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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really want to ask her out. Any ideas how I could do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6152 days ago

13 November 2006 (?) - i fancy this girl i met on my mates birthday. only problem is she is 14, i'm 16. she was very nice and close to me when we met. at school she always gives me a smile etc. i've been invited to go out with the girls at cinema, bowling, eating out. my mate is the girl i fancy ... (158 words)

He a lot older and he wants to marry me. But I feel..I should explore more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - hi, im a 19 year old girl and i have being going out with my 27yr old boyfriend for two years. i look older for my age and am quite mature for my age so initially my boyfriend didnt see a problem with the age gap.me on the other hand, i did cos im paranoid about wat people ... (190 words)

Should we stay together or break up while he's away for a year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is going away for a year. He wants us to stay together and says that he doesnt want to be with anyone else, is it posssible for a young man to stay faithful for so long?! His friends are really immature and party alot!and when he's around them he is slightly ... (148 words)

My bf is in jail and my ex keeps trying to get back with me! How do I tell my bf what's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - i am currently in a relationship and it is was goin really well i am really happy but last month my partner got sent to jail and ever since my ex has been hassling me to get back with him i have insisted i am happy where i am even tho he is inside but he wont leave me alone i ... (169 words)

He avoided answering me about a sexually explicit text I saw on his phone from another girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I was using my boyfriends phone to make a phone call and once I was done I looked at his phone and saw my name that I called and then saw a message from another girl. So I looked at the message and saw that is was pretty sexual and explicit. I had heard the girls name before ... (221 words)

He makes excuses so I can't go to his place - do you think he still lives with his son's mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Hello, I would like to ask if my man is being secretive about his living situation? We have been together six years and my boyfriend comes to my house at least five times a week. But there are at least two days that he doesn't come by or call. He has a son and I have never met ... (122 words)

He texted Natalie...and I'm not Natalie!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F)

- Short 1 here. Am i being too over paranoid? Or is it a stupid question ! My bf just sent me a message sayin - not 2night natalie, speak later my names not natalie!!!!!!!!... (36 words)

My ex said she needs space - then I saw her with a good friend of mine!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Ok i've never done anything like this before, but here goes......... I just recently(1 month and 8 days) had a (what I thougth was great) 5 1/2 yr relationship end.(Not by my choice obviously) Everything was going good. I was planning to be engaged to this person in dec. I ... (375 words)

What is being in love? I want to know if he really loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F)

- Tell me what being in love is!? I want everybody possible to tell me what i should look for to know whether my b/f realy loves me!? Please xXx... (31 words)

What do people think of a 21 year old girl who has never even been kissed? Opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I would like some opinion on my situation. I'm 21, and I've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, and obviously am still a virgin. It's because of lack of opportunity (I'm rather pretty, and I've had people asking me out before) or religious belief, just that I don't want ... (124 words)

Will sperm rot teeth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - my question is; my girlfriend thinks that my sperm will rot her teeth. is this true? ... (19 words)

My online guy wants me to go to his place for our first meeting! Is it safe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

13 November 2006 (F)

- Iv met a man online and we have had conversations on the phone as well.We want to meet each other and see how we get on.Im 38 and he is 45,he has a studio which he does his art work etc and he wants me to see it.I want to see them but i wasn't sure if i should go to his place ... (84 words)

I want a boyfriend but I'm scared of sexual stuff! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - i really want a boyfriend. ive had 1 about 3months ago otta skool and we did do stuff. even tho there are some people that like me im scared to go out with them because they are in skool and im scared about the sexual stuff but i dont know y. i talk to boys fine and get along ... (72 words)

They slept together w/ my drunken permission - I kicked him out and now I feel so alone! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend slept with me best friend and i was drunk and so i said yes it was fin but i left that night and she stayed there with him and two other friends and the next morning she left and he confessed to me that they hade sex and other incounters and so i kicked him out ... (106 words)

I'm torn between my current bf and someone else! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, ok i love my boyfriend to death! yes we fight sometimes but we always make up.. now i have this other guy who's really into me and im a little bit interested in him but i just don't know what to do! i couldn't live it down if i cheated! and if i lost my boyfrien... (71 words)

Am I normal or has my past made me "screwed up?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I was forced to 'touch up' my babysitter when I was about 10, and in a competely unrelated incident my Dad was sent to prison for sexual harrasment towards girls as young as 11 when I was younger (he never touched me in that way, but I had a lot of social workers etc. probing ... (181 words)

