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female
age
36-40,
*rown_eyes
writes:Here is my case:Everyone has an ex, some get along great some, well, they don't. A couple of months ago I found a letter, it was from my husbands ex, it was disturbing and upsetting, reason being, apperantly he did not know this girl (we had gotten some mail in the past, and said it was to the wrong sender, left it at that), I asked him about it. He explained to me that he had a fling with this girl a long time ago, before we got married, but she doesn't seem to get it. he showed me letters he sent her, emails, in all of then he tells her to leave him alone, that he never wanted anything serious with her, and that was the agreement from the start. He has even called her telling her to get lost!! It doesn't bother me, but what bothers me is the strain i see on me when she tries to contact him. Should I tell her to get lost? What can we do, no matter how he tells her to stop bothering she just keeps on going. she pysco!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): I think you need to try not to respond to any of her ways of contact, if that doesn't work after a few weeks - go to the olice and get some kind of injunction for harassment.
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reader, Oddball.x  +, writes (13 December 2007):
 Instead of him telling her, maybe it is your turn to try and get it through her thick head.
Hope this helps!
Also try blocking her.
Or you could go the extreme mile and change phone number,cell number, email,etc..
Or tell her you have moved and if she wishes to contact him then send mail to a fake address.
Hope it helps and good luck!
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