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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I ask her out without seeming uncool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

24 November 2006 (?) - i really like this girl who is 14. i'm 16. we met once before. havent really after again. had a good chat for about 2hours. after there's just been smiles and hi's when we go past each other in school. i want to ask her out before xmas! i got her msn, but we talk once a week ... (180 words)

I need to reject my ex bf's advances? How do I overcome all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I need to learn self-control when it comes to my ex, as he certainly won't. It seems all he wants to be is friends with me, then he'll get with me as soon as he's single because he thinks I'm a great shag. I have some feelings for him still but I don't think I want a ... (123 words)

My male friend has jokingly implied, .we have something going on. This concerns me because ..he's married!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F)

- This male friend of mine has on a couple of occassions implied something has been going on between us. A couple of examples once when i saw him about 3 times within 24 hours he commented on it and said people will talk another time when i was with a friend and he spoke t... (124 words)

Is this guy playing me for a fool or...does he really want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my bf about 9 months ago. even after all this time, it still hurts as if it were yesterday. We have had alot of ups and downs since our break-up, things that have made the situation even worse at times. There are times when we can have real heart to heart talks ... (254 words)

Was I just a holiday fling or does he really love me, like he says he does??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - i meet this boy on holiday and ever since we have been really close and he confessed he loved me and i feel the same but when i got back from my hols and added him on msn i found out he has a girlfriend but he says he still loves me and i guess i'm just confused about all this ... (77 words)

He has 2 other girls he's having sex with...am I stupid for being in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - i cheated on my ex boyfriend but we got back together. after 5mths he broke up with me but we still have sex with each other only to find oue that he has had sex with two other girls and the last girl he had sex with still calls him leaving peronals messages like baby--- and so ... (75 words)

I have chosen to 'avoid' my ex bf and his new gf..friends tell I am behaving rudely! Is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I was with my my ex for about ten years. When we broke up he moved on to someone else really quickly. Although I was really hurt I have wanted nothing to do with him since the breakup. I felt that because he replaced me so fast I wanted him out of my life...no friendship thank ... (177 words)

I cheated with a guy at a party...I don't know what to do . Will My bf dump me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I need help im beside myself. i have done such silly things. at my friends fifteenth, i cheated with a guy. he has a gf and i have a bf and i dont no what to do i no i'm an idiot but my bf will dump me and my friend will hate me. it was a mistake and now im stuck..... (73 words)

She laughs at my jokes and we have fun! Should I ask her for her phone number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - Hiya! Im 18 and i need advice on wot to do with a girl that ive grown to like. On monday i started a new job and i am being trained in a group of six people. However i am the only guy in the group. Over the past five days ive grown feelings for one of the girls in the gro... (200 words)

Want this friend to be my sex buddy--is this wrong and what do women really think of the sex buddy concept?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - ok so I met this girl with a bubbly personality. I find her really attractive too (even if she does carry a bit of weight - no offence) but I don't want a full blown relationship. Trouble is I can't stop dreaming about her as a sex buddy. Is this wrong of me? how do I tell her ... (73 words)

A new baby and confusion and hurt feelings over this child's 'surname". Help me deal with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

24 November 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend had a divorce 2 1/2 yrs ago. His wife cheated on him and left him to live with the new guy. My boyfriend and his ex-wife has a 6 yrs old daughter. The ex-wife was never re-married, just living with that guy and the daughter. Recently, the ex-wife had a baby wit... (179 words)

He said he still likes me but also told me ..not to tell anyone! Not sure if I want to get back with him!

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24 November 2006 (?)

- HELP!!! im soo lost i dont know what to do. i had a bf for about 3 months, we really liked each other for awhile before we went out and although we only went out for a couple of months, we were both in love with each other . we broke up because things were getting out of hand ... (224 words)

Been with her 11 months..what can I do to make this relationship fun again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - hey, ive been with my gf for almost 11 months and i just want to know how much time should i spend with her per week. the thing is that i could only see her on week end (friday,saterday,sunday) and she says that she would like to go out with her friends sometimes too. the thing ... (93 words)

I think he's spending way too much times at his ex's place...they both seem to think I have a problem because of this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I live with my partner who I met 5 years ago and we have a young son. My partner has a 10 year old daughter from a previous relationship who I accept and love and comes to stay every other weekend and in school hols. We have a good relationship and I get along with her mot... (577 words)

Why do I feel this strong connection to him..when all I have been with him isjust friendly?

