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writes:Hi i saw my ex boyfriend for the first time since we split last night down the pub and i really wanted to talk to him but was to scared,he was the one who wanted to split he said he did not feel the same and that we should stay mates. but the thing is i went all clammie when i saw him i think i still like him, deep down i should have gone over or even sent a text, he did not talk to me so that makes me sure he wont even talk to me again,but then maybe he didnt even see me i dont know what to do. if i see him again make an effort or just forget,also my mates say i should try and make him see what hes missing what do you aunts think? please help
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reader, 2confused137  +, writes (15 December 2007):
 i am younger than you but i am pretty good wit this stuff.You should definetly make a effort i saw my ex for the first time when we split and i was so scared to talk to him.I finally just said hi and he said hi but thats all.But now we r happy and together again so thats always good! But yea u have nothing to lose and evrything to gain right?? So next time talk to him
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (13 December 2007):
 How long ago was it since you split? If it was a while ago then why not just go over and talk to him? I wouldn't worry too much about it... What is the worst that could happen? He could tell you where to go... On the other hand you could become friends.
What have you got to lose? If I bump into my EX I'll say hello, unless of course she's with some other guy, in which case I'd leave it alone :)
Good luck :)
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (13 December 2007):
 Next time you see him out and about go up to him in your most cheerful fashion and say "hello, how are you?" You will of course be nothing short of fantastic. Slap that smile on and sound exciting. Don't say anything about dating or other guys or anything like that as he'll just think your trying to make him jeolous, even if you've met Mr. Dreamboat. I would not go out of my way to contact him, especially if you have feelings for him.
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reader, edd_edd +, writes (13 December 2007):
Best thing to do is not to chase him. No one likes someone who seems desperate (not that I am saying you are.) make sure if he sees you you look cheerful and are having fun dont let him see you are upset. Dont go over and speak to him, let him come over to you. He said he wants to be mates so let him speak to you. You will seem far more intersting if you are getting on with things and having fun. Even if you have to pretend.
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reader, lolo89 +, writes (13 December 2007):
 This guy has told you the truth and therefore spilt up with you. Just accept his feelings, and move on.
it does sound like you still like him, but you need to get over him focus on yourself for a bit.
and he said you to should be friends..maybe if he meant this he'd have got in touch by now? Ive never thought friends after works anyways to many feelings can be brought up.
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