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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does my ex treat me like I'm good enough to screw but not good enough to commit to?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - My ex and I made-out and fooled around. Help! So here's the deal... my ex-bf showed up at my place on Thursday night (unexpected) and we were talking and then he initiated a make-out session that included a lot of fooling around. My clothes were pretty much off. Then on friday, ... (308 words)

Why are my feelings for this new guy, so slow in coming? Is it because I was hurt by my ex bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - I have been seeing my current boyfriend for about 4 months now. I dont feel like I love him, or that i am anywhere near close to loving him yet. Do you think that this is odd or can love take a long time to arrive? I have only been in love once before, and in that ... (364 words)

He want's me and then he doesn't! Am I being taken for a ride here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - i was with my ex for two years he moved away for a year of this and we gradually drifted apart i recently got back in touch with him and met up and it was back to the way it was. But sometimes he tells me he stil loves me and wants me forever the next i get the impression he ... (80 words)

Done missionary, done doggie..now he wants me on top! I need tips on how to do this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - I've been seeing this guy on and off for a while and we've had a lot of sex, but mostly just missionary and doggie-style. Lately he's been really pushing me to be on top. The only problem is, I haven't ever been on top before and I don't really know what I'm doing. I've ... (104 words)

He's gone away for a bit-do you think this will make him realise how he really feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - me and my boyfriend split up a few weeks back, he says hes confused bout how he feels..we have been together around 3 years now, and hes not sure whether he sees me as a best mate or as a partner. he has recently gone 2 see a friend of his, who lives far away for a few weeks, ... (164 words)

Domestic abuse is something I endured and it needs to be addressed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (?) - I am so sorry to post this but I think this matter needs to be addressed. A couple of night ago I suffered domestic abuse at the hands of my partner and not for the first time either.This time i was told by the police to go to my gp and document all the bruising and no it wasnt... (195 words)

About to lose my virginity to my bf. How should I prepare...natural, trimmed or shaved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F)

- Ive been dating this boy for a long time now and ive already decided that im going to lose my virginity to him as we love each other alot!! the thing is though i asked him if he likes shaved or natural and he prefers shaved but he said its up to me whether or not i want to ... (93 words)

Is he or is he not interested? I'm confused by his lack of interest and distant behaviour!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F)

- Hey. This guy iv been seein 4 abt 8-9 weeks now has just moved house (down the road from me) and now he seems kinda distant from me. B4 he moved he was tellin me how much he likes me and was guna try but now hes moved (been there abt 1 week) hes been funny with me like....not ... (192 words)

We came close to making love. Do you think I'll have another chance and feel like I did that night again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Hi. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We're in our early twenties and we are very much in love. I'm a virgin, he's not, and he's been wonderful the entire time about not pressuring me into anything im not 100% comfortable with. We've only ever gone up to oral ... (248 words)

I'm auditioning for a play. Any tips on how to calm my nerves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - Im 16 and have this huge ambition to be a succesful film actor. I really believe I can do it. The dream fills me with adrenaline and I cant stop thinking about it. But Im scared of leaving the security of home to do it, and my parents dont have faith in me. I believe its almost ... (86 words)

Her one night cheat doesn't bother me! Does that mean I am not in love with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - i thought that i was in love with my girlfriend of 5 months but since we split up a couple weeks ago, she had a one nighter and at first i was hurt but now it hardly bothers me at all, if i loved her should i still be feeling hurt or is this a sign that it was never love with ... (63 words)

How likely is it to pass on HSV 1 during oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Quick question: how likely is it to pass on HSV 1 during oral sex? Coldsores aren't sexually transmitted and i know they're generally located and stay above the waist, but could one contract it during oral? thanks so much!... (40 words)

I was doing all the chasing so I eased back. Now he hasn't contacted me at all! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - hiyaa iv been speaking to this boy on msn for 2 years now, we just clicked and we both really like each other, we meet up regulary now and we always talked everyday, txting, msn, phone but i got the feeling that i was the one doing all the chasing! so i stopped texting him and ... (162 words)

