. We started having sex about 7 months now but when we do she will never take her bra off, sometimes she doesnt like taking her top off either. ... (271 words)

What can I do to ask my crush out? Should I take the initiative here or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my crush knows I like him and I think he hates me, my friends say he dosent but I dont know what to do. should i forget about him or see if he asks me out or whatever? ... (41 words)

How long after intercourse is it most accurate to use a pregnancy test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How long after intercourse is it most accurate to use a pregnancy test? and if abortion is an option... how long do u have to decide before it is too late?... (31 words)

Should the man have more rights than a woman in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - is it fair when a guy gives him self more rights than a girl as to be more controlling or to give him self the privlige to do things that he would not allow his girlfriend to do?... (38 words)

The guy I cared about is now married to someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - The guy I cared about is now married to someone else, I knew that I was never going to marry him. I am linked to him on a professional basis and only contact him when absolutely necessary and that's by e-mail. The first time we saw each other face to face after he was married ... (115 words)

How can I get my wife to feel more sexually attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

28 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife has told me she does not feel sexualy attracted to me anymore how can we get over this?... (20 words)

One year of resumes rejections in my country have helped to develop in me a sense of personal and professional insecurity Is this abnormal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I don't know why I'm posting this. I guess I just want emotional support. I was kind of O.K. whith my one year old unemployment status. I have a Master's Degree and were I live this evidently overqualifies you for most jobs. Nobody in my country wants to hire a person with a ... (563 words)

He said ASKING him to make love to me is a turn off...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

- I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. When I want to make love, I usually tell him in words. He tells me now that this is a turn off for him and that I should just start kissing him or something but the whole reason I don't do that is because I'm scared he'll reject me, ... (83 words)

He's told me he isn't looking for just sex but he isn't looking for a relationship either, where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I like a guy who i work with and he has told me he likes me back i leave the job in August as i am a temp so i dont have to worry about working with him. I spent the friday just gone at his new house just talking for hours and kissing and just getting on well then he was honest ... (117 words)

He said he really liked me so why is he sitting on the fence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so torn at what to do...An old flame and i have begun talking and him and his g.f have recently broke up...When he was with her he was tellin me he always wanted me and he loves me n such. Now hes saying hes too scared to get involved with me cuz i might hurt him...He lives ... (124 words)

General Flirting or Interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - General Flirting or Interested? I am confused about a work colleague who is showing classic flirting signals which I am very flattered about as I am attracted to him. However, he is quite a flirty person in general so am I reading too much into it? The signs so far hav... (95 words)

My boyfriend never gets any "strange" phone calls, should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - my b/f doesnt get any strange phone calls. Usually if his phone rings, i can tell who he is talking to. And he doesnt keep any girls names in his phone either. Should i possibly believe he is forwarding some calls to another number? He rarely ever gets any calls that i wou... (102 words)

My wife and I want to try out some new ways which are exciting but extremely pleasureable sex wise, any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my wife have been married for 7yrs this summer and been going out together since we were 16. We have always had a really good sex life and still at the age of 33 we still have sex between 3-5 times a week even though we have 2 kids. One is 17 and spends a lot of time at ... (187 words)

I cheated on him and he dumped me, how can I stop loving him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok sorry if this is kinda long I cheated on my bf 10 months ago, and he dumped me as soon as i told him. we had been going out for 8 months and he was the love of my life! We had so many good memories and good times and things i know that both of us well never forget. ... (276 words)

Is there anything anyone can advise doing to get the spark back into our relationship and make us become closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating my boyfrend over a year now, and at first everyhing was fine. we got on well, the sex was great and we always had a laugh. we were so close, with each other all of the time and seemed to trust each other loads. now everything has seem to gone down the drain, hes ... (388 words)

When I masturbate it's absolute agony, can any of the agony uncles help here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. I have an embarrassing question coming up and i'm hoping some of the guys may be able to help me out. A little while ago, I wasn't able to pull my foreskin over the head of my penis while erect, then after research I found out that stretching as far as it would go f... (116 words)

I'm confused, am I bi?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think im bisexual. How can I tell, I really fancy fit boys but I find girls really atractive. Im quite an art person and enjoy drawing naked people men and women.So am I bi? ... (35 words)

