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writes:hi... i've been going out with my gf for the last yr... before this we knew each other for 9 yrs ... we got engaged were suppose to be married july 5 and then it happend i gave her an ultimatum... sorry bad spelling.. i regret it very deeply... she left right after i said it and moved out of the house 3 days later ... and it wasn't til she came over to pack did i realize how severe i hurt her and i want her back... we went out the next day shopping we hada great time ... she has told me she still loves me and if we are getting back together she just needs time... she is still confused and a lil angry that i could say such a thing ... how can i her realize how much i love her ... i really want my soulmate back...
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 If you know her as well as you say you do then you should know but i reccomend being a little careful no matter what. I kind of been lead on before it isnt fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe started talking ... last night were at the bar and she is being distant... i go in to give her a kiss like i've been doing for the last while... and she give me the cheek... and says were just friends totally different from when were alone.. how do i make sure i'm not being lead on and just hurt..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): since last question ... we are talking but she says that were just friends and will take time... how do i know if i'm not just being lead on..
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reader, rockelle +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Hopefully, you have already expressed to her how sorry you are and that you regret giving her an ultimatum. After you have told her how you feel you just need to give her some time eventually she will come around. We all make mistakes so I hope that she will get over it. Good Luck.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (16 December 2007):
Take her to a nice resraunt and take her somewhere romantic afterwards and get down on your knees and just tell her how you feel, and say what u said her in more detail and in depth, if you do this and mean it she will be able to tell. It should work. You made a mistake, no one is perfect.
Tip for the future ultimatums are usually a bad idea. Especially if your getting married, if it was about marriage, very very bad idea, if she really loved you she would marry you when she is ready, and if she had already agreed to it then she is ready. Makes them feel like your trying to push something on them.
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