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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My BF works too much and I don't feel loved!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - my bf and i have been together a year. recently hes not had time with me. i c him on a saturday from 2 - 5 and a monday from 2.30-4. its not alot for me. i used to have whole days on a saturday only with him (long distance relationship) and we used to do so many good things ... (470 words)

I'm 36 and my wife just told me she loves me but isn't 'in love' with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - I am a 36 year old male with a 9 year old son. My wife has recently told me that she no longer finds me physicaly or mentaly attractive. She says that she loves me but is not in love with me? I am very hurt and confused and wondered what I can do to turn this situation around. ... (94 words)

Does this guy have feelings for me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I have feelings for a guy who goes to my college. I have the worse guy problems and I can never tell how a guy feels about me. When we first talked online he showed a lot of interest and even came to my dorm for the rest for the night (to watch a movie nothing more). The next ... (184 words)

I'm a virgin, he isn't - I don't know how much he will expect from me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - i have been dating a guy for 5months but we havent had sex and its because i dont know how much he expects of me. i am still a virgin and he is not.... please please please give me some tips on what to do?... (45 words)

My best friend just told me he loves me, but I love my boyfriend! How can I keep our friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I am in a relationship already and my best friend just told me that he is in love with me. Im in love with my boyfriend so the only thing that can happen is for my friend to stop loving me. My friend has been in a situation like this before and he said the only way for him to ... (100 words)

5 weeks until our baby is due, but I just found out he is cheating on me with his secretary!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (?) - I found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me for the past 3-4 months with his secretary. I caught him red handed. To top things off, my boyfriend and I live together and we are expecting to have a little girl in 5 weeks. I am at a loss as to weather or not i should ... (68 words)

Are the myths about penis size true?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Are the penis myths true? Does height and size of a man's hands and feet determine how big or small his penis is? I've heard if he's tall, or has big hands, or feet he will have a big dick and I've been checking out these areas on guys lately. I know it's terrible, but you ... (70 words)

How do you have phone sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend has recently gone away on business for a month but where still at the stage where we're madly in love with each other so he sugested he'd call me and we could try phone sex, im very nervous as ive never done this before and have no idea what to say to turn him ... (59 words)

The tests are back but the doctor wants to see me - about the weed or my depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - How is depression diagnosed in teenagers? I'm worried that my doctor won't take me seriously as I have smoked some weed recently and I had blood taken. The test results are back, and the receptionist on the phone said that I was clear of stuff that was tested for (glandular ... (111 words)

What are the symptoms of some STIs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Are there any STIs that cause you to feel rundown, dizzy, sick, and give you a headache? ... (17 words)

My old neighbour is back in town and I think he likes me, but he has a GF!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I've had this neighbor for 6 years now, and I used to like him even though we never really talked, but then he graduated high school and moved out to go to college two years ago and I didn't think of him much in those two years. This year, he transfered to a local college and ... (221 words)

We broke up 3 months ago, he got another GF but we kissed last week!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (?)

- my ex dumped me about 3 months ago, now he has a new gf and has been goin out with her for nearly 2 months. last week me n my ex kissed behind his gf back. bt hes actin like nothin happen now. i love him to bits and i havent stoped cryin since we broke up. should i tell him i ... (75 words)

Cheating-harrasment-lies...I'm in the middle of a bad situation and I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Please help me. My friend A told me she was seeing a friends husband B a couple of months ago but now its all finished. She is married and has four children and my husband and i were good friends with her husband and her. Problem started when a group of mums she hangs around ... (357 words)

I am sick of living with my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6107 days ago

28 November 2006 (F)

- i have been away for a year in australia and returned, living back with my family. usually its a quiet house but it seemed that everyone was home this weekend. it was like a big family christmas meal. no room. i had planned this weekend to spend some time with my boyfrien... (209 words)

How do I find out who this phone number belongs to? It was in his phone and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - My husband left me a few weeks ago I thought everything was fine, we are back together now but while we were seperated the mobile phone bill came and I noticed a number so I went though his phone and found it under the name jon so I phoned it and asked for Jon she told me he ... (162 words)

I want someone to like me back - any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - This is pretty embaressing. I'm 15 and haven't had a boyfriend yet. I would say I am friendly to everyone, but guys don't like me like that. I like guys and right now I have a crush on one inpeticular, I just don't know what to do. I am not nerdy at all. I get pretty good ... (149 words)

