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writes:Hello. Here's the story, My girlfriend told me that she wouldn't be seeing my the next night after I get off from work. I asked her why and she said she'd be busy. I merely asked what she was going to be doing and she gets mad and tells me that it is not my business and that I shouldn't be asking questions. Was I wrong for asking what she'd be doing? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (15 November 2006):
 It all depends how you asked and if it's been a problem in the past, I mean possesiveness or jealousy. IF it hasn't, you have every right to kow more or less where she might be going. Unless there is some underlying issue, she shouldn't mind telling you either. Again, as long as it's not been a problem before.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (15 November 2006):
 i dont think its wrong to want to know where ur signaficant other is upto, but the way the question is being asked might reveal a lot, maybe ur tone changed and she felt like being controlled, and all she wanted was just some time for herself, and telling u it was not ur business was her defense just to let u know u dont own her.
were u angry when she said she cant see u? did u feel provoked by her response and demanded to know all this? i think bfore u ask her what she is hiding try to assess how u approached the situation u might be the cause although it doesnt excuse her behaviour. maybe she did provoke u bcos she is planning a surprise for u and knew if she act the way she did u will never gues, there might be a lot of reasons or no reason at all. i say handle this maturely if u really want to get to the bottom of this so that there are no regrets afterward. good luck
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reader, jack23 +, writes (15 November 2006):
 I do not believe you are wrong for asking, after all you are in a committed relationship and so should be open with each other. I would be curious of what she is doing, doesnt mean she is cheating, but possibly doing something she feels embarressed about.
You should sit down with her and talk to her about it to try and find out what is going on, dont pester her too much. If that fails try another means of finding out what is going on, else it will just nag at you.
good luck :)
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reader, hot85 +, writes (15 November 2006):
No, that wasn't wrong of you to ask her that. I think thats perfectly normal. You said she pretty much so ripped into when you when u asked your gf what was she going to be doing that night, to me if you haven't had any of these kind of problems before/in the past with her, i think that there might be something else or someone going on in the picture, behind you back maybe.
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reader, lovestough +, writes (15 November 2006):
definitely not! all you wanted to know was what she was doing, it is not a crime to be interested in what your girlfriend does. if she isnt able to tell you what shes doing then maybe she has something to hide! your in a relationship and should be honest with eachother about everything, even about where your going or what you,ll be doing. on the other hand dont make her feel like you need to know where she is 24/7 girls like their space and just because she isnt seeing you 1 night is not a crime!
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