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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's over 50 and I'm a lot younger. Why does he come so quickly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is quite a lot older than me and when we have sex it does not last that long because he cums really quick, about a minute after entering me. Is there something wrong with him or is this perfectly normal for a man of a certain age over 50? Please help me on this ... (67 words)

Her breaking up with her BF was the best thing, but now my friend's devastated and I want to help...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (?) - Today I got a text from my friend. She hardly texts me, but today she told me to go to her house for the first time. I got worried so forgot about my plans and went to hers. I went into her room and she was crying. She was really upset. She said her boyfriend doesn't understand ... (221 words)

I'm fine getting physical with strangers, but when I meet someone I like, I go all shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I'm 19. I haven't had much experience! However with people I don't know that well, for example I met on holiday or on a night out, I have no problem being physical with them. But whenever I really like someone I somehow get so shy and tense up. I can't get myself to do any ... (81 words)

My boyfriend played both me and his ex... now she might be pregnant! How do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 years. we have a 4 yr old daughter together. I have an older son. over the last 2 months he has had a 1 night stand and started seeing his ex girlfriend. his ex has 3 kids and one of them and my son are or were really good friends ... (183 words)

He got horrendously mad at me on cam - could my online love be that bad in person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - i meet this guy online, we fall inlove each other, we spend time together everyday, tell 1 day, he was really get mad at me, but not answering any of his question, cause he was shouting and pointing his fingers on me on cam, he was really really mad,can he be that bad in ... (68 words)

He says he'd be cool if I asked out his sister, but I'm not sure he'll feel the same afterwards!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - so at school, its basically me and my two friends against the rest(we dont get along with everyone else in our grade) and so we are pretty close friends. i have a couple of classes with one of my friend's sister who is only one year younger than me i basically hang out with her... (110 words)

Cyber affair

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15 November 2006 (F) - A man asking for cyber sex and too much sexy pose, is there a love or stupidity, is he serious about me? please help..ty... (24 words)

Why cant i climax with my partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - im digging myself a deep hole i know will be hard to get out of. i have never cum during sex, but i said that i have. i think i am in love with my boyfriend and i think he knows i dont cum, and i still say i do, i need help. what is wrong with me?... (58 words)

My BF hit me across the face when all I was doing was joking around - will he do it again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much but the other day he hit me across the face when i was pretending to pull his pants down. It was suposed to be a joke. I ran of crying after that shocked and hurt. He has apologised so much but should i be worried he will do it again ?... (58 words)

I met this girl at a party and fell in love but she doesn't want me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - Hey aunt! ok here it is! well i met this girl at a party and we hit it off straight away sparks were flying the chemistry was there, i met up with her and we went shopping. It was realy good, i felt in love wid her but knew she didnt want anything, sorry i forgot 2 add afta the ... (191 words)

She went on a business trip and I found a very suspicious email she sent to some guys she met while she was there!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - Recently my gf went on a business trip to Las Vegas. I had access to her email unknowingly. The next day when she came back I found an email she had written to someone. I want an honest opinion from you guys/girls about what this sounds like to you. I will put the email ... (401 words)

I am dating an older man but am scared to tell my parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I'm trying to figure out how to tell my parents that I am dating an older man. I love him with all my heart and know that he is the love of my life. He is close to the age of my parents and we started going out about a month after my 18th birthday (we've been going out now for ... (210 words)

Should I follow my heart towards him or my head away from him like everyone is telling me I should do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - Trying to stop myself from falling for this guy yet again (he's an ex boyfriend who seems to keep coming back into my life). Everyone tells me he's a bad guy and I can do way better and I know why they say it, as he has a history of cheating and if you don't know him well then ... (211 words)

How do you know its love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - how do i know if i am in love with my boyfriend? ... (12 words)

My student has a crush on me - but i dont want him to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F)

- I am an teacher one of my students has started to stare at me and smiling in a flirty way I do know this person has a couple and an organised love life, I am younger then this man so I think he sort of wants to see if I'm the kind of girl he could have a go with or maybe he ... (108 words)

im 14 and i like my 32 year old teacher

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - Hello. I'm a girl that has just turned fourteen and im in love with my thirty-two year old teacher. hes really nice and funny and i know theres an eighteen year age gap. I wanted to know: Would it be legal to date him when i leave school? I know it's illegal now but i was wo... (78 words)

I need to go on the pill but mom wont agree !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F)

- hi, i was wondering if anyone (female) would have advice for me i am a 15 year old girl and lately my pms is incredibly painful. i have cramps for weeks leading up to my pms just to have that last up to 7-8 days of heavy flow with even worse cramps. they are irregular, they are ... (147 words)

i want more from my bed buddy !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - How can i be more than a fu@* buddy? I gave this guy a blowjob but i really like him ive known him for 4 weeks and each time we see each other we flirt like crazy. The problem is.. he has loads of girls and he calls them his b****** they call him up all the time and i dont ... (95 words)

