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writes:Hey, their has been rumours that have been going around my school for so many years, infact too many years. My boyfriends big sister who left school 15 years ago even told my bf when he was going into first year about them.Bascially its the usual gossip about a teacher.Everyone is convinced that this guy is a pervert, but i think he is the sweetest guy on the planet but then again i like him so... my opionion doesnt really count for this question.I am curious about what you guys think about this teacher - is he a pervert... or just simply immature??He has his favourites, honestly if u aint a favourite then for sum werid wacky reason he will just despise you and always moan at you (like he is with my friends)but like me and sum others we are favourites, as it is totally easy to tell, he favours us, he never shouts at us, and he is always having a laugh with us and saying really nice things to us... but this is the other around if you are not a favourite! lolbut, all the favourites are girls :S so thts y i am wondering if he is a bit of a pervert?? i know i am a favourite, but sumtimes i think he is a lil bit too friendly, as he told me tht i am his priority, and then after that (just last week) he said to me ''can i ask u somthing as a buddy, or a friends but not as a teacher? and i said yeah then he was like whenever you ask me for things you always think i am gonna say no, but i will never say no to you , 99.99% of the time i till always say yes to you Becky as you are my priority.He was in trouble off of sum teachers last year for being too friendly wiv a student... then jsut yesterday we were talkin about how guys call girls ''birds'' and i said i think its horrible then he said yeah me too, i would never call a girl that, if anyone had the slightest bit of respect for their girl they would never call her that, it isnt right then he said it is not a term i would use for a young lady like you, i would never say that to you (how sweet!) but when one of my friends asked wht we were talkin about i told her and she was like ''ewww he is a totaly perv! but i dnt think he is, do you think im being naive? and also he is always sayin tht he never grew up and tht i shoudlnt grow up as it is totally over rated?he is also isolated from the school, he doesnt socailise with any teachers, he jsut likes soicalising with students, he doesnt like helpin out at events that include other teachers, he said he was too busy to go get a school photo with all the teachers even tho he wasnt, he doesnt eat in his staff room if there is other members of staff in their and he doesnt ever go to prom, he always makes up excuses this year he said that he and his wife are goin away for the weekend... but the prom is on fridayt night? he is goin away on saurday?? it is as if he only gets on with the girls students, the other teachers within his department even talk about how werid it he acts around other teachers and the fact that he has favourites...what do you guys think??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): Whether he's "nice" to you has nothing to do with it.
A teacher's job is not to get too "friendly" with certain students over others. And not to get sexual WHATSOEVER with ANY of them under ANY circumstances.
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reader, Shiner  +, writes (13 December 2007):
creep-o, stay away from the dude.
Seriously, or you might just end up on the news. God forbid.
There is absolutely NO reason a teacher should play favorites, ESPECIALLY if he's calling a girl student his "priority"
if possible ask for a class change and speak up to the principal.
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