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41-50,
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writes:I love my son's father. We were together for 7 years. We had a rocky 7 year relationship. There was physical and mental abuse involved. We still talk but I find every time we talk we argue. He was my first and only one I ever did anything with. I'm guessing thats why it's so hard for me to let go :( I want to be happy. He is living on his own now and still calls me for rides and all. I can't say no. He is my son's father. He has no vehicle. I worry too much about him. What should I do? How can I let him live his life and not worry about the choices he is making? Because some choices are wrong. I don't know what to do. Please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2007): Of course, it's going to be hard, 7 years..I still love my daughter's father after two going on three year relationship. I left him and I'm the one hurting. It was a good choice for me and especially my daughter. Think of your child. You're going to have to say no sometime and when that sometime comes, it may be when you hit your boiling point and that's when you pretty much had it. Still calls you for rides, is there anything else he calls your for? It should be to discuss concerns about your son and/or to see how things are coming along with the both of you. Mainly, girlie...you have to go thru your grieving process before you move on. It's going to be hard but think of your son. It'll make it much easier for you. Keep yourself busy. I am doing the same thing, getting over my daughter's father, it's not easy. We'll get there, girl.
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