How do i pleasure my guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

15 November 2006 (F)

- k em...this might sound weird but where is the *shaft*? on the penis i mean..apparently its very pleasurable when stimulated but i havelittle experience and wanna know its location before i try pleasure my guy........any tips on hand jobs and what the hell do do?? please ... (75 words)

I like this guy but his cheating ex wants him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - There is a guy Tim that I have come to like in my art class. He is artistic, funny, sweet and athletic. The thing is, his ex. She cheated on him so they broke up and he was very hurt by it (as he should have been.)Then they started hugging in the hall all of a sudden. I don't ... (106 words)

My boyfriend puts me down and now i believe it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F)

- Lately my b/f has made comments about my hairstyle, stating that I never change it - or my eyebrows (he thinks they're too thick). So while we were visiting family out of town, I went to the salon one day, got my eyebrows waxed, got highlights in my hair, and had the girl ... (303 words)

My boyfriend forgot my birthday

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

15 November 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend completely forgot my birthday! I am so upset. We've been together for a year-and-a-half and during that time, he's celebrated two birthdays, both of which I have remembered and tried to make special, even though the first year, we'd only known each other about a ... (322 words)

Ive put on weight and am seeing my boyfriend soon ..help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - hi, hope you can help my boyfriend works away and is coming home next thursday the only problem is i have put weight on i dont want him to come back and not fancy me so i was wondering and i no it is stupid but need to if you have any quick diets that work or i was going to try ... (94 words)

age limit advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - for a 16 year old girl..what do u think the limit in age would be for a boyfriend? i like someone whos 25..is anyone my age or older in a relationship with an age gap so big? if so please let me know if age really matters or wether its basically just a number.. xx... (56 words)

im 16 falling for a 28 year old at work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - i really have a huge crush on a guy at work i mean like really really strong feelings, but im only 16 so u may think its just my age to blame for the lust ive got over him . A problem in the matter is i dont know how old he is..im thinkin he's 25-28!?! what am i to do? any like ... (67 words)

I don't know what to do with my life, or what I want!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (M)

- I don't know what I want for myself in life. I don't know how to make myself happy. Please someone help me as I don't want to end up in 20 years time, married with kids and still unhappy, because it's not fair on them.... (45 words)

He bought my best mate a bday card and didn't get me anything! He makes me feel small! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - my boyfrend bought my best mate a bday card and didnt get me n e ting 4 my bday cz he sed he was skint! i just feel reli upset nd i dont knw if i shuld say n e ting! nd he always says tings like hw is ex or these gals are always askin him 2 go out with him! nd it makes me feel ... (77 words)

I'm having trouble making real friendships - Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I am really embarrassed about this but I feel that I don't have any friends. I am 25 with a young child and attend university, so I am in contact with people there, but they are either 18 year olds or very mature, and it is hard to find things to talk about. On top of this, ... (198 words)

My husband left me for a girl that's our daughter's age. I still love him! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - i was married for 23years have 4 kids and grandchild on the way my husband who always told me he could never stop loving me no matter what has just walked out on me he told me he does not love me any more and fell out of love about a year ago. i am so worried now as to what ... (330 words)

I'm starting to feel unloved by my partner - our sex life is suffering - Any suggestions?

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15 November 2006 (F) - Is my partner getting bored? I have been with partner for 3 years and 6 months ago he started working nights. Since then our sex life has gone downhill (once a week) he is always tired but has plenty of time for everyone else. I am beginning to feel neglected and unloved. ... (58 words)

I can't flirt to save my life! Tips please!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

15 November 2006 (M)

- Can anyone give me any good tips on how to be good at flirting? I can't flirt to save my life. In fact my flirting is almost like (though not as bad as) Ross' in Friends when he tries to flirt with the pizza girl.... (45 words)

I have a fear of rejection from women and I don't like my job. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (M)

- I think I have a problem but I don't know how badly it will affect me. I have a fear of rejection thats why I tend not to ask women out (at least not until I go to uni) but I also only do my job out of fear I'll get sacked for poor conduct rather than motivation through ... (72 words)

After 30 years of marriage, she has decided fellatio is revolting! Advice?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - My wife and I have been happily married for more than 30 years. During that time, we've enjoyed a pretty active sex life. Oral sex, particularly mutual oral sex, had always been a part of that. I've only ejaculated in her mouth once, many years ago. I adored it, but she didn't ... (1458 words)

I want to email my ex to see if he's okay from the break up. Should I just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - Do I have to contact my ex-boyfriend? I broke up with my boyfriend almost 3 weeks ago...It wasnt because I didnt love him any more, I just knew he was never going to love me as much as I loved him...I felt needy and sad all the time because he didnt have time for me...I know ... (118 words)

