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writes:I'm 15 and I can't stop thinking about girls help me please because I can't concentrate on my work... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): thanks for us suggestion
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (13 December 2007):
 Welcome to the party, pal! It’s called being a man. Don't worry; you have normal urges and hormones. Now that this has started to affect you I can tell you this...it’s never going to go away! Even when you’re an old man and your body is all shriveled it won’t go away. What you do is control and live with it. Be nice to girls...don't be rude and stare. You will find girls like us guys too, but not to the same extreme, as they have different hormones than us, and have better control over sexual desire.
But with us guys the urge is so intense you have to keep it check or get slapped around a lot. SO just do your best to concentrate on your work.
Think of it this way: that nice girl you want to impress. She wants a guy that's going to treat her right, and with that you have to make money right? And the more money the better...right? So keep your mind on your books, get through school and get a good career to make the money to support her. That's how this world works. DO your homework and you get paid in the end.
You don't want to be an uneducated bum sitting on the corner holding a sign, just because you couldn't concentrate on your homework.
But this doesn't mean you ignore girls! Date all can, get yourself a steady girl. DO what you have to do, but don't let it get in the way of your goals in life. Never keep your eyes off the prize. Women will love and respect you more for that, believe me.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 There is nothing to worry about here its perfectly normal to be thinking about girls. I remember being your age thinking about girls so much that i just couden't seem to concentrate on anything. Its just all part of the growing up process, as you get older things will become more clearer and easier.
Good luck
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (12 December 2007):
 happens to all of us at one point mate. I hard a period of thinikng about girls and messing up in school. The best thing to do here is just try your best to concentrate, as it will pass sooner or later. You'll still think about girls but you'll be able to control it.
Also enjoy it, can be some of the best times you'll get.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): Its normal dont worry, my brother was exactly the same at your age!. it wears off slightly as you get older, but most men continue to obsess over the female form for the rest of thier lives!.
Just try to focus on your work at school, when the school day is over its up to you what you do for the rest of the day!.
Just be safe and have fun, thats all I'm saying!.
good luck in everything you do.
x
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (12 December 2007):
hiya!
its normal for guys your age to think about girls. is there one girl you cant stop thinking about? if not then maybe you need to get a girlfriend and you might be able to think about your school work.
hope this helped.
please feel free to mail me about anything else you wanna talk about.
lol
ellie
xxx
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