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I told him I just wanted to be friends, but think I've changed my mind! Do I tell him ?

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Question - (1 May 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *rAzY and CoNfUsEd writes:

hi im really confused bout my feelins 4 a friend (lets call him "A") (im 20, hes 22)

"A" told me he fancied me but i werent so sure coz i needed 2 get 2 know him betta. We then started speakin every day all day (by text msg) and sometimes by the phone 4 a few hours.

i then realised i did like him bak and told him so we organised 2 meet up 2getha. But b4 we were due 2 meet up, we went out wiv some friends as a group but i culdnt enjoy myself coz "A" kept getting upset and maybe jealous if i spoke 2 one of our male friends. I was gettin annoyed bout it coz everyone else was noticin and it was ruinin their nite (esp. the friend i was talkin 2 so he left early) and so i told "A" i jst wanted 2b friends.

i felt fine about it the next day but now i cant get "A" out of my head and im wonderin if ive done the rite thing

pls help! shuld i tell him im havin 2nd thoughts?

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2007):

kenny agony auntI think you should tell him of your change of mind sooner rather than later. Tell him you now see as more as more than just a friend and that you want more.

Do it before he hooks up with someone else.

Good luck x

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