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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

we want a baby but I can't 'come' inside her! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - me (19) an my wife (18) got married nearly a year ago and about 6 months ago we started tryin for a baby, theres is a slight problem thoguh, i cant come inside her, its realy frustrating, i love her so so so much and i dont want us to end up splitting up because i cant give her ... (82 words)

He knows I like him.but sometimes he ignores me! But do you think he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Does he like me? Ok here goes: He catches my eye very often in the class/fields/common room. When he talks to me he listens to what i have to say and goes out of his way explaining things he has just said to me again. He smiles and his face and eyes go all cute when he ta... (163 words)

Does anyone have some advice on how to guide someone through the process of learning how to compromise/share in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone have some advice on how to guide someone through the process of learning how to compromise/share in a relationship? I’ve been dating my bf for 2.5yrs now, and he’s wonderful. I care about him deeply, and I know I’m important to him, and I want for things to work ... (434 words)

I want to wait until we are married to have sex! Are there some techniques or things I could do to prevent having sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to wait for marriage to have sex, but lateley i been getting really tempted. I love my boyfriend to death and i want this to be very special for the both of us. Im a virgin and he is not,and sometimes he gets a little to carried away but i dont want to say no because i ... (89 words)

I'm 29 and have 3 children and my fiancee told me today he's leaving me! I'm heartbroken-what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 29 and have 3 children and my fiance told me today he's leaving me. he says he can't cope anymore since i had post natal depression as i'm different now from when we first got together. our wedding was next year, i'm devastated as my whole world has fallen apart. i gave ... (82 words)

I had his daughter and I just want to get married. What's the hold up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am still waiting on a ring, he was going to ask me last january, however when I fell pregnant with our daughter he changed his mind. now our daughter is 10 mths old and he still hasn't asked me. What could he be waiting for. When I asked him if he would ever marry me he said ... (97 words)

I'm 25-she's 18 and I like her! Am I creepy for wanting to date someone much younger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello My name is Trent and I'm 25 years old. I have a good friend named Emily who is 18 years old, and this problem is about her. We met two years ago when I was 23 and she was 16. We were both working at the same pizza place and became friendly through our jobs. I had... (343 words)

I think I may be pregnant with a guy's kid that I'm not even dating! Should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My period is 7 days late, and the guy who's it is is still mad at me for something i did a long time ago. I know it would be his because he's the only one i've done it with. I know it's stupid to sleep with someone you aren't dating, but i did and now i might have his child. ... (95 words)

I'm disgruntled with life and females! Am I expecting too much to expect just one girl in my lifetime to hang around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I'm a good looking 36 year old male who has lost all hope. I used to believe in love, my first girlfriend cheated only to be beatin up by who new lover, she introduced me too. I used to be the nice church going guy, who was waiting for Miss Right! The next... (346 words)

She kissed another guy! Should I go back to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey my girlfreind who i was going out with for 7 months recently cheated on me(she kissed another bloke). my family dont think i should go back to her but i think she is the love of my life. she has appologised a number of times.its been 1 week since the break up should i go ... (69 words)

He broke up with and then sent me flirty e-mails.I replied but he won't respond now...what is going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6408 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

- Thanks to all who take the time to look and answer this question. I worked on a campaign last year and met a guy who I have been dating. I thought we were getting along fine but out of the blue he ended the relationship, said we would be 'friends' and that he wanted me in his ... (157 words)

I told her that this guy she really liked, doesn't like her! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Right my friend likes this lad, and me and the lad are good friends and he was talking to me the other day and he went im Sick of her always starin at me so i went Who me ????? and he sed no bhaveena, (shes the girl whos likes him) so i sed, ohhh and i know she realli likes ... (294 words)

I want to date him but he wants to remain single! Should I tell him how much I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im in love with this guy and he tells me he likes me but he wont go out wit me coz we ave already been out lods of times, he h8s my best m8 and he jst wants 2 be single. i dont no weather to tell him how i feel about him or jst leave it.i really do lov ehim i ave neva felt dis ... (83 words)

We have an age difference of 3 years and it bothers him! What is your view?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I am 14..going to be 15 in oct. and i like this guy and he is 17 to be 18 in july..i like him he likes me we went out on a date, my parents really like him, but the other day he said he is bothered by the age difference, its only a little over 3 years, i dont see the big ... (65 words)

I'm suspicious! He says he loves me then he says he can't stand being with me and wants to move out. Is this a cover to see this other woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age - ok - my partner says he is fed up of my jealousy and suspicious mind and needs time to think about what he wants now.He says he is fed up of me checking up on him all the time (which I don't- but I do try to ring him occasionally when he is out - although he never answers! and ... (289 words)

I love him but I can't trust him. Will he do the same to me that he did to his ex gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've been going out with my boyfriend for going on two years now, but we have only seen each other once in the last eleven months for we have a long distance relationship. I know he loves me and I love him. But I don't know if I should trust him because when his ... (121 words)

Can't believe he loves me, when he doesn't accept me as I am. I want to change for him..how do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! I'm with my boyfriend for two years and a half and yesterday he told me a few things he doesn't like on me. One is that I'm very slow. All things I do, I do in my tempo, which isn't the same as the tempo of others... I no that myselfe and I don't like it either, ... (278 words)