My ex bf and I have feelings for each other..but we both have partners. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now, things are great. I recently bumped into my ex boyfriend whom i was with for 11 months before the guy i am with now. We've become friendly again, and im beginging to become attracted to him again. I still love him. Ive ... (75 words)

Why is the memory of this affair still playing on my mind a year after it happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - hi guys its me, the one who submitted i broke off my affair, my b/f knew about it and now i'm thinking about it all again (16/11/06). first of all thanks for your advice, dont know wether i made it clear before, the affair lasted 5 months in total, and like i said it was a ... (228 words)

He's said "I'm fit and buff" on msn..but I know he has a gf! Is he just joking or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F)

- Ok So Theres This Guy At School Which I Think Is REALLY Cute But He Has A GF But The Thing Is Sometimes On MSN He Say "Your Fit" or "Buff Thing" Etc.. And Then Goes Offline. Is He doing This As A Joke Coz Hes Really Popular And Im More Of A Quiet Girl But I Do Have Alot Of ... (143 words)

Blood on the sheets after sex with her! Could I have done something by accident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - Hey, Whilst having sex recently with my girlfriend we noticed blood on the sheets and realised she was bleeding from her vagina. She had come off her period a day or 2 ago. Just wondering what the courses could be? Could i have cut her by accident whilst using my fingers... (54 words)

I think I'm gay or am I bi? How do I go about finding this out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - hi. i have been gay since i was 13 however for a long time now the thought has been on my mind that i may be bi. My feelings aren't just physical but emotional as well. I havn't done anything about following up how i feel purely because i don't know how to.I need to consider... (108 words)

I'm 12 years old and I have sexual feelings for my bf! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - I think I want to have sex with my boy friend, but I'm only 12-13. I'm having these sexually feelings for him and dreams too for over three months.What should i do? I've been dating him for years, like since I was nine or ten. But it's the fist time I had feelings for him... (116 words)

Husband has fallen for my cousin! We've had problems and he loves her. Should I just call it a day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - My husband has fallen in love with my cousin. They know I know. I threw him out and he stayed with his sister for a while. We talked and decided to give it another go. I know he still loves her, I think they talk and may be see each other. I only had him back to keep the family ... (90 words)

I was cheated on! Again! I've lost hope in men..are there decent ones out there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F)

- well it happened again. I was cheated on. I went out with this guy who i really liked. We got on so well most of the time. However we started arguing one week he decided he'd had enough and we split up. Im only young 15 he was nearly 16. I found out that he had been going out ... (106 words)

We had an argument over the barmaid with the ugly tattoos and he refuses to apologize!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Hi My b/f and i were at a bar that was somewhat grundgy. The bartender had these ugly tatoos on her arm and something in her lip and wearing leather so her bo*bs can hang out a little. And it pretty much looked disgusting. By the time we were ready to leave she asks about w... (361 words)

He doesn't seem to have time for a relationship. Should I just walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - i've started c in a guy since august, we get on really well n av lots of fun but when i asked him where we stand e said were just c in each other e dont want a relationship coz e aint got the time for it. i really think im fallin for im and dont no if i should just walk away b4 ... (71 words)

My bf and I made up after he cheated but..recently I gave another guy oral! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - I'm fourteen - 15 in january, but im really stuck. I was with this boy, for around three months, we weren't going out, but were together. My old best friend (now just friend) had a boyfiend a year ago called Sam, but they split up ages ago. She still loves him. And recent... (142 words)

I've fallen for my friend and only have three months to tell him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Help me please! I have fallen big time for a friend how do i tell him? im 24 he is 29 both single him newly single, he moves away soon (in 3 months)and very far away. i have really fallen for him but not sure what to do!dont tell him and enjoy the friendship but think what if ... (67 words)

I told my friend how I felt about her, now she never wants to mention it again! I can't just forget how I feel!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - I am 29 years old. I have a very close female friend that i have sat back and watch go through one terrible relationship after another. I have always wanted to ask her out but was afraid of what might happen. Well one day i told here how i felt about her and that i would love ... (189 words)