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24 November 2006 (F) - I am a mature student at Uni and have a major crush on a guy (few years older)and it is driving me insane. There is no way that I can make a move in this case (long story) so am waitng to see if he is interested. Why do I feel a strong connection when all I have been with him ... (115 words)

How should I move when I'm on top?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - When having sex and I'm on top I don't really know what movements to make, like I move my hips forward and backwards quickly but my boyfriend once said to me "Can't you try something new? And move differently?" so I think he was kinda getting bored :S He's much more experi... (99 words)

Feel unhappy most of the time we're together, yet as soon as we're apart I miss him and can't wait to see him again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and we are always falling out with one another. We don't see one another very much (for 2 hours on some weeknights and all day Saturday) but we just ruin the time we spend together because we argue over the most stupid thin... (256 words)

My current partner wants me to cut down on my visitation with my little daughter! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I feel as though I am in an impossible situation and don't know which way to turn, can you help! I divorced my wife earlier this year, we have a child between us who is three years old and who I see on a regular basis. I now live with my current partner and her ... (172 words)

I feel sick, my breasts are tender, I'm always hungry...am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - i feel sick all the time my breast are tender and i still feel hungry after i eat but i have my period not like always its really light not spotting im bleeding but not like usual could i be pregnant? i took a test and it said no but i was pregnant with my daughter for almost ... (100 words)

I broke it off with my cold hearted gf..but I find the loss so hard to cope with! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6102 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - Hi, everyone, I have been in relationship with my partner for 2 years. I have to say, from the first few months of knowing her I felt that we might not be right for each other, as I started to read some signs which wasn't feeling right!, but I kept saying to myself no one is... (622 words)

Will this feeling of hatred toward his and his mistress's baby daughter.. ever go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - well my daughters father cheated on me had a baby with another woman. I despise this baby every time i look at her i cringe i want my daughter to know her lil sister but i know i will never accept her and i fear i will always treat her different which is not fair to the baby i ... (124 words)

I've cheated on my partner with his friend! He's ending our relationship and I don't know what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - ive recently cheated on my partner with his friend our relationship has revolved around him and his friends for so long i just didn't know what i was doin i love him very much and we have a small daughter he took me back initially but now has told me he wants to end our ... (80 words)

I think she is seeing someone else and she is brushing me off. I think I love her but is it too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - Hello, I am 28yrs old, have been in many relationships. I started dating a 32 year old about 2 months ago. Things were going great with us, so I thought...one day she was upset at the fact that I was not being affectionate with her and didn't kiss her when i saw her, hold her... (413 words)

Ladies....do girls prefer nice guys or badass guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - hey do girls go for nice guys or abit of a bd ass guy?... (14 words)

Should I be worried about the mysterious texts from a woman, on his phone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I found texts on my husband's phone from a woman I don't know arranging for them to meet up. I asked who she was and was told "She's no one". He has since deleted these texts. I am worried something is going on. Should I be?... (49 words)

When I'm alone..I'm horny! But with my bf..I don't want sex! What's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I never want sex with my boyfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we started having sex after a month. The problem is I never want to have sex with, I'm not sure whether it's because maybe I'm not truly physically attracted to him? When we do have sex ... (156 words)

Been thinking of a past lost love..does this mean I am falling out of love with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - Am i falling out of love with hubby? Moved Aboard 6 months ago with my hubby and daughter and are feeling a bit lost. I know we love each other but dont seem as close and now i am getting thoughts about a lost love am i falling out of love with my hubby? i am 23 and hubby ... (102 words)

I'm worried my husband of 20 years has cheated on me! What should I do?

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24 November 2006 (F) - i am so worried i think my husband of 20 years has cheated on me and i can't prove it its eating me away he was on a business trip about one month ago even though he hugs and kisses me during the day when it comes to bed time he either goes before me or after also i have ... (127 words)

I am sooo jealous of seeing my best friend with other girls! Why can't I just be happy for him..this is tearing me up inside!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F)

- I am 18 years old and I am sooooo jealous seeing my best friend with other girls because I really really really like him. I have liked him more then just a friend since I first met him and seeing him with other girls, even ones who are just friends tears me up. I can't stand ... (427 words)

His ex left him a message-saying they should now talk as she feels ready to discuss things. Discuss what? Shoud I be worried and doubtful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F)

