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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I PROVE to my partner that I really do love her and am not "a fake?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - how could i make the one who i love know that my love is true ? because she feels that i am a fake lover... (25 words)

How can I win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 and have an ex gf who i absolutely adore, the thing is, she's with another guy and treats me like crap. I can't stand it and i really need her back. I finished her but i didn't think of the consequences, how can i win her back?... (49 words)

How do I get his attention and get to know him better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - so heres the thing i really like this guy but i've never even talked to him but were friends with the same people so i know he must be awesome. Anyway, my cousin went behind my back and told him i liked him and he said since he didn't know me he didn't know if he wanted to ... (106 words)

If a guy's wife was the one to leave 2 years ago and he is middle-aged, is it normal to aim for a girl less than half his age and visit porn web sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

- If a guy's wife was the one to leave 2 years ago and he is middle-aged, is it normal to aim for a girl less than half his age and visit porn web sites. It seems totally unrealistic and frustrating. I feel love for him but he doesn't seem to know I am there even though I have ... (108 words)

I think I'm in love with my COUSIN.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I think im in love with my cousin he's turning 20 in a few days and im a few years younger than him.i went to his house the other day and he'd been out all night finally he came home when he opened the living room door he smiled at me and rubbed my cheek i never took my eye off ... (86 words)

How can I tell if he's "Mr Right?"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

6 May 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Beeing togehter with my boyfriend 2 years and 5 month, how can I find out, if he is Mr.Right or not?... (21 words)

i've got a bit of a dilemma because I have fallen for a guy who is older than me by 7 years, married and who has a kid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i've got a bit of a dilemma because I have fallen for a guy who is older than me by 7 years, married and who has a kid. We both really like each other but I don't know whether to take this relationship further. We haven't actually done anything yet but I know something ... (206 words)

He seems to have disappeared, how do I find him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My mum's mate had just moved in her new house and my brother had a mate who lived near by and he was just a year older than me and we really got on we were just about to kiss when my mum came and told me i had to go and the same day he was going on holiday,i go back there ... (84 words)

I know I'm not ugly, so why isn't anyone attracted to me? Why is everyone else in a relationship but me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so sad. It just seems that everyone around me is in a relationship, or at least one person is attracted to them. It makes me feel ugly and unwanted and in some cases, left out... I know i'm not ugly, and it's partly why I don't understand why I'm alone. Am I to... (71 words)

Why has this guy suddenly stopped talking to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am 15 years old and for a couple of months I was talking to this guy who is 17 years old. Well me and him would talk daily for hours. That changed after some time. Then for a couple of weeks he would just call randomly like at 2 in the morning. Well about a month ag... (188 words)

Should we stay together when he goes to university or just break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was hoping if someone could give me advice. I dont really know what to do. My boyfriend is going off to uni in about 4-5 months. We've been going out for quite a while, and we've been discussing what to do whether to: stay together when he goes to uni, break up or go on... (162 words)

My GF of 8 years still sees her abusive husband all the time, even spends holidays with him! I can't accept this anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age - My partner has lived with me for 8 years and escaped from an abusive husband to be with me. Over the last four years she has spent holidays with him, phones him everyday, meets up for dinner, drinks etc. She tells me she loves me more than anything and i am being stupid, ... (152 words)

He told me things he doesn't love about my character and I just feel so much pressure to change myself!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have the feeling, I'm fighting for my boyfriends love all the time, but he can just sit there and be lucky, he is loved... Is this normal that a women has to do this? It was me doing the first step, asking him if he wants to be my boyfriend more than 2 years ago. I feel he ... (252 words)

I like my teacher but she has made it clear she can't be involved with students - what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I think i like my teacher. But Im not sure if she likes me.We have so much in common,the first time i really noticed her her appearence was differnt.Once in a while we will make i contact but its no big deal. On my 17th birthday she smiled and winked at me and gave the class th... (134 words)

I'm asexual - I have no desire to have sex - what woman will be okay with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What woman would date a guy who’s asexual? Hi, I’m a guy who’s 25 years old still a virgin and asexual. For those of you who don’t know what an asexual is, it’s someone who has, never had, or desired the need to have sex. The thing is, although I’m happy with the no sex lifes... (300 words)

My husband has gone away for time to 'think' and I'm not sure if there is another affair going on...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age - Today my partner packed an overnight bag and went off to "think". He says things between us aren't looking good but we could still stay together. He wont make love to me as he says it isn't appropriate at the moment. He also keeps singing REO speedwagons song, "I cant fi... (319 words)

Taking responsibility for your own actions when you suddenly become pregnant...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm wondering how many other people are getting sick and tired of these whiny "ADULTS" saying "oh no! im pregnant/she's pregnant, what am i going to do, how did this happen, please please help me, im so confused." ok here i'll tell you what happen and what your next step is... ... (388 words)

For 2 weeks out of every month my wife is a nightmare!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I need help. I will keep this short. I love my wife very much. Things finacially are great. For 2 weeks out of the month she is just great. I mean we have a blast, taking trips, going out she is awesome (the old friend I grew up with). Then one day bam. I dont argue or fight. ... (190 words)