Do you think I have an anal fissure or could it be something more serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

28 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a problem and wondering if anyone can help. Im a 20 year old male in a gay relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend now for about 8 months. Two months into the relationship I noticed during sex that my anus hurt. Ever since then whenever I have sex, which is ... (247 words)

Why did he tell the person on his phone he was out with his mates when he was in with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

28 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Im gay and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. Last night on the phone he told whoever rang him he was out with work mates and not me. He told me it was his mate who was out bowling. Now I'm wondering why he said that and could he be cheating on me. ... (84 words)

I am working with Female Bullies whom are 17 to 20 years older than I am

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Working with Female Bullies whom are 17 to 20 years older than I am; seriously, this is ridiculous! I have been working there for 15 years and about 2 years ago, this happened when I moved from one part of the warehouse to where these rude females are stationed. I di... (1213 words)

I have never had sex but masturbate a lot, will this make me loose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im a young girl with a really high sex drive. i can get horny anywhere, and everywhere. suprisingly i haven't had sex!! this is because me and my boyfriend want to have a white wedding. i have been masterbating a lot (with one finger), will this make me loose? ive been doing ... (89 words)

How do I get rid of this hair around my belly button?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a hairy belly and I'm a girl. it's not extremely hairy, it's like every other girl, but because I'm Asian and have black hair you can see the hair. It looks really terrible. I love wearing short tops that show my belly but I can't because it's hairy what can I do ple... (61 words)

We both have problems with the age difference but we can't seem to stay away from each other.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age - Dear Cupid I am involoved with a 22 year old male, we 'gel' I am 45 He feels that it is morally wrong, while I think that at some point he will decide that I am to old for him.- we both have issues around our age, him in particular as he lives with his family who are very clo... (163 words)

He's married and getting really serious about me, where do you see this going?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i met a guy online i knew was married, all we used to do is chat now i have been to see him twice and we went too far now he wants me to meet him again. I was on holiday abroad recently and he was on the phone at least 3 times a day. i have seen his wife and kids and i know ... (77 words)

What's the best way to tell my boyfriend I don't want to be with him anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend used to date a couple of years back and we have just recently got back together and he has changed too much, it was fine for the first two weeks of us getting together but now its all changed he always wants sex and i dont enjoy having it with him, he tells ... (113 words)

He said it's his work that's stopping him from seeing me so much but now he won't let me come round to his house. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, me and my bf have been going out for two years, one year after we started dating he got promoted to the post of manager. since then he's just changed he doesn't come to see me anymore, and he just keeps making excuses that it's the work and the fact tha... (119 words)

I love him more than my boyfriend but he's married but only for a visa, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been going out with a guy for about a year and a half now, suddenly an old friend of mine and i get back in contact but it turns out he is married and we fell in love with each other knowing we always had a special feeling from before.he told me that he is only with his ... (136 words)

I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?... (23 words)

I don't feel comfortable having sex with my boyfriend because I'm so thin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 27 and weigh about 40. I am very thin but healthy but I dont feel comfortable when me and my boyfriend have sex.He says he enjoy himself but I cant stop thinking that he is lying. He just dont wanna hurt my feelings.... (48 words)

I'm 100% obsessed with my teacher!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6415 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - It's very hard to get over a crush...so how am i expected to get over someone who i truly love with all my heart? He's a teacher, a DROP-DEAD GORGEOUS teacher! He's the one i want, he's the one i cannot stop thinking about! i'm 100% obsessed with him - i really need help. Cr... (188 words)

I'm pregnant and have completely lost my appetite. When do you think it will come back? Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was amazed at the wonderful answers I got with the last question I posted so i'd really apprecciate any answers this time around as well. I've recently found out i'm roughly 7 weeks pregnant, I haven't been to the doctors yet but i've got an appointment for wednesday. I ... (160 words)

How do you pick yourself up after the rejection of being left for another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you pick yourself up after the rejection of being left for another woman when you actually havent done anything wrong but because the other woman is having his baby? Why do i feel like it was all my fault and i should have been a better girlfriend and he wouldnt have ... (70 words)