How do I deal with this shaving disaster??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Ok, this is kind of a wierd post, but I've kept things shaved 'down there' for about a year because my bf prefered it that way (now I do too). But, being clumsy, I've shaved a little too close to the actual opening of my vagina, and as a result hair has started to grow in ... (154 words)

I'm falling for someone else and can't bring myself to end it with my current bf!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 November 2006 (F)

- I dont know what to do. I'm in a bit of a rut with my current boyfriend. I've been with him since I was only 15 and I'm now 19. I feel like I've out grown the relationship and hes done some things in the past that i cant get over. The problem is that I think I want to end the ... (195 words)

I can't decide what I want to do about my ex! Please help@

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - How can I expect to move on if I don't know what I want? I broke up with my guy 6 weeks ago, loved him to bits, we were sex buddies for another month, then he got a girlfriend. He seemed a little confused as he can't seem to decide whether he wants to cut me out of his life or ... (482 words)

What if my new bf doesn't like my shaved pubic hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - when i was going out with this lad he asked me to shave my pubic hair so i did but now im going out with my new boyfriend and i dont think he knows what about if he doesnt like it?... (41 words)

I'm dating him but he's spending the night with his baby's momma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I dont understand. I have been talking with this guy for a few weeks, he is over every night and we talk every day getting to know eachother. i have a 3 yr old he has a 5 month old. well he says there is now feelings for the baby momma but yesterday he was spending the night ... (191 words)

I was abused as a child and now I am attracted to jerks! Can someone tell me how to boost my self esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Can anyone give me some advice, so that I can boost my self-esteem, and help myself in personal relationships? I seem to have a tendency to pursue exes who seem to hold no real interest in me? I'm not sure why I am like this - am 33 years old and have completely faile... (595 words)

We are inseperable, but there is a huge culture boundary! Opinions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I am 18 years old dating a 27 year old man. We have been dating for a couple of months. He lives in my apartment complex and we are inseperable. We are both very happy. But there are a couple of issues, aside form our age difference. I am Spanish and he is white, there is a ... (108 words)

Why does my bf act so differently now? Is it because I get so jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - My bf has totally changed way he acts, now i am always accusing him and getting jealous and the other day he said he doesnt love me as much as used 2. So i dnt give him any space its cos i love him and there is distance. he is always talkin to lassis and i get jealous. I cant ... (76 words)

I want to know if he fancies me. How can I find out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and im friends with this boy. I wanna know if he fancies me without asking him. But how do u know when a boy fancies u? i mean he flirts wiv me, pokes me, pushes into me gently... but he doesnt seem to notice me in the corridors or he doesnt seem to look around for ... (87 words)

My internet guy now tells me he is confused. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I have been talking to this guy over the Internet for the past two years. We've become very good friends spending 4-8 hrs per day together on chat/cam. This past summer her almost died in a car accident and after that decided to meet in real life to see what would ... (315 words)

He sends explicit texts to other women! He promised no more but now he's done it twice again, since then!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Hi Everyone, Need help... I have been seeing this guy for almost a year, we stay 2 hours apart.I lost my long term partner 4 yrs ago very suddenly. Anyway this guy whom i met on a dating site came into my life. I was so happy he made me feel fantastic,treated me well,romance ... (166 words)

We broke up so what do I do. NO contact or try talking to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I am 22 years old and my boyfriend on 5 years broke up with me about 2 weeks ago we never talk and I never see him i have read alot that if you want a man back then don't chase him and give him some time but i also read that if you do want a future with him then talk to him ... (121 words)

Am I selfish for wanting her to give me some attention and time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - I need help from females! My girlfriend and I have a good relationship and I trust her, without doubt. And this isn't about trust. Rather, lately, she is so busy I don't see her more than 2 or 3 times a week. She is 26 and in school 2 nights a week, also she has a good friend ... (283 words)

We told each other how much we loved each other..now I find out he lied!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - My botfriend has been in America for a month and gets back in a few days. While he was away i realised how much i missed him and that i do actually love him; i told him this and he said he missed me too and loved me back. i talked to him on the phone yesterday and he said that ... (128 words)

I need a full explanantion of what 'snogging' is? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Hi Im 13 Years Old And I Have Never Snogged A Boy All My Friends Have And im Going Out With This Boy And he keeps Goin In To Snog me But I Dont No What To Do People Say Just Slip Your Tong In There Mouth But Then What Do You Do With It ?? I Dnt Understand How Do You Actually Do ... (82 words)

