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writes: Recently my gf went on a business trip to Las Vegas. I had access to her email unknowingly. The next day when she came back I found an email she had written to someone. I want an honest opinion from you guys/girls about what this sounds like to you. I will put the email transcript here, with the names changed obviously. Remember, we did have marriage in mind for the future:Hello Scott, Hope you guys are having fun on your trip around the USA. I just wanted to say hello. I know that you may still be travelling and may not cheek your messages until you get back. I just wanted to tell you sorry about that night, but also if you could tell your friend that I am sorry for leaving in a rush. I just felt bad for you. It was definitely not him I was very into him. Maybe he does not remember me but I would like it if you could give him my email. I was thinking of going to Australia to live for a couple of months, but by meeting you guys I have decided I have to go. The next day I called your hotel room but unfortunately you guys have already cheeked out of the Luxor hotel. I wanted to know if you guys wanted to have fun, maybe go on the rollercoaster. I could not stop thinking of you guys, and could not have a good time the rest of my stay because I did not get to see you guys again before I left. I cant wait to hear back from you guys email me at juliette@hotmail.com . Hopefully I will see you both once again. here are my pics to remember me (attached pics sent) xoxoxoxxoxJuliette Franco------------------------------------------------------Your input would be greatly appreciated. I need to act fast, but the thing is I do care for her (and she does for me), however this has changed everything as faithfulness is the most important thing in a relationship for me. Does this sound like a plan to ditch me for some Aussie fcukers? Reply to this Question
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reader, Adelaide +, writes (16 November 2006):
Do you smell a rat?
Hey,
she met 2 really nice guys one of whom I think she quotes" I was really into" how you interpret this is upto you...
She clearly wants to be in contact with these guys again!!! she has made that blatently obvious.
I do feel from personal experience that if these guys were friends then surely she would have discussed them with you. Surely she would have included them in general conversation at some point????
However, I am unsure how open minded you are when it comes to your girlfriend dicussing other men as friends???
Have you been snooping before at her emails?? do you suspect that this could have been a plant to catch you out????
Joking apart, I advise that you do confront her with this email, Ok so your gonna have to own up for checking her emails, but you deserve an honest answer!
She should not be hiding things like this from you, especially if you plan to marry. If you have no trust what foundations have you both got to build on?
I cannot say that she has been unfaithfull, it appears to be an email with a person desperatly wanting contact from these guys, my only concern is what does she want the contact for??? only your gf knows the answer to this.
Don't delay in talking to her about it.
be calm, be undersatnding, give her the chance to tell you her side of things, but you must get the answers you are looking for... why the secrecy, when were you going to tell me, were you ever going to tell me?
I don't think she has given you a second thought whilst this has been going on not purposely but she has been hypnotised!! perhaps when you do confront her she will snap out of it and check back into reality.
maybe she has been living in a dream because her life is mundane at the moment- spice it up for her, book a weekend away, send her flowers- do something romantic that will make her feel special to YOU again..
I do hope you get the answers you are looking for
Good Luck and Best Wishes.
Adelaide
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