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writes: my boyfrend bought my best mate a bday card and didnt get me n e ting 4 my bday cz he sed he was skint! i just feel reli upset nd i dont knw if i shuld say n e ting! nd he always says tings like hw is ex or these gals are always askin him 2 go out with him! nd it makes me feel small, i love him thou wot should i do? HELP Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): Tell him to get lost!!! There are a lot of really lovely lads out there. This one is not worth it. Do it soon. Take care
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (15 November 2006):
 I think you should ask him why he behaves like this and to correct his behaviour if he doesn't you will have to dump it or it will hurt your self steem I used to go out with a boy like this and darling i do not recommend it to last long if he goes on like this in the end u'll end up thinking he is right and that is not a solutionbe brave and talk if it doesn't work he is not the only man on earth
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reader, weetel06 +, writes (15 November 2006):
right this i what you should do you should go to him and ask him why he gets your friends stuff and not you and if and if he continues just dump him there are plenty of boys out there who will go out with you ok just think about it bubi xo
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reader, mitta  +, writes (15 November 2006):
I think this is a pretty good sign that he takes you for granted. He feels that he has to work harder for other people to like him than he does with you. In a way its a good thing, it means he knows you really like him. But in another way its manifests like giving your friend a card but not you. You can buy birthday cards for about 50p, or he could have even made you a special one by hand or on the computer.
If you are upset by this (which is understandable) I would tell him that you are. What he did is really not fair, and not having any money is a really poor excuse. Make him work a litle harder for your affections, then he will appreciate you more.
Hope this helps, good luck x
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (15 November 2006):
 Hi Anon,
sounds like he doesn't have much respect for you, play him at his own game ..talk about guys liking you and asking you out ..and see how he reacts if he don't bat an eyelid and seem like he don't give a damn then im afraid he cant be that much into you as you think, and id seriously think about moving on from this relationship, its very mean of him to send his best mate a card and not his girlfriend and his escuse being his skint, im sure he could have borrowed money from a member of his family seeing cards don't cost much,id have second thoughts about this guy hunny , seeing as his putting you down.
good luck
xLEAHx
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