I had sex with my bf and now he's ignoring me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - Hey well ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two years and the other day me and him had sex for the first time. Since then he has been ignoring me and wont talk to me. Plz help i dont no what ive dont wrong x... (51 words)

He treats me like a princess but I can't handle his past - please help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

15 November 2006 (F)

- I'm ready to leave the most wonderful guy in the world because I can't accept his past. He's generous, kind, funny and worships the ground I walk on. However, he's slept with over 100 women, has an STD and has no money and has absolutely no chance of ever having a successful ... (291 words)

When my friend was dating her bf I became best friends w/ him. Now I've fallen for him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - Hey..so a friend of mine met this guy and they were together for 3 months.while they were together we became best friends,he's an amazing guy,2 years older and very attractive.they broke up 2 months ago,he broke up with her an now we are best,best,best friends with him.he is so ... (129 words)

I cheated on her and now she wants to start over as friends. How can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - I m 28 and my girlfriend is 31. We've been seeing each other for a year and half now. And ive hurt her once too many times. Ive cheated on her once and made other silly mistakes in nasty arguments. She said she still loves me and needs some space. Then she decided to give it a ... (269 words)

He fingered me with sperm on his hand - now my period is late and I feel bloated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend fingered me about two months ago and he may have had sperm on his finger whilst doing it. i havent had my period since and its never usually late and my tummy is bloated. could i be pregnant?... (40 words)

I sent him a kinky text and picture - and he hasn't called me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I sent a guy i have been seeing a kinky text and picture as he hadn't called in a while and been away for a few weeks, he really liked it but still hasn't called me and this was last night, perhaps he isn't used to this or he is shy in this area. What do you think and what ... (76 words)

I'm dating a married man and feel bad about it! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F)

- i'm a 27 year old lady,ove with a 53 years old married man, i love him, n he loves me too..but m worried about my future n i always feel bad when he goes back to see his wife. Should i continue dating him or i stop? pls help me.... (50 words)

He says he doesn't love me anymore, but I don't think that's completely true. I'm so confused! Plese help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - i recently fell in love for the first time with my boyfriend. who in my eyes is the most perfect person ive ever found.but then he finished me a few weeks ago.and i am heartbroken,he wont talk to me face to face even to get his stuff.he still has my initials and 3 in his msn ... (89 words)

Why the heck are so many people cheating all the time?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - Why do people cheat all the time now? All of the sudden Dear Cupid is flooded with I cheated, or I want to cheat, or affairs from all people, men and women. I used to believe that only guys cheated, but then came across here. What's up with everyone, once you're in a marriage, ... (86 words)

All I did was love her; all she did was use and abuse me - I'm devistated. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - I will appreciate any advice and help on this, well it is a long story but I will keep it short, I meet this girl through internet, she come here to UK to work, she was a European citizen so in that sense she didn’t need me for visa or anything like that. I helped her in ev... (708 words)

I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.

This question has 196 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

15 November 2006 (F)

- Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have been phoning this guy off and... (123 words)

My best mate won't talk to me after our drunken kissing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - me and my mate where very drunk last week and ended up kissing. he seems to have been avoidin me since so i text him but he doesnt remember what happend and when i told him he has told me not to speak to him again. hes my best m8 and im gutted i told him but it was only drunken ... (74 words)

I want to split w/ my husband but feel guilty about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I have been married for 18 years and have 6 children, I want us to seperate because I dont fancy him anymore. He is very hurt and I feel so guilty and confused and I feel I am abandoning him. We have tried to seperate twice before and I changed my mind because I felt I was the ... (79 words)

My friend and her bf broke up. Him and I love each other but don't want to hurt her! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - my friend was with her boyfriend for just under a year and in this time me and him became attracted to each other although we didnt do anything about it.Once they broke up he started phoning me and we became really close he told me he loves me and i feel the same and my friend ... (106 words)

I like my partner's friend. How do I tell if she likes me and what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - hi well im in a relationship and been with my partner for a bout 4 or more years,I no longer feel anything for her, but her freind is nother matter, I relly fancy her mate who comes round all the time,The thing is I really cant tell if shes interseted in me too.Theres always ... (72 words)

I'm depressed and my libido is gone. My partner thinks it's him and it's not. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I just get so depressed i sometimes don't even want to get out of bed. My new partner finds it hard to understand and thinks it is him. I don't know why i feel like this. We have only been together since April. We should be in the honeymoon period but it doesn't feel exciting. ... (75 words)

I want her so bad but she's with another guy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - Dear Doctor, My name is Steve from Nigeria.I found your Email through Google.And i think you could be of help to my situation.I am confused and afraid of myself.This is my story, I fell in love with this girl that I met a month ago and I love her so much but the problem ... (200 words)

