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Why cant i climax with my partner?

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Question - (15 November 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

im digging myself a deep hole i know will be hard to get out of. i have never cum during sex, but i said that i have. i think i am in love with my boyfriend and i think he knows i dont cum, and i still say i do, i need help. what is wrong with me?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007):

My wife NEVER has an orgasm from penetration alone. It requires manual stimulation during intercourse for her to enjoy an orgasm. My 100% method for my wife is oral. If I give her an oral orgam, the intercourse that follows is better for both of us.

The key to good sex is communication. Tell your man what you want. Try oral on him and ask him for oral in return. My guess is that good oral stimulation will bring you the orgasms you want with the man you love.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006):

same thing used to happen to me with my boyfriend... you need to stop worrying about it and just relax and enjoy urself! if you're thinking about it constantly then it will become an isssue, it will happen though dont worry and there's definately nothing wrong wih you! its not as easy for women as it is for men. Maybe if your worrying about lying to your boyfriend then try leading him and get him to hit the right spots for you. 'they say' that women need more foreplay so get him to treat you before you get into it! x

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