After having unprotected sex, there's blood in my urine and it's painful to go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - i had unprotected sex on saturday, (i know i know) and its been really painful to urinate since then and theres a bit of blood there too, its not my first time but im scared i could be pregnant. can someone please give me some advice? is this a sign that im pregnant or just ... (65 words)

When things are going perfect, he ignores me! He says it's just in my head - thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I'm very confused. I totally fell head over heals for this guy and everytime it seems things are going perfect he just all of a sudden ignores me at least for one day and then things are fine again. I think it is weird and I have brought it up more than once. He thinks it's all ... (88 words)

There is nothing wrong with him, other than I am a little bored

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now (we're both 20). For the past three months, we have spent literally 24/7 together. We have all classes together, are together even when not in class, sleep together every night, I don't even SHOWER alone anymore! Recently, I ... (282 words)

She's teasing me about my penis

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

28 November 2006 (M)

- hi there i am aged 19 and i have had sex for my 1st time just on thursday (23/11/06, but she wasnt a virgin and now shes teasin me about the length of my penis.... i have always have been worried about the size, and now im starting to feel self concious about myself. any hel... (64 words)

I think my student fancies me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

28 November 2006 (M)

- I am a high school teacher who's happily married and has a 2 year old son. I was doing some work after school when one of my Year 11 students came in. I'll admit for someone who is 16 she is attractive, but, I don't fancy her. The problem is that I think she fancies me. Late... (123 words)

Is it better to have a one night stand

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F)

- How do you open yourself to a person emotionally and tell you have little or no sexual experience despite your age? is it better to have a one night stand with an attractive bloke who offers but doesn't love you before you try to find stable ralationship or to try to make him ... (56 words)

He is trapping me into staying in the relationship - Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I have been trying to make things work with my current boyfriend who I have a baby with...I feel like I am completely uninterested in even trying anymore now that he is all in on trying to make it work...everytime I try to end it with him he continuously calls and text messages ... (163 words)

I used to be a player, but I've changed - but the girl I like doesn't believe me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - I use to be known as the high school player in high school b/c I was never ready for a serious relationship, Now im a JR in college and alot wiser, and now I've found a girl that I think may be the one, but she doesnt beleived I have changed my ways. She says to prove to her ... (73 words)

I want to confront my friend about her having an affair with one of our teachers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I'm really suspicious of one of my friends because i think she having an affair with one of the teachers at our school! Before you think its my over active imagination consider this: 1.she nearly called him by his first name (we aren't even in his class) 2.they are alw... (231 words)

He says the texts are from a coworker, but I know they're from another woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 8 years, having just married 3 months ago. Recently, he has been sending/receiving several text messages on his phone from some girl on the other side of the country. He claims all the calls are from some new guy at work who recently ... (487 words)

My bf and I never had the spark that this new guy and I have - I'm torn on what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for five years, on and off. The off times have been because after a while I tend to get bored and think I'm too young for committment and that I'm missing out on something. I'm 22. I always end up back with my fella. I do love him so much - he's m... (158 words)

I found he was looking for a "masseuse", but now he's pleading for my forgiveness!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and until last night I thought we were very happy. I was going through his sent emails innocently searching for a work-related one when i found a message he'd sent asking for an online 'masseuse' to send him pictures of her. He said he ... (246 words)

I want kids but he does not. We're very happy otherwise, so should we split?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I have just read questions very similar to my own but I still feel compelled to write. I have been with my partner for nearly 3yrs and I have to say that he is the most kind, sincere and funny man I have ever met. I am very much in love with him. The problem is h... (190 words)

After splitting to deal with his family problems, our relationship isn't the same. Should I give up on it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this guy and hes so perfect i love him so much.. we started of going out for 4 months and then we just split apart because he was having family problems and he said that he had to get some things straightened out and we will soon go back out.. and we ... (201 words)

I think everyone judges everything about me. It's ruining my life! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

28 November 2006 (F)

- Hi all. Okay, this is going to sound really (really, really) stupid, but here it goes: I have a huge problem thinking that people are judging me about everything I do or say. (And I mean EVERYTHING.) It has impacted me on so many levels that I don’t even want to talk to ... (430 words)