- Hi all, Well could do with a bit of help myself to-day. Its mine and my b/friends first christmas this year. Neither of us like christmas, but he has kids with his ex, who may want him there. As his ex is still clinging on for dear life, i dont want him to go there all day.... (346 words)

My face goes red when I'm embarrassed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and whenever someone embarresses me i go bright red! i hate it, i go so red it looks like my face is going to burst! how do i stop this? its getting me down...... (39 words)

My bf ignores me--is it a bad thing to enjoy the attentions of other guys? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I have been having mixed feeling about my BF of almost 2yrs. off and on for awhile. I feel terrible but he ignores me and plays games all the time. I really have this craving to go and just hang out with other guys in a friendly way. I just want to mingly with other guys ... (456 words)

I have a long distance bf who I love a lot! Have apprehensions about moving to him...help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

24 November 2006 (F)

- I really need your help! I am in love with my best friend who lives ages away from me! He lives like about 12-14 hours drive which equals to about a 2 hour plane trip. I have felt this way about him for quite a while now. Since about July I think. However when I first met him,... (486 words)

I feel worthless and stuck in this nowhere relationship. Need advice on what I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have two small children. One is 16mo. and one is 2mo. He turns me down for sex, can't stop looking at other women, hides naked pics of other women and throws mine out. He lies about where he is. He goes out all night and doesn't come home and lies about it ... (295 words)

He ended his relationship with another because of me-said he still loves me! I'm not sure I want this..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - About 5 yrs ago i had to make a choice between two guys to decide whom to date. One was my father best friend son and the other i met in school and have know for several years.I didnt follow my heart i allowed myself to be pressurised by my parents to chose their friend's son. ... (248 words)

We used the pull out method!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - okay, so im 15 and my boyfriend have been together for 3yrs. we had sex for the first time on tuesday. we didnt use a condom, he pulled out. but i think he mightyhave came a little. i didnt get my period yet this month. it is pretty irregular, and ive missed it before. im ... (83 words)

I'm having problems pleasuring my girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been having sex for the past 4 months. Before her I was very sexually active with my previous girlfriend, and I never had any problems at all. With my current girlfriend I can not get her to orgasm. She is now on the pill so we have unprotected sex. I ... (186 words)

I give him head-I take him places-I lend him money..but he has no time for me. Why is he doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - ok here is my deal.... i am a very lonely college student that hasn't had a boyfriend in two years. i have been used by guys in some many ways and i know it. sometimes I did sexual things for them thinkin i could get them that way. Yeah, doesnt work. but here is my delay, i ... (208 words)

I love him, despite the fact he loves another woman! What should I do--wait or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - Me and my husband of 6yrs have currenlty separated?We have a 5yr old son together and We kind of has some problems coming from jealousy he took this girl he worked with and her kids and our son fishing and to the park one day while i was at work and spent my money on them. I ... (281 words)

I'm paranoid about this mark... was it lipstick on his collar?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I am in a relationship with someone for about a year. I realize that i have insecurity and trust issues with him. Although in the past he has not given me any reason to not trust him, I developed a habit of looking through his cell phone to see who he is calling or who is ... (374 words)

How can I prove my love? Or should I let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - My husband of 6yrs who i have a 5yr son by has cheated on me with a woman he works with and i gave him plenty of oppurtunities for him to tell me and he didn't. Now he tell's me there will never be a chance for me and him cause he's in love with her. I dont' know how to accept ... (107 words)

How can I get rid of a crush I know I shouldn't have?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - hey guys I'm 17 and about a year ago I got a "forbidden crush" on someone that is older than me (mid 20's?) just because he is so mature and nice and always greets me with a hello and smile. I am well aware he is married with a baby. I've never dreamed of anything happeni... (184 words)

Is bisexuality wrong?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - Hello! I just needed to ask this one question. One of my friends told me that she was bisexual, and well, she also told me that one of my other friends, one of my best friends, was bi too. I had always thought that my best friend was bisexual, but I never confirmed it. She also ... (97 words)

I know that I've changed from my lying ways... now how do I convince my wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - I lied to my wife for all of our realtionship.We have been together for 2 years and married for one. I stopped lying to her but she still thinks that I'm doing it. I'm not sure on what to do. She told me last night that she wants a divorce, so that she can find someone that ... (127 words)