I need help with trusting my husband even though I have no grounds for not trusting him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 10 years to a wonderful guy, he is the father of our three kids, we started dating in high school over 13 years ago. Recently he told me that if i dont start trusting him he's going to leave. I agree with what he said about how i am and i do not have a ... (162 words)

My GF is crying over the fact I am supposedly sending her shorter texts and not all of them have 'I love you' at the end! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (M) - Yesterday after a long hard days work I was pretty tired but still went out with my girlfriend and our two mates. As I was the main driver driving a far way back and forth and dropping everyone off I was pretty tired and ready for bed. However my girlfriend started crying at ... (253 words)

I'm struggling badly as I think I screwed up and allowed my best friend get away...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Oh please tell me I didn’t lose my best friend! My Venus, a 12 year plus divorced 46 years old with two boys. Me, a 41 never married guy nor one to date a great deal either. She’s a very successful and intelligent gal who made her way in the business world. She has her Mas... (1500 words)

My parents are divorcing and I have to wonder...are all marriages bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents are starting to go through a divorce at the moment, they're fighting a lot and it kind of upsets me sometimes. But recently I've been wondering, are all marriages bad? Are there people out there in this day and age, where divorce is so common, that actually stay tog... (73 words)

I really want her and I to go the next level...problem is-she has a long distance bf! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've gotten to know this flat-out amazing woman for a few months. We've hung out and become pretty good friends. But from her body language and demeanor around me, it's clear to me that she wants what I want -- to be more than just friends. My problem with this is that she... (378 words)

Should I give him 'head' and would doing this make me his official gf?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend recently asked me to let him "smash" (have sex). i told him yes. and he started to get more into it. I havent let him yet but i am going too. He asked me the other day if i "sucked dick" and i told him no he asked me would i do it for him. and i tld him it was ... (119 words)

I told my bf he could take my virginity but now I'm scared! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im only 14 And im still a virgin. i told my boyfriend he could take my virginity but now im a little scared to let him take after all i am only 14. i really do like him and wuld do anything for him and i do want him to take my virginity but im not so sure if its a good idea. ... (71 words)

I'm ready to have a baby but to tell the truth I don't no if I am. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a couple ? i hope you can help with all of them! so me and my boyfriend have talked about haveing sex and having a baby even at our age. we've both had sex when we were younger!! we've also both talked about french kissing which ain't a big deal except that i h... (389 words)

My feelings for my ex are affecting my future relationships. How do I get him out of my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've met a new guy, we're not going out yet but we pretty much act like a couple and I really like him. However I have a problem in that every so often when I'm with him I really start to miss my ex. We broke up in October and we still get on pretty well but I haven't been with ... (152 words)

What are the ins and outs about sex! Can anyone explain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. dumb question i know but please could someone explain the ins and outs ot sex. what happend and how it hapens. im really scared. i know it is natural and i know everyone does it but i want to have sex with my boyfriend and i am scacred of what to do or how to do it. can ... (83 words)

He couldn't keep it up, on his first time. And he's upset..what can I say to make him feel better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi well am just going to get to the point me and my boyfriend decide we wanted to have sex we planned it (its was his first time not mine) everything was going fine he was up and ready to go but he couldn't keep it up and walked away , i tried telling him that it happens to ... (132 words)

Does anyone believe in life after death?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - does anyone believe in life after death?... (7 words)

I'm 19 and I want a baby with my partner! He wants to wait until I am older...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 19 years old and iv been with my partner for over two years i know im young but i really feel this is the person i want to spend my life with recently i told him i want to have a child i feel im ready and i am mature then most girls my age i have a full time job in which i ... (154 words)

We're married but he acts like a single guy! Am I being taken for granted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 24 and have been married to a man ,30, for 18 months, together for 4.5 years. The problem I have is he still acts like a single man and I am getting tired of going through the same issues over and over. He is a drummer in a band and music always comes first, fina... (196 words)

Why do I find it 'offensive' when a woman really desires me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I feel it offensive when a woman desires me. I am 25 yrs single guy and virgin. Why do i get scared of them stay away when they crave for me? ... (33 words)

We broke up, stayed friends..but I am so jealous that he wants to date other women! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Having a problem trying to cut the ties and somehow remain friends if possible with ex partner/boyfriend. We were in a 5 1/2 year relationships, alot of good memories, we had our ups and down, primarily due to him not satisfied with one woman. we talked of marriage many tim... (364 words)

Do women reject men for the silliest of reasons, whereas men do not generally do that? Is this true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have had a personal experience to realize that women reject men for the silliest of reasons, whereas men do not general do that. Is this true? Or i am generalizing too much?... (33 words)

My confidence with women is gone! Any advice on how I get talking to the ladies, again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ive recently been dumped but i used to have a lot of confidence with women but now its all gone an i am a bt shy on starting convo with women and nowing if they are interested has any on got any tips... (43 words)