I want to meet someone who is not just interested in sex! Any ideas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6590 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Where have all the good guys gone? Anymore it seems like all guys are interested in is sex. why doesn't anyone want to take the time to get to know my personality? Please Help me...I want to meet someone nice. Where do i go?... (44 words)

He broke up with me then shut out everyone in his life. It hurts me to see him like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - What are reasons for guys to broke a perfect relationship up if there was no cheating involed? If he was so happy with me then why would he broke it off? We always got along there was no fighting or anything. I was the perfect girlfriend....... Im not materialistic and ... (280 words)

When I was drunk I threatened my friends with violence - how can I make it up to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - my best friend betrayed me over a girl he's known for 2 months and ive known him for 7 years.He is 22 she is 30 and she has 2 kids he is now living with her only after a month of knowing her.her best friend is my ex girlfriend,she finnished me because i said some things to my ... (210 words)

I love him to bits but i feel like i am a prisoner in my own home!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hi, i am a 31 year old with 3 children. the eldest two are from are previous relationship and are 10 and 9. i have been split from their dad for 7 years. at first it was difficult but we have been very good friends for the past 5 or so years. i now have a new boyfriend who ... (688 words)

My long distance bf cried to me about how I'm not the one! What do I do when I see him next??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Please help me I am desperate. My boyfriend of two years spent last night crying on the phone to me as he is worried I am not the one. He says he doesnt feel how he used to ( that he was sure I was his future and we were going to get married, etc) but he still loves me a... (272 words)

I'm disgusted my gf dated a player! How can I trust her after he showed up in town again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months and when we started going out it was so perfect. But then her ex showed up completely out of the blue from 80 miles away. I got an awkward phone call telling me that she was meeting someone to tell them to go away and she ... (170 words)

I'm a shy guy - so what's the best way I should hit on girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - How to hit on girls? I'm shy guy and I don't know what to say to girls. Usually I say ''How're you doing'' and then ''you're beautiful''. Then I don't know how to continue.. What should I say to a girl if I want to hit on her? How do I approach her? Usually I try to hit on ... (120 words)

I'm so depressed about all of the stress in my life - please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - my bf and i have been together for 8 years and have a one year old child, this year my mum died and as a result we take care of my younger sister. the whole year has been a struggle and we have argued a lot and are just not as happy as we used to be. he has no told me that he ... (159 words)

I've fallen for my straight friend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - I'm a young gay man and ive fallen in love with one of my straight friends. Were very close and get on well together and i realy want to tell him how i feel but i dont know if i should risk losing our friendship over this.He knows ive fallen for someone and wants to know who. ... (61 words)

My conservative friends jokingly call me a whore and it's really bothering me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - my new guy friends at the uni often tease me, they call me a whore and slut. i dont know why, they dont know me much its only our first yr. the only reasons i can think of is because i voice my opinions and am vocal about sexual stuff, i dress in revealing clothes although i ... (244 words)

I've slept with others before him and I feel so guilty about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6546 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - i have been dating this guy for 9 months, though a long distance relationship he is the best thing that has ever happened to me..he is just soo caring and sweet to me, we have talked about our past, he is a virgin where i am not, i have had sex with last two bfs of mine and ... (159 words)

My fella's ex wants him to give her money to buy their grown-up children Christmas presents! Thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hi i'll make this short. my fellas daughter has just told him that her mother wants him to send over money to her for xmas cus she cant afford to get her children stuff. we will be buying them big pressies anyway. but the money we send over will buy presents that are put under ... (128 words)

I'm dating my best friend's ex. She says he's a cheat - should I believe her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - what do i do? My best friend and her boyfried broke up about a month ago. And now im going out with him. she was totally into him before. now shes telling me that hes no good and he doesnt really care about me and he prolly has a gf somewhere else too. she also said that she... (119 words)

I want to have a bf, but being a goth doesn't help as the guys I know , all dislike me! What should I do -any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F)

- Hey need a lil advice from the guys really.... Um.. how can i start.... ive been single for a while now and i would really like a boyfriend but all the guys in my area/town hate/dislike me because i have a bad reputation (a castrator of all things and being emo/ goth really d... (162 words)