Since becoming pregnant, my wife seems withdrawn. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - hi there, Me and my fiance' are expecting a baby! This is absolutely an amazing feeling for me and I cant wait! It seems like me and her are drifting apart though and that she is not comfortable with the new life we are about to start. She is in general not a very affectionat... (141 words)

His moody attitude is getting to me!What can I say to him when he's in one of his moods?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - Hi there, just after some advise as to how to deal with my male friends mood swings. I have known this guy a few months and during this times we have become really good friends, I have feelings for him and he knows this and its not bothered him. I know he isnt ready for a ... (279 words)

My planned trip away has her talking negatively about our relationship! How do I get her to stop doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - hello, im 26 iv been with my girlfriend (22) for a year and a half. Recently i told her i was going away for over a year, and she's coming to see me for a few months at least. Now she wont stop going on about it, i dont want to sound selfish but its starting to wear thin she... (131 words)

Am I wrong for asking what my girlfriend will be doing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (M)

- Hello. Here's the story, My girlfriend told me that she wouldn't be seeing my the next night after I get off from work. I asked her why and she said she'd be busy. I merely asked what she was going to be doing and she gets mad and tells me that it is not my business and that I ... (72 words)

How do I tell him I am not ready for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - im 19 and a virgin ive been seeing this guy for 3 months now and im really shy how do i tell him im not ready for sex just yet without completely destroying him, i mean is there any nice way to put it... (45 words)

My boyfriend won't give me oral sex, should this be an issue?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - Should I make my boyfriend's unwillingness to give me oral sex an issue? First, I go down on him quite a bit, and enjoy it, so I feel like in that respect it should be reciprocated. However, in the past at least, oral sex has never made me orgasm so it isn't essential, and ... (212 words)

Should my former Art Teacher, now lover, move schools?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I'v just finished school and I'v been attracted to my Art teacher (34 years old and not married or in a realtionship) for 3 years. At our school valatictory dinner (which is a leaving dinner for students, parents and teachers before leaving exams) I ened up back at his ... (185 words)

We've broke up but I still want her back! Is it foolish for me for thinking she will?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - Hey guys, My gf broke up with me about 2 months ago, i'm 22 and she's 21. When we dated, we did everything together and have been through so much together. All those times that i spent with her was the happiest moments in my life so far. When she broke up with me she sai... (399 words)

I'm not physically attracted to my wife like I used to be!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - I am not physically attracted to my wife like I used to be. Is there hope for restoring physical attractiveness? My wife and I have been married almost 5 years. We are both around 40. We have only had intercourse eleven times this year. I am sexually ready, but turne... (149 words)

Sex with him is painful and has caused me to bleed! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

15 November 2006 (M) - I've been going out with my boyfriend now for just over a month, but we're having terrible trouble having sex. My boyfriend is not my first sexual partner, but everytime we attempt to have sex the pain is unbelievable. I've slept with men more well endowed than my boyfrien... (104 words)

Should I ask the girl he texted what happened between them? I feel like I wasn't told the whole story.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - hi, i posted a question on 8th march 06, the title was There is agirl calling and txting my boyfriend, he says they are just friends, is this true? i got 2 replies, i know it was a while back but im having the same feelings about the situation, what shall i do? my boyfiend has ... (130 words)

If I spend the night we might have sex again and I want to wait. Now he feels hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend, but we slept together last week and now I still want to be with him I just think that waiting until marriage to have sex is a safer and better idea for me right now. He said he was fine with that, but got hurt when I said I wasn't going to spend ... (108 words)

I lost my virginity to him, should I go out with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - Hi i recently lost my virginity to a good male friend of a 18 mnths we are really close and last week he disappeared and i was so worried, when he turned up we spent the eve together and snuggling in to watch the tv developed further. The problem is he has had this crush on me ... (178 words)

I really want a vibrator, does that mean Im weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

15 November 2006 (F)

- Okay, so, I really want to get a vibrator...but I am only 16 so I cant go into a sex store to buy one...what should I do? How should I get one? Am I weird for wanting one? Or is it kind of normal? I feel weird about it and dont want to tell anyone. ... (58 words)

I have feelings for my partners brother!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - ok here goes!!! My partner and I are very happy but recently have been getting feeling for my partner's brother :( We flirt all the time and have such laughs. He has also admitted his feelings and this is just an awful space to be in. What can I do?? ... (50 words)

what do girls look for in guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

15 November 2006 (?) - i really like this girl. i'm 16, she's 14. we only met once before. we had a nice chat. now were meeting again with mates for evening out. what do girls look for in guys? any tips? i want to leave with her number. what qualities do girls look for? as much info as possible ... (56 words)