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writes: Hi there, just after some advise as to how to deal with my male friends mood swings. I have known this guy a few months and during this times we have become really good friends, I have feelings for him and he knows this and its not bothered him. I know he isnt ready for a relationship because he is still hurting bout his last one that ended badly. The thing is certain times he goes really moody to the point that he phones me up moans, appears extremely arsy with me making me feel guilty and to be honest im at the end of my tether and dont know the best way to react to him anymore. I used to get emotional cause it hurt but now im angry and just want to tell him to get a life and go away. But I cant because of my feelings and the fact that when he is happy he is a wonderful bloke. We have always had this relationship where we would just ring each other for a chat and last night I rang him and he never answered next he rings me back saying what do u want with this attitude again which made me feel guilty for calling I commented bout it and then he was apologising and denying being funny with me I then found myself texting him to apologise for ringing him. I cant put up with it much longer im literally biting my tongue off at the moment ha ha. What are the best things to say to him when he is like this without reacting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): Why are you putting up with it? I would gradually start reducing the amount of times you get in touch with him. Let him have some space. He probably doesn't seem to realise just how good a friend he has in you. I would just take it a lot slower. Don't be in a hurry to apologise. You are doing nothing wrong but some people have a unique knack of making us feel totally in the wrong. I used to have a friend liked that. We don't get in contact with each other so much now and when we do it is nice and relaxed, much better. I hope you can resolve this. Take care
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