He says: There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE"... views?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a guy who said, There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE" I am not sure how to take this. Part of me thinks this is a great thing because he is confident and he wants a good woman and the ... (78 words)

Are spanking games normal, sex-wise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age - are spanking games a normal part of sexplay if both the boy and girl like to play. ... (19 words)

Everytime we are together and that other guy calls her or messages her, she feels obligated to call him back. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Last night my gf broke up with me. Our relationship lasted about 5 years, we had our good and bad times. About 4 months ago, she started talking to another guy and long story short ended up cheating on me. I found this out recently about 3 weeks ago, even though i knew what she ... (149 words)

He still wants me even when his wife is with him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a man for a year now and he works here but from another country. He told me last year that he was married and if I wanted to go I could.I love him to much and couldn't go away.I asked did he want that I go bye and he said no because he happy with me. He has... (175 words)

What do I do about being in love with an older boy??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a 19 year old and im 14. I've told my mam and she didnt seem to botherd, me and him arent going out. I think he knows hes too old for me and he doesnt know what to do i love him so much. I dont think age should matter if your in love.... (58 words)

I want to stop obsessing over my work mate, as she is taken, but I don't know how!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am hugely attracted to a work friend and its at the stage where I am driving myself crazy second guessing every word I've said to her and every text I've ever sent. I know it will never work out but I can't stop myself thinking about her. She's in a relationship and... (215 words)

I'm besotted with a guy at work, now he's leaving and I don't understand why I'm so torn up about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I get someone out of my head? A guy at work has been flirting continuously with me for the last several months and I love the attention, however, he's leaving in a week or so due to promotion and I think I'll miss him terribly. He doesn't know how I feel and I don't ... (86 words)

Recently I heard that an old teacher of mine has cancer and wants to keep it secret. He lives a long way away from me. Last night, late, I received what appears to be a farewell email from this teacher. He has not mailed me in 3 years! I replied imme

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

5 May 2007 (F) - Hi all, I have posted here before and need your help again. An old acquaintance of mine has cancer, I'm not supposed to know, but I do. Years ago, when I was married, I was involved in a sports club, and went on not just to local levels but also to national and internat... (178 words)

As a guy, all i would need is reassurance from the girl that she understand it is going to be painful for her, but she wants to do it with me and trusts me for that. Haven't really been able to find such a girl yet and all the pressure mounts on to m

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I read a question earlier about the nervousness of the girl over the pain she has to face when losing virginity. Sometimes, it gets so nervous that she would constrict herself so that nothing can enter inside her. Now this are the reflexes of a girl. I am an empathetic person ... (200 words)

For the last 10 years I have shown my wife no affection, I nearly lost her.. how do we get back to the beginning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age - I have been married for 11 years and have 2 children - 11 and 8. In the beginning (maybe the first year) things were great, but soon after I started rejecting my wifes advances for sex and affection. So we would go for months at a time without any love. I did this because... (827 words)

My new coworker is basically using me to get dates with my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently made a friend at work and we seem to have enough similar interests to form a real friendship. He knows I have a boyfriend and does not seem to be interested in me romantically, but is constantly asking me to set him up with my friends, or put in a good word for ... (198 words)

Is she 'cheating' on her boyfriend? Is it normal for college girls to cuddle like this? And do you think there's a chance she sees me as more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a twenty two year old, bisexual female. I have recently befriended a girl who is eighteen, and bisexual, though her last relationship with a woman was when she was sixteen. My friend also now has a boyfriend; one that she's had for two years now. Lately though, she and I ... (184 words)

Our sex life was red hot but now she's introduced all these "sex rules"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi...ive been married now for about a year and a half and before my wife and i were married our sex life was hot and exciting. but now that we are married things have cooled off and she has started with all these rules. like no sex after 10pm and she gets upset when i suggest ... (78 words)

I just can't forgive my GF for cheating on me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

5 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, this situation has me going crazy and i don't know what to do anymore. When me and my girl started, she cheated on me with her ex b/f. This was all within two weeks of us agreeing to a mutual relationship. I did not find out that she had cheated on me but one da... (266 words)

Does my BF's old High School flame want an affair with him; is that the reason she sent the 3 page letter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

5 May 2007 (F) age - My boyfriend and I live together. He received a letter from an old high school flame. (30 years ago) She wants to meet up with him for one day or a weekend. He says there is nothing to this it is all her. I say why would she write you a three page letter if you said you did not ... (83 words)

I BF just broke up with me after telling me for the last 7 months how much he wants to marry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some subjective advice from people who don't know me or my situation. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday morning, a few minutes before I had to go off to a work shift. I got to work and burst into tears and had to go home, when I got home he was still at... (115 words)

I really really like this guy but he's Asian - do they only like Asian girls or should I go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6409 days ago

5 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy who I used to sit next to in orchestra is sooo cute and I really like him but hes so quiet and shy. I think he might like me too because sometimes when I glance over at him I see him staring at me and when ever I talk to him he always smiles and it seems like he is ... (120 words)