My friends are turning on me and I don't know why! Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - my so called friends have been bitching about me and i dont know why, one girl has sent me a text saying you ugly bitch and other horrible things and recently one other girl printed off an msn conversation and they say im a liar. what do i do plase help?... (51 words)

He is disrespecting me and I found viagra and a girl's phone number in his car! I think he is cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Hi I wonder if there is anyone out there that can help me. My husband used to be so loving and caring, now since we got married he just seems to be like a jekel and hide i never know where i stand with him from one day to the next. He tells me he loves me but then is alwa... (297 words)

When a person keeps breaking up with you, does it mean that they don't love you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Is it ok to break up and get back together in a relationship? How many times is it ok to keep breaking up and getting back together and if the person your with breaks up with you, does it mean that they don't love you?... (45 words)

I'm a virgin so I'm pretty pissed that she didn't tell me that she hit both 2nd and 3rd base, in her past. Do I have a right to be mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - I'm a virgin and haven't even make out yet. I have a girlfriend who skipped first base and went straight for 2nd and 3rd when she was drunk. We were talking about the past and she told me about the time when she hit 3rd and she sort of described to me what had happened. Just ... (187 words)

My bf's daughter and daughter-in-law always tell him about their periods! I think this is so weird! Opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend which is older and has a daughter that is 34 yrs. old and married with a child. she always talked to her father in her teenage years about her monthly period because her mother was ill. her mother was confined to the house so i don't understand why she couldn't ... (269 words)

I love her but she wants things to stay as they are! I don't think I can keep this up much longer...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Hi Peeps I posted a couple of months back about i girl i met who was having probs moving out of a house in which her boy friend lived. She has now moved out and is now single. I have a huge problem. I have fell in love with this girl in a big way, i have never felt l... (233 words)

She's coming onto me in front of her bf...and he is encouraging it!!! What's going on?!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (M)

- I go to my local pub with my mum and dad once a week for the karaoke. A couple of months ago, this girl came in with her boyfriend and another guy, but was totally flirting with me. My mum and dad have known this girl as her and her boyfriend go into the pub around once a m... (361 words)

He ended it, then texted that he loved me, then said sorry about that! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months about a month ago. It was his decision and he texted me early yesterday morning to say 'I miss u x' and then 6 hours later he texts, 'Just read my sent messages. i'm soo sorry for sending that. totally not fair. i don't take it back but ... (88 words)

How do I stop being so obsessive? Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - PLese help, how the hell do I stop being so obssessive?? Im constantly thinking about my boyfriend, what he said, what he meant, pschyo-analysing it, worrying about it, worrying why he hasnt texted, called....will he dump me, what should I do to stop him.... I am going mad ... (54 words)

What does it mean when someone fancies you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Opnions please! What does it mean when someone fancies you? Thanks... (17 words)

He's not ready for a relationship but wants one with me later - I'm worried he just said this to make me happy! Opinions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Hi there, sorry this is long but hope somebody can help. Im in love with my best male mate. I have known him 4 months a short period of time but it was pretty much love at first sight for me we met in a club and chatted and he asked me if I would like to go for a drink with ... (388 words)

We scream and swear at each other during fights! What can be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F)

- Hi.. I'm engaged to a a guy I've been with for about 3 years. Our relationship is good except we have these blow up fights sometimes where we'll scream at eachother and swear, I know it's wrong to take it to that level, but sometimes he just makes me so angry! for examp... (187 words)

I'm in love with them both and don't know what to do. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

13 November 2006 (M)

- I am torn between my gf and my ex. I would like to get back with my ex, but am still madly in love with my gf. There are days when all I can think about is my ex and would give up everything for her, but other days, all I think about is my gf. Me and my gf are long distance an... (153 words)

Should I call him instead of waiting? Guy's opinions please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Ok want some feedback from guys please. I have been seeing a guy for couple of months, we have slept together etc. He usually contacts me and I rarely contact him or call him first. Do you think it is acceptable for me to call him and contact him first once in a while as lo... (91 words)

I've been having an affair for the past 18 years. Now I'm confused about his intentions! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I have been married for 15 years, but have been having an on / off affair with a male friend for 18 years. He and I are very close friends and my husband knows him. I have tried to stop doing this many times - but always end up back in bed with him. He is a musician and an odd ... (238 words)

I don't want to stay a virgin for too long! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - hi i'm a virgin and dont have much luck with girls and am woried that if a wait too long it will be awkward as my partner would most likely have alot more experience in the bedroom than me and i would feel lost any advice is welcome thanks ... (49 words)