Shed dumped me after our holiday together. Now she wants the photos from that holiday! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I wrote in a couple of months and I was in a bit of a mess.... I'd been on a long-haul holiday with girlfriend of 6 months and she had dumped me 2 days after our return. Well, I've been making great progress, until last weekend when she txt me to ask if I could send her photos ... (116 words)

Let down by my hair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I am not pleased with the way i look, especially my hair, and it gives me a low sense of self-esteem. I feel that i cannot achieve good things in life because my hair are not so good. Any advice on how do i overcome this ? ... (49 words)

He's married with a kid and I have fallen for him! How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

I am possessive and he has abused me physically. Should we end this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a guy who is 2 years younger than me.We've been together for a year and a half now.He abuse me physically but i keep forgiving him bcoz i love him.I once had a miscariage.I am very possesive as a result we fight quite often.Do u think i should ... (59 words)

Could the boy she cheated with still be the father?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend has been with her boyfriend for quit sometime now and she has recently found out she's a month in a half pregnant.. She cheated on her boyfriend and had sex with another boy and he came inside her.. Can he still end up being the father?? Im confused!... (51 words)

When we talk now, we have nothing much to say! Is this normal for couples?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it natural over time for a couple to not have anything to talk about over the phone. Me and my girlfriend use to have long conversations at the first of our relationship and it was great to be able to. But now when we talk we have nothing to talk about what so ever and I was ... (67 words)

We had sex, with a condom and he didn't orgasm. Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - HEY ALL! I'm almost 16 and I am just a little bit worried about something... i need advice and information please. here's the story... Over a month ago I was worried that I was pregnant from just rubbing against my boyfriend. I read somewhere that there is a slight ch... (365 words)

My past performances have made me worried about sleeping with my new girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a male of 25 years.I had sex only 4 times. But i usaully masturbate. My exp of sex with women is very bad.In 2 out of 4 times i suffered premature ejaculation because i was anxious and worried.In these 2 times, my dick was not strong and when i inserted, the wetness of the ... (158 words)

My gf thinks I am upset about her lack of sexual experience but I'm not! How do I make her understand this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old who just had his girlfriend over for about 6 hours and we had sex twice for about 15 minutes each. She is 16 and generally not very knowledgeable about things pertaining to sex. I mean no disrespect, but hey, you know when someone hasn't had sack-time. ... (194 words)

We've been together 2 years and the affection seems to be gone. Is he just not that into me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and i have been together about 2 yrs now, and the affection just seems to be gone. It's like he's shutting me out, picking fights ... just being so much less concerned about what's going on w/ me at all. If I tell him i love him he still says it back, but he never says ... (284 words)

How do I find out if my very close friend female likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (?) - how do i find out if my very close friend female likes me? she always say's she loves me, and i'm an ideal boyfriend if i was goin out with someone etc etc. i want to find out without askin her or hinting it or askin her friends as if she finds out it will be so embarrassing to ... (68 words)

I have a scar on my arm! How do I get rid of it without using laser?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (?) - a few years back i've cut my arm with metal object. i got scar there. am i scarred there for life? any solution apart from laser... (26 words)

She's not the dating type and has rejected a lot of guys..how can I ask her out without her saying no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (?) - i went out with my mates. there's this girl. i've been told she's rejected alot of boys because she's not the dating time but she is so pretty. well i'm quite patient. today i talked alot to her today. i try and make the most of the day. but today as soon as i got home i felt ... (174 words)

This girl I don't know keeps ringing me and I'm fed up. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (?) - i'm 16. a girl is a year younger than me and she keeps ringing me tellin me she likes me. she goes to my school but i dont know who it is. she's seen me play football at school showin of a few skills and apparently loves her pants of at me. i've decided to tell her nicely ... (127 words)

Told my best friend I liked this guy... and two days later she starts dating him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i told my best friend the guy i liked then two days later she went out with him; the guy also happens to be my best guy friend. now im really mad at my friend whose going out with him. do i have a right to be mad at her? and should i tell my friend i like him?... (59 words)

Is there any way to kill off my sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - How can i kill off my sex drive, so that i no longer desire physical relations? Preferebly without resorting to drugs or surgery (though if there doesn't appear to be a way to do so without, then suggestions relating to this solution would be welcome.) Also, if i was to not ... (106 words)

It's not a competition.... is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What are your thoughts on whether or not a man and a woman "complete" each other in a marriage? Don't you think they both have something to bring to the table to offer the other one that the other one may be lacking?... (43 words)

I've tried telling him I love him but I'm afraid of rejection! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, this is odd but i need help. i really love this guy "james" a lot. whenever i see him i freeze up. when we are together everyone else dissapears. we went out 3 years ago. but broke up after 8 months. he broke up with me. sometimes i think he loves me back but other times ... (123 words)

I'm 13 and I dont like boys my own age-I like younger boys and I get called a 'perv'...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

6 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont like boy my own Age , I just love 9/10/11/12 year old boys!! Im 13 but I dont like any Older boys or any my age. All The boyfriend I have have been younger than me and People keep calling me 'Perv' and 'Sicko' and Its getting Anoyying. I Really love younger lads -- Am I ... (59 words)