We got along well on MSN and then she blocked me! Why would she do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - hiya im 18 and sooo confused, i know im straight but about 2 years ago i met a girl, she lives in southampton and i live in birmigham so along way a way, but its hard to explain we spoke al day and got on realy well and she gave me her MSN so we could talk however she blocked ... (92 words)

Serious relationship with her but now..she wants space to experience things! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - Well, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 13 months and are have been a very serious relationship from the start. We've gone through a lot in our time together. We met in high school where we both went which was out-of-state from our homes. She is a half of a year behind ... (176 words)

He likes my looks and my abilities in bed! Does he want me or just my body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - I'm going through a really rough time at the mo and I don't feel i'm getting support from my friends or family. My bf supported me and made me forget my troubles but we broke up nearly 2 months ago. But we've been talking again, he got in touch and flirted and said he wants to ... (208 words)

My bf and I never see each other, and I fancy another guy. I feel so unfaithful! Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F)

- Im going out with this GORGEOUS guy and i love him loads im only 17 and im still a virgin, on the other hand, there is this guy at college he's is always dead nice to me and he brilliant, and i fancy him alot but im going out with this guy and i feel really bad but the guy that ... (109 words)

We're at 6 months of dating..I'm worried he'll dump me like my previous bf did!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F)

- I am really sad because Ive been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months and im terrified hes going to dump me. Im 16 and my last boyfriend dumped me after 6 months to the day! Im worried the same things going to happen again! Lately ive been a little more moany with my bf because ... (181 words)

He checks my phone to make sure I am telling the truth. What is his problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - One night I had a funky feeling that my son woke up (I wasn't home, I was out w/my boyfriend,I told him that I got a call to go home that my son woke up crying. He straight up took my phone and checked to see if it was true. He has never done anything like that before. And my ... (82 words)

torn between two best friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - i'v been getting to know this guy, but because he is still getting over his ex we are still quite distant from each other, but i said i would give him time! meanwhile i am falling for his best mate, who is showing me the attention that the other guy isn't giving me! because ... (92 words)

10 years and now she says its over :(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - my long term partner and i have been together for 10 years and we have two children together but now she say's that she does'nt love me any more and wants me to move out after christmas so as not to upset the children.the problem is that i still love her and dont want to leave ... (96 words)

Am i easy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - am i a slag for giving a guy a blowjob and swallowing even if i only met this guy 4 times? and is cum good 4 u? thanks xx... (29 words)

How do i tell my mate im dating the guy she fancies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - i have liked this guy on and off for months, and we started going out yesterday, but my best mate fancies him, how do i tell her???... (27 words)

ive turned to hypnosis to help save myself and my marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - My husband and i thought we were indistructable as we had such a strong happy relationship. But issues i have within myself have ruined the marriage. I've read up on so many relationship problems and solutions in an attempt to fix things but they aren't relevant as we never had ... (389 words)

He makes me feel old before my time - should i leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Hi I'm looking for advice. I am not happy with my life, i am 26 and i feel so sad like my life is slipping by me. i wish i was 17 again. i would do things so differently. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years now, we have split up a couple of time for short period... (678 words)

Christmas gift dilemma

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F)

- Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now. I have had his birthday come around and bought him the usual aftershave, but I really do not know what to get him for christmas!!? I don't know whether to get loads of little romantic things? funny things? or serious ... (61 words)

Dangerously in love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 November 2006 (?) - for some reason i'm so depressed. i was round my friends house, we are best friends. she has a 9month boyfriend. she was extremely upset because of her boyfriend. and she was cryin on my shoulder for 3hours. i really felt sorry for her, she said boys always break hearts, they ... (236 words)

I dont want to be a single mother but he cheated on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for six years and am nw eight months pregnant. I have just found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me for the last three months. I really don't want to be a single mother but this is not the first time and i fear that it won't be the last. ... (75 words)

blast from the past - but does she want me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - Six years ago my best friend went out with this beautiful girl which I had a huge crush on and then she ran away with another guy. Leaving him distraught. In april this year I saw her again and this after 2 children and a divorce. We hit it off and it was amazing we had so much ... (229 words)