If she loved me, why would she move out of the country? What can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Hi . I'm in a long-distance relationship that seemed to become stronger and stronger in time, regardless of the distance between us. A little while ago, she's been talking about going back to her home country, coz she kinda hates her current job. The thing is she told me ... (235 words)

My long distance boyfriend has got a lot of new friends and is having fun... How do I deal with this and stop being needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - Please, please somebody help me - it would be great to get a psychologists view on this, I know there are some of you out there!! I have been having a two year long distance relationship where we see each other every two weeks or so. Recently, he has made a lot of new frien... (237 words)

We used to be like rabbits, now there's hardly any sex. I think it may be because of someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (M)

- Sex with my girl has gone off. when i got with my girl 13 month's ago the first 6 month's was like 2 bunny's on heat all the time fucking very night doggy, on top everything and after the 6 month's past it droped alot to 6 time's a month (not good in my eyes) and then she got ... (225 words)

I'm physically ill because I cheated on her! What should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - ok i am dusgusting i did something so bad its eating me up inside. i have a great gf and ilove her so much, but i cheated! i never thought about it but when i was out my "best friend" slept round my house with 2 other people and we ended up cheating. i dont no why, i feel ... (162 words)

I broke up with my fiance and now she's devastated. I feel so guilty. What now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Hi, I feel so bad i just want to die somewhere alone. I got engaged to my girlfriend because she loves me to death and i thought that i would grow to feel the same way. I broke up on Friday the 10th three weeks before our marriage. She's completely devastated. I feel sooo gui... (60 words)

She broke up with her ex and I want her back. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - My ex just broke up with her boyfriend. Well, they did, now I don't know what's going on, whether they're trying to make things work or not. Either way, I knew they were not going to work out anyway. My problem now is, how do I win her back? I know I can't just come out ... (149 words)

My best-friends-who-are-a-couple have broken up! And I'm heartbroken! How do I help them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (M)

- I have two very close friends (we'll call them Jack and Jill) who have been dating for just over a year now. I've always known that they were one of those few couples in university that will probably go on to get married one day - they're just so perfect together! Yesterday... (357 words)

My ex cheats on his girlfriends with me, what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I dated a guy when I was younger for about two years and we eventually became engaged. A lot happened and we broke up, but I've still been sleeping with him for 3 years after that. He's had several girlfriends during this time, and cheated on all of them with me. He doesn't ... (120 words)

My husband likes 'transexual' porn..should I just take the kids and go?

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - My question is...My husbands porn of choice is transexual porn - porn in general does not bother me...this is a bit disturbing, especially since I have made my views very clear including an ultimadum tranny pron or us. We have kids and I love him but I am ready to go. I am ... (62 words)

I have feelings for my ex and ended up in a threesome with her! Now I feel I'm being used. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - hey, basically i'm in a bit of a mess...i posted a couple of days ago about whether or not i should tell me ex (whom i live with) that i still had feelings for her. I decided on saying nothing, which was probably for the best. Well, this basically leads me to my next problem. ... (452 words)

His porn viewing won't stop and I cant continue being neglected sexually because of his own selfish habit. How do I tell him this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (F)

- my bf of 3 years wants to get adsl internet for his studies, the problem is that the account is going to be under my name, and i am concerned about the material he will be downloading once he get the adsl internet, in the past we have had adsl internet and he would spend so ... (311 words)

She told me to stop smoking weed... so I did.. then I found out she's been poppin' pills!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Hey i was with my girlfriend for 1 year and about 4 months, both 16 it went well till on the 9 months. it was all tearing apart she told me to stop smoking pot so i did and i found out she was taking pills everyday since then its never been the same so i left her and now have ... (82 words)

JUst broke up..so how long do I wait before dating another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - i just broke up with my bf. im fine with it, but i was wondering how longi should wait before i start dating another guy. i really like this guy but i dont want 2 hurt my ex-bf's feelings. how long should i wait before dating this other guy?... (49 words)

I'm a virgin and I'm so scared to have sex, he can't get inside! What can I do to relax?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now and we both want to start having sex. I am really scared though b/c I am a virgin. I get so scared that whenever we have tried I am so tense he can't get inside me. My legs seem to refuse to open. I am also scared of ... (70 words)

Fancy a girl... found her blog... discovered she has a boyfriend -- but isn't happy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - Hello, and here's my story :) It's a little long and I could add more detail, but I'll try and keep to the point. Ok, I'm a male, 32, from Sydney Australia. And there's a girl, 23 from Hong Kong (this has a small bearing on the story), whose studying at university here, and ... (483 words)