How do you ask your boyfriend to use viagra or some other drug, without humiliating him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) age 41-50 - How do you ask your boyfriend to use viagra or some other drug, without humiliating him? My bf is the nicest, sweetest guy but his erection is not that hard, it just kinda flops back against his abdomen instead of 'standing to attention' (for want of a better word) like its ... (143 words)

I don't know if I want to be with my husband any more, we're both moving in different directions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im a lil frustraded and i need help.ok me and my husband have been together since i was 16{now im 20} and hes the only man that ive ever trusted, hes my high school sweet heart my first and only love. We split up for about a year cause he joined the army {we still kept in ... (253 words)

I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex girlfriend! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Just to recap on my earlier questions: I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do? He still wants to be friends...should I or shouldn't I? From these questions i have received many helpful answers for different agony... (265 words)

Do men ever look at college or high school girls in a sexual way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering about something that only a man can answer, or maybe a really knowledgeable woman. I'm wondering what it's like for married men or even just older men to look at high school and college girls. Assuming these girls are attractive and stunning, do men even have a ... (108 words)

Is he flirting with me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pretty thick when it comes to deciphering if someone is flirting with me or not, so I'm asking for help here! There's this guy I know, and him pursuing a relationship with me would be a little ridiculous due to the circumstances we're both under. I'm pretty sure he's ... (200 words)

Cheating on my bulimic depressed wife! I want to move on but I miss my children! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (M)

age - Hi, I am stuck. I have a bulimic, depressed wife of 13 years and 4 kids under 12. I have wanted to leave her badly as I have become so frustrated over the years, but the kids and her need me. Now I have slipped into another relationship with a wonderful person 10 years younger ... (86 words)

I've known him for 8 years and we've been kissing passionately! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy for 8yrs and within this year he and I have gotten closer. I only see him at work and when he walks in he puts his stuff down and hugs and kisses me. Then after work he walks me out, and then we kiss a little bit more.. If you know what I mean. I wrote him ... (198 words)

I'm in love with a married man! Do I break up with my twice-as-old-as-me-boyfriend!?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old. I have been with my 40 year old boyfriend for two years. About six months ago, I have met this 34 year old man and I fell I love with him. He's married. He is a friend o my family and so is his wife. They got two small kids together. He doesn't know that I ... (125 words)

I have a crush on him but he's scared of getting hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have this crush on a boy in my class. I think he likes me too, because he stares at me, talks about me alot, etc., but the problem is, a year ago he broke up with this girl who was using him, and they had sex, which i guess was all she wanted, and dumped him. ... (89 words)

I masturbate, thinking about... myself!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you think it's weird to masterbate thinking about yourself? I can have an orgasm when I think about myself wearing sexy clothing - my boyfriend can't believe I'm not thinking about having sex when I masterbate - does anyone else think of other things when they masterbate ... (51 words)

We're getting married, BUT he's on kinky sex dating sites and doesn't want me for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is wonderful but when I starded my relation with him i found that he was inside of a lot of kinky sex datings sites (he said it was part of his past)suddenly he has some strange behavoir (i am sure he doesnt have time for see anybody else) but i found a lot of ... (139 words)

Do I try to keep the relationship we have now, or end it completely

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Do I try to keep the relationship we have now, or end it completely? Hello. I have written everyone before for some advise, and the responces were great in helping me out. It has to do with the same woman. For those of you that don't know, I was with her for 10 years, an... (228 words)

This is a question for the girls only!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - GIRLS ONLY-NO GUYS READ THIS PLEZ!! OK is it normal for a girl my age to have a bushy/hairy pussy and bigger boobs then girls older then me. my bf told me that if his _____ gets bushy er whatever then hes somehow ganna shave it all off (the hair not hi... (123 words)

Why is he playing games with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age - I am writing once again - so sorry for doing this... My partner and I are seperating after 6 years. He has promised me that he will see me ok (IE buy me out of our home, so i can put a deposit on another) The thing is, it is going to take around 6 weeks and in the mean t... (321 words)

is there a way your boyfriend touches you that helps you know how he deeply feels

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - This may seem like a strange question .. is there a way your boyfriend touches you that helps you know how he deeply feels ? for example, he might touch your face a lot or he likes to put his hand on your leg, does different way of touching or places of touch have meanings... (66 words)

I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

28 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy? ... (24 words)