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writes:i am a guy and i have issues with insecurity. i get worried when my girlfriend texting other people, just incase its another guy, it wouldn't be the first time a girl has cheated on me. my past two exes hace both ended up going out with my best friends straight after me so i'm worried that he's trying to steal them off me or something. its got to the point where i feel like her own friends are trying to corrupt her against me, i know thats not true but i still think it, it really feels like i'm smuthering her because i get so protective, any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): you know what ill be more realistic to you than these past answeres, if u doubt then ask her who shes talkin to if she gets all offended and secret about it then randomly check her phone cause she knows you would never do that n see all the texts n if she tries to stop you with some bullshit excuse run away n then check them n see all the messed up things shes done like talk to her ex-bf behind your backn n once you find that dump her ass cause girls like that arent worth a...anyways thats how i caught my ex...last nite n dont worry a guy cant ever be too jelous or suspicious because all girls screw you over in the end anyways.....
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (13 December 2007):
You really need to get a grip on yourself.I know a man is viciously jealous of what's his and coming from such a past i understand your fears and insecurities but you need to trust her more and lead your own life.I really wonder if you can survive a long distance relationship like some of us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): i'll give you an answer as bluntly as i can, if you HAVE reason to doubt, like if she HAS been seeing other guys or she DID cheat on you, then you're right about being insecure, and you should talk it out.But for real, it seems to me that you need to grab your sack and stop standing around wondering wether she's talking to other guys or what not, you're a DUDE, if she isn't making you happy, stop wimpering around and go find a chick to make you happy. Go party or something.
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