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writes: Hello i am from lebanon 21 years old in a seriours relationship with a girl for 1 year we love eachs others so much and we live in same country all this seems good even i cant see her alot cz of her parents and the distance ... i am studying accounting and i still have 2 years 2 finish , i feel that i am not like all the others that have the parents material support until they go forward in life . i am affraid alot about my future cz all i dream about is to continue my life with this girl and we spoked lots of time that i cant be with her if i will be like this with nothing in hand no job no money and nothing even if we love each other and its logical . so the fear is not to find a job that can make my dream come true and to loose this girl forever :( life is going so fast and no one knew when someone came and maybe stole her love from me . Strange how life is some have problem of trust of love of care of .... i have them all but dont have the material to approve to her parent that i can manage their daughter PLEASE HELP ME WHAT TO DO and how to face this situation mwah for all thanks for helping me.
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reader, NJmomabear +, writes (13 December 2007):
If your studying to be in accounting, don't worry you will be fine. It takes a while to find the right fit since all accounting jobs seem to be drastically different from place to place (bet nobody told you that huh)
Love is love and if she is yours, nobody can steal her and if they can then you know what, you dont' want that kind of person so shallow and materialistic. My husband isnt working for a short time and I wouldn't abandon him!
Just don't try to move in together too soon and put financial pressure on yourself like that until your out of school. Just be honest with her about your feelings so she is not left to guess.
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