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writes:Is it possible to know how much someone loves you? If you love the person you are with, and feel that they don't love you as much, is that okay? Sometimes I get a feeling just by looking at him, and listening to some of his comments that he doesn't care as much, and isn't giving 100% effort. And when we argue he's the one to break up with me, but when we make up in a couple hours, he back with me. Is he just speaking in the heat of the moment? This has happened a lot. How do I know if he seriously wants to be with me? As far as I know we both are true to each other and don't cheat. He's the best thing thats ever happened to me, and I love him so much. So I hold on. Am I holding on to something solid? Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (13 December 2007):
Too many break ups are not good for you.Tell him to stop doing that because it hurts your feelings and warn him that next time he breaks up with you.you'll leave him.The sweet thing about a relationship is to hear the word sorry but thinking of breaking up and actually doing it is going overboard.I wouldn't be too comfortable with him if i were you.He seems to be really the emotional type and you'd never guess what he would do if you did something worse.Play it safe but stand your ground.It seems he has you wrapped around his finger.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): If you love the person then you wouldnt be splitting up after every arguement. Couple do have a fall out but they dont decide to split up after a few cross words. I think you need to look at this relationship closer and ask yourself if you really are happy with him and with the situation. If not, then move on. Next time you argue and split up then agree to stay away from each other with no contact for a week and see how you feel then. If you both dont rush back together then you have your answer. If you cant face life without him, then ask yourself how you can avoid these arguements and make life a happy place.
take care
xx
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