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36-40,
*adgurlie04
writes:this is over two almost three years with my bf's roomie. I live five hours away from school.First year he liked me a lot, flirted with me and said he wishes he found me first. I ignore this because I love my bfYear later he gets a gf in the same town who he wants me to meet. Soon he starts ignoring my phone calls etc and we no longer talk. When I tried to be friendly he told someone else I annoyed him. His gf does get easily jealous. A few months later we all got drunk and he tried to kiss me(I am above 21).I break up with my bf because we had issues. In time I see I liked the roomie, so I tell him. He says NOTHING so I take it as rejection. Later says he is just someone coming in and out of my life.Now he is moving out. I wrote him a grad card thanking him for inspiring me. After five months of no contact I called him to talk about the stray cat they found. He said he misses talking to me. Why didn't he call/ email? He said he wants to see me and is upset he is moving even farther and he will never see/talk to me again. I'm confused. he is still with his gf and I am with my BF again and happy. Why would he do this? Does he like me? why not call ME is he misses me? I am confusedHe has told me in the past that no matter what happens between me and my bf HE HAS to take his side because they are roomies and he told the other roomate I am off limits because they are roomies. They are NOT friends however so I am just confused with alll of this and it's making me sad. I DO want to be a friend.If it helps which I doubt(some people want this info however) he is an Aries Snake and I am a Libra Tiger. His gf is a Scorpio Pig.
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reader, sadgurlie04 +, writes (17 December 2007):
sadgurlie04 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks you guys
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (12 December 2007):
 There is a little attraction between you both but i believe that if you continue this " frienship" with the roomie then it will just cause confusion in your current relationship. He is coming in and out of you life and you dont need that situation in your life right not. You need to focus on you and your current relationship. As much as it may both you, what you have with the roomie shouldnt continue for the sake of your partner and his. You dont want to do anything you'll regret. You have to get over this attraction you feel for the roomie and be honest to your own heart and the heart of your bf. If your happy wth who you are with then why risk it? But if you are just confused about the whole thing then be honest with him. He has the right to know. I looked up some info. for you that just may help. here it goes:
Aries Man & Libra Woman
It will take someone with a lot more backbone than the Libra lady has to withstand his daily doses of bluff and bluster. (Source: AquarianAge Romance )
A yin and yang combination. Another Venus meets Mars --- intense, selfish, volatile and sexy.
This is not a great match and it is very unlikely to lead to lasting love. You and an Aries boy may seem to be a terrific match at first. You've both got great minds, curious approaches to life and you both love to talk and to socialize. Unfortunately, while you hate arguing and always want everything to be peaceful, Aries boys love to fight! They'll even play devil's advocate to start a fight for no reason... they actually think this is fun. All this conflict will make you feel constantly uneasy and stressed out. He will also get tired of you flip-flopping on your decisions, because he's a charge ahead guy who likes to set a mission and then carry it out. He's just not flexible or calm enough for you, and there will be no harmony in this relationship. You may be super-attracted to him, but that can only take you so far. A great match for a short-term fling, but disaster in the long-term. (Source: Jellybean's Astro-Soulmate Guide )
Refined Libra girl is ready and willing to play delicate flower next to Aries tough and strong exterior, but in the long haul, Aries boy might be a tad too aggressive and rough around the edges. Enjoy it while it lasts, because it certainly won't be boring!
HOPE THIS HELPS A LITTLE! Good luck!
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reader, novicenluv +, writes (12 December 2007):
I doubt that you're happy with your current situation; It's obvious that you're attracted to your roommate. He however, can't seem to make up his mind and probably just wants to keep you hooked as a possible option. You need to do alot of soul searching and be honest with yourself and with your boyfriend; if you're just used to him and not really happy with him then i believe he has a right to know. Whatever you do, do NOT pursue other romantic interests while you're still in your present relationship.
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