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writes:Hi,Just wondering as there is a girl I like who is in my regular cafe lol, I like her n I think she likes me because of the way we look at each other, If I wrote my number down an passed it to her on a piece of a paper? Is that a good idea or a bad 1?thanxs Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): I don't know... No wait I do!
Perhaps instead of starting off by giving her your number, you should buy her a cup of her favorite, regular drink which you should know by now if you've got any real style as a modern day café latté stalker. If you don't know her "usual" you might as well just give up and find another café to haunt.
As for passing her your number, you're taking an entirely far too passive approach. This is a case where you have nothing to lose. She isn't a friend, so if she declines, no real loss. Plus, you really should just start with a name.
In fact, passing her your number might seem a little desperate. Buy her a cup of her favorite coffee drink or tea, and pass her a note with a greeting and an introduction. Maybe even a funny, witty poem. If you fail to make her laugh, or even just to crack a little smile, your cause is lost and it would be best if you start drinking decaf because the caffeine is probably making you imagine things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007): Girls are WAITING for the guy to make the first move. Instead of giving her your numer, make a plan for a fun date, and ask her out, ask her to go with you to a fun event or outing....don't just give her your number and expect her to call you, she will feel like you only want one thing from her, a booty call.
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reader, vero05  +, writes (2 May 2007):
im extremely honest by the way
thats not only a bad idea but its also a stupid one.
if u r going to do that write ur first name and ur number.
As soon as she notises it look at her (shell look at you) smile (casualy) and walk away.
Or do it the old fashioned way. just talk to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007): I think that’s a great idea =)
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