A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I know this may not sound a big deal, but recently my cousin told me that my gran hasn't liked me for the past few years. However recently was starting to think i was "ok" because my cousin "must have a good influence on me". This has really upset me because I haven't done anyting wrong. Out of all her grandchildren me and my brother see her the most too. I don't know what to do from here because I don't really want to bother making as much effort as I have been doing. Especially if she doesn't like me or is only begining to think i'm "ok".
View related questions:
cousin, grandmother Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): I think that your cousain may be pulling your leg. It seems to me that your cousain is jealous that you see your gran more than she does, so shes trying to make you think that your gran doesnt like you. Talk to your mum about this and im sure she will tell you the same thing. Does your gran ever leave you out, or give more to your brother and cousain, im sure she doesnt. Im sure she loves you all equally. Dont stop making an effort with your gran because of this, because it sounds as if you love her very much.
A
female
reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 Well im not quite sure on how she acts with you that makes you think she doesnt like you but i dont think thats the case. Some people just express their love in different ways. Some people have tough love and it seems like thats what your grandmother may have. Talk to your grandmother in private. make little talk and tell her how her actions make you feel. Maybe she acts a certain way but doesnt intentionally try to give the idea that she doesnt like you. Dont fall for anyone's little tricks like your cousins. Talk to her and try to sort and figure things out. ITs your grandmother, your family. Sort these confusions out before misunderstandings begin to get worse. Good luck!
...............................
A
female
reader, lolo89 +, writes (12 December 2007):
 Hi,Im sure your grandmother likes you all equally,Has she ever 'signaled' that she disliked you? EG. bought your cousins stuff and not you, taken them out and not you?Also are you sure your cousin is telling the truth? where did they find there information?Please don't act off with her, family are very important.However if you do find out its true or have reason to believe it is other than your cousin. Ask her calmly if you can have a chat about it.Good Luck
...............................
|
