A
female
age
36-40,
*rAzY and CoNfUsEd
writes: hi im really confused bout my feelins 4 a friend (lets call him "A") (im 20, hes 22)"A" told me he fancied me but i werent so sure coz i needed 2 get 2 know him betta. We then started speakin every day all day (by text msg) and sometimes by the phone 4 a few hours.i then realised i did like him bak and told him so we organised 2 meet up 2getha. But b4 we were due 2 meet up, we went out wiv some friends as a group but i culdnt enjoy myself coz "A" kept getting upset and maybe jealous if i spoke 2 one of our male friends. I was gettin annoyed bout it coz everyone else was noticin and it was ruinin their nite (esp. the friend i was talkin 2 so he left early) and so i told "A" i jst wanted 2b friends.i felt fine about it the next day but now i cant get "A" out of my head and im wonderin if ive done the rite thingpls help! shuld i tell him im havin 2nd thoughts?
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reader, kenny +, writes (1 May 2007):
I think you should tell him of your change of mind sooner rather than later. Tell him you now see as more as more than just a friend and that you want more.
Do it before he hooks up with someone else.
Good luck x
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