Before me, my wife had a real 'wild' past..trying to deal with it. Any advice?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 2253 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - We hear all this about men having chequered pasts as in 100 women , But I have the reverrse I am married to a woman who came clean and admitted to having sex with 16 different men most of the time these liasons were adulterous, some were one night stands. On some occasions she ... (183 words)

Why did my bf go on dating site. if he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Just found my long term boyfriend on a dating site. He started texing a girl, i found the messages, i knew something wasn't right. He tells me he loves me and its the biggest mistake of his life. I am very confused. Why did he do it? ... (51 words)

The lover I cheated with..owes me money and won't pay me back! Should I let this go or insist on it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

28 November 2006 (F)

- Hi there, I have recently broke off an affair, and the guy that I have been involved with has intially agreed to return the cash he owes me. Now that the time has come to pay me, he has changed his mind. I find this very annoying and made no bones abt it. I have been sendin... (149 words)

I like her but she's never alone! Why do girls travel in packs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - there is this girl i really like, she is in the year below me (probably about 6 months younger than me) and im in year 11. what do i do? i really dont nowhow to tell here, and why do women always travel in packs?? she is never aloun...... (49 words)

We have 2 small kids and she's ended the relationship 3 times this year. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - my partner has ended our relationship of 12 years for the third time in a year. she says she doesn't know what she wants. we have two small children.... (29 words)

How can you tell if you guy is lying to you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - How can you tell if you guy is lying to you ? ... (12 words)

I want us to get back together but he's so non-committal! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - It's been over a year since my boyfriend and I broke up. I broke up with him, and broke his heart. I have missed him for months and just recently told him how I feel. I still love him and want to get back together. He told me he does not want to get into any relationship right ... (287 words)

She says "I am like her brother"! How do I turn her into my gf as I really like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a 'friend' who i have been seeing alot lately whether it be a date, at my house for a swim or even we go shopping together. She has even called in sick at work just to spend the day with me (in my pool, lunch, then the movies). She is very sexy and i am almos... (172 words)

Like her a lot! What should my next move be, how do I know she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - I am 17 and met this girl at a party. We talked until she had to leave about eachother such as where we each work and interests and stuff like habits and experiences, which was a great time and we had alot in common. Next day I surprised her when she was working and we hugged, ... (214 words)

Having sex for 3 years and I never had an orgasm..what's it like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hey im 16 and i have been having sex since grade 9 and im in grade 12 now and i just wanted to no what an orgasum is i dont think ive had one and like to no about it ... (42 words)

He's changing! More tattoos, cut his hair almost off, taking a steroid..what's going on with my bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - What should I do my guy is getting more tattoos???? He has 6 now and he is wanting a quarter sleeve and that isnt the guy I started dating 6 years ago. WHen we first dated till now he has always wore khakis and stuff preppy. Now he is cutting his hair short almost all off, ... (265 words)

Robert is hot and intelligent..so how do I begin a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I like a boy named robert. he is hot and intelligent how do i jump into a relationship?... (18 words)

Two room mates..one is very nice..the other is very nasty! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F)

- I house share with two females, both are a year younger than me so they 22. They've known each other for about 13 years. I have been living with them for about 6 months. I get along with the girl whose house it is really really well. Everything is in her name and she's mature ... (247 words)

Been with her a year and I want to go to the next level ...but what is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - i wants to take my relationship to the next level with my girlfriend but I dont know what it is, We've been together a year now, we ain't married or engaged or have a baby ... (39 words)

Should I be insulted that he didn't orgasm after giving him a BJ for the first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hey i gave my bf a blow job for the first time the other day, but he didnt cum! he realy seemed to enjoy it, and i think i didnt everything right, however should I be insulted he didnt cum, or can boys enjoy BJs without cumming!! advicee plzz x... (51 words)

We broke up and now I think my aunt is trying to get us back together? How should I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6578 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I had been dating this guy, 3 years my senior, for about a year and a half. and everything was great, but over this past summer, i broke up with him b/c i fell inlove with someone else. we had a really bad break-up, but we were on and off a little while after that b/c i was ... (227 words)

Am I being paranoid or does my hubby really find me unattractive? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hi, I have been married for 4 years and we have a daughter together, i have two children from a previous marriage. when we first met sex was great, then i feel pregnant with our daughter and things were good. as soon as i had my daughter she is nearly 5, our sex life ... (383 words)