Foreplay mishap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - hey im 16 and my g.f is 15 nearly 16 and when we are togther we do alot of forplay but the other night she was giving me a blow job and i came every where and was realy messy it went all over my top and jeans but she made me cum rele early in the first 5 mins where should i ... (76 words)

He treated me like dirt but he treats her like royalty - why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F)

- I live in a very samll town, so when my ex split up with me for another girl last year, everybody knew about it. I loved him so, so, so much and I could not accept what was happening so I wouldnt leave him alone. I begged him, cried to him, cried to his friends, hit his new ... (329 words)

i cant orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - I am 22 years old, and oddly have two kids... I come on this site, because I have never had an orgasm with masterbating.. I guess I dont know how to masterbate. And i would really like to know im im doing something wrong. People tell me that I cant push it. And when I masterba... (71 words)

Dating rules - are they right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - OK this one is for the guys. I was reading an article about dating rules and it states that asking a guy out is a definite no no. I personally think that any rules are nonesense however as I'm too chicken to ask someone out so I'm unable/unwilling to test this theory. Any ... (60 words)

My ex is giving me grief !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke up and ive stopped chasin him, now he talks to me about how angry he gets thinking about us and that he thinks i never really loved him, jealousy or plain angry? ... (37 words)

I care for my boyfriend but now theres this girl too i want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and i thought i loved him but now im not sure. I mean he's wonderful, everything a girl could ask for. Ever since I've been with him i haven't noticed any other man. But now I'm in trouble because I met this girl at work and i ... (117 words)

What do I do when I give her oral sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

19 November 2006 (M)

- HI!!! i hope u all can help me out on this one (especially guys and lesbians!!! :D): What am i doing when im down there by her crotch licking it??? advice? (sorry to put it so oddly phrased and child-like, but still, help?) thank you!... (48 words)

My girlfriend gave me a blowjob and am worrying about STDS!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

19 November 2006 (M)

- Hey everyone. i need to rest my conscience(sp), so help? Okay, me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while, and both she and i feel super comfortable with each other and i love her so much. But, on one of the recent days we were together, we were sort of....well....... (100 words)

He married to another but he is my soulmate! I'm giving up on all this..am I doing the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Should I give up my soulmate? We met in 2005 at work, but developed a close relationship over the next few months. We understood each other completely, often times without even saying anything. We stood by each other through problems and though we would have fights, we could... (152 words)

Ive loved and lost - but can i love him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - OMG! lately i've been so confused, i dont know what i want i dunno, it seems like im over my ex but then theres momements where i think about him, we still talk but we're kinda iffy with each other, we've told each other that we dont love each other anymore but we miss each ... (498 words)

I want out of this relationship but he refuses to believe me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - i am in a relationship for six years - on and off. Now I want out but i don't know how. i have tried telling, hinting ...the works. he refuses to believe that i want out...what do i do... (39 words)

I don't want to lose my ex as a friend but feel weird seeing him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - I think i might be falling for someone, so short after a break up and, i feel guilt like never before, i'm seein my ex next weekend and im not sure if i should because i might end up being in a really bad situation , i know that me and my ex wont get bak together, but... i dont ... (74 words)

I think I love my best friend, how can I tell her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

19 November 2006 (?) - i have this very close friend. she trusts me with everything, and comes to me whenever she's upset. we are really good friends. i'm beginning to like her. in fact i'm always thinkin about her. she was upset a few days ago and she text me to go to her house. i went in her room ... (111 words)

He's in the navy so I will rarely see him, I love him but I'm scared to tell him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

19 November 2006 (F)

- okay well i met, met my boyfriend 4 years ago. although we weren't dating we had sex about 3 times in these 4 years like sex buddies i suppose is the term to use. well he is in the navy so it makes it harder for us to get to see each other then i went travelling to the other ... (287 words)

What the hell does he mean?? Sex buddies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Been talking to my ex over the internet, and I really want to get back with him. we broke up a while ago, but were sex buddies until he got himself a new girlfriend, but they broke up a few days ago. He says we should meet up, and that he'll call me some time soon. However I ... (185 words)