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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Anyone ever been hit by their partner and taken them back, when they really did change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (?)

- Has anyone ever been hit by their partner, taken them back and found they really have changed?... (17 words)

I thought he was fantastic until..I discovered he was trolling for women and sex on AdultFriendFinder! Now he wants to put this behind us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I recently discovered that my boyfriend had advertised himself for sex on adult friend finder. I have found this out through a long and torturous voyage of discovery. There have been a number of times when he promised he had now told me the whole truth when he had not. For ... (290 words)

The guy I date won't leave the place he lives because--he lives with his current gf and her Mother! and he'd be homeless!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F)

- i have this bf and i really like him as he like the male version of me we been together a month but the problem is he live with his other gf and her mum he says he wants to leave her for me but if he does he will be homeless also he good friends with the mum how can he dump her ... (74 words)

We have one child and he left and I still do not know why! It's like he gave up on us so easily. Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - we have separated after 10 years and one child and i still don't really know why??? i found out last year that my husband had kissed an old friend of mine whilst very drunk! i felt betrayed but would have given him the benefit of the doubt as he had had a bad time and is very ... (465 words)

I'm 14..should I have sex now or wait?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Should I have sex now or wait? ok im 14 years old, and i have a bf and we been going out for 2 months and we been talking about having sex.I really like this guy and i mihth just love him. ... (45 words)

He hanging out with me but he's got a gf on myspace! What's up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I hung out with this guy for a few weeks and the night after I hung out with him I looked at his myspace and noticed on his top 4 there was a girl so I went to hers and noticed that he left her a comment and basically there together. So why would he be hanging out with me on ... (63 words)

He broke it off and I never had a chance to air my feelings! Should I still tell him or just sit it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F)

- hi recently split up from my boyfriend of 2 1/2 yrs, he saaid he 'thought' he loved me , but had decided he didnt? says he's still got feelings for me, still fancies me etc but doesnt love me. i dont feel ive had chance to air my feelings , talked to my friends etc , but dont... (167 words)

Bf told me doesn't want marriage and lids and is basically ignoring me now! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i need some advice, ive been in a relationship for just over 2 yrs. i love my boyfriend very much. however we have been having some problems recently. he doesnt want to go out with me anymore, goes out with his friends. hes lost interest in sex and doesnt kiss and cuddle me as ... (207 words)

Problems with our first attempt at sex...any advice on how we can deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Hi, im 17 and my bf has just turned 18, we are 100% comfortable with each other. we tried having sex for the first time last week, i wasnt very relaxed and was shaking a bit but i new it was the right thing to do. when we tried to do it, it really hurt and at a certain point it ... (105 words)

My mistress of 5 years left me...and I am so heartbroken! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - hi, i am 45 years old, married man. I have been having an affair with a lady for 5 years. she is aware i am married and have children. ilove her very much but cannot leave my wife and children. this lady has now left me and will not talk to me or reply to my texts. we have h... (137 words)

Should I end it with my bf and then tell this other guy how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i dont feel im connecting with my boyfriend of 1 year anymore. but i miss him when i leave him. i feel the time i spend with him is just like being good friends.n i feel its wasted when i leave because i should b thinking him as a boyfriend.i dont think i love him anymore... ... (208 words)

How can I stop being influenced by other people and just be confident to make a decision by myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F)

- I am terrible at making decisions and always have been. I sit around and wait for the perfect answer to come out of the mist and, if it doesn't, I do nothing. It is because of this that I am too eager to listen to other people's views on things and always do what they say I ... (220 words)

Two guys like me--but I don't feel the same way about them. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - there are these two guys who really like me a lot. i don't feel the same way about either of them..so what do i do?... (25 words)

Our relationship is missing the privacy we need! I'm distancing from him and I'm concerned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i've been going out with this guy for a year. i thought i was really in love with him. Hes started this job and now i hardly see him. i used to only see him at weekends bt now i only see him for maybe and hour and a half a week. im completely bored with the setting and we cant ... (293 words)

I made changes to who I am--to please her! Now she wants the 'old me' back again!

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25 November 2006 (M) - Hey my gf have been together for almost a year now but i changed to my personality to make her happy. now the person that i am is not what she wants and i am tired of being someone else. she told me she doesn't feel the same about me and she liked the old me better and i am ... (81 words)

The girls don't seem to like me because of my weight. I need to lose it!. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know is there any easy way to lose weight, because i have tried dieting and excercising and am still doing those things, but i still havent changed, and all girlz dnt seem to like me because of my weight? plzzzzz help me... (55 words)

Embarrassed about the mole on my shoulder. How can I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and have my school prom soon. the thing is im going 2 be getting all dressed up and i am really self conscience because i have a really dark mole on the back of my shoulder. i hate it so i never wear things that show my shoulders. so i can never wear strappy tops, or ... (202 words)

Need advice on how to get over my bf! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Please, please, please help me! I dont know what to do. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and every time I start 2 get over him i see something that reminds me of him and I burst into tears! I need help. I can't go on without him! pls im desperate ill do anything 2 get him ... (59 words)

Should I play 'hard to get'??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i like this boy. i have got his number and i text him. but i always text him first should i be more hard to get?... (26 words)

I have a fiancee and a child but-there's this other guy. Do I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Well i have been with my fiancee for 2 years and we have a 1 yr old child together. When we first got together i realized i knew my fiancess best friend from a couple months before i had actually met my fiance! well we would talk once in a while and exchanged phone numbers but ... (117 words)

Thinking of changing hair color..anyone know about good temporary hair dyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F)

- I have medium/dark blonde hair at the minute, and for a change would like to see what i'd look like with a very dark brown hair colour, like Eva Green's in Casino Royale, or Anne Hathaway's in The Devil Wears Prada. I have pale skin, similar to both of them, and think that they ... (129 words)

I like her but she lied to me about in with a friend of mine. Should I pursue this further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - I am currently single but there is this girl who has fallen for me and I also give her a serious thought.The problem is that she is currently moving out with a friend of mine though she lies to me that's they are no longer moving out.Should I?... (48 words)

He's difficult to be around-not sure of our future together. How do I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 20 years of age. We've been together for 2years and few months now. He used to be a nice person generally but lately he has become rude. He speaks disrespectfully about people and expects me to side with him otherwise the fight is between me and him. ... (173 words)

Two women on the go! How do I tell the truth to my new gf and my old gf, who has a baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

25 November 2006 (M)

- i was moving out with a girl and she now has my baby.When I went to University, I met an old friend and fell in love with her.We are currently too deep in love with each other that I am finding it hard to reveal the truth about my other Girlfriend and baby, b'se she will be too ... (104 words)

My Egyptian bf is 30-I'm 52! I'm concerned about the age difference..any thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i have been talking to a man from Egypt for nearly 4 years now and i find i am at a lost on many things. he tells me he is 30 years of age and yet i am 52. but when i talk to him everytime i find he is not a young man becoz of how he expresses himself. He has ask me to come to ... (181 words)

My ex bf is a player..I want him back so do I wait until he changes or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I don't know what I want from this guy! We've been on and off for a year. We've been bf and gf, sex buddies and friends and none of them seem to work. The relationship was the best, but when things got too hard it fell apart as neither of us were mature enough to keep it ... (236 words)

It's been 3 month..not sure if I can ever trust him again! How long should I go before giving this up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I was dating long distance (on/off) and realised that my partner was kissing other girls at clubs occassionally,so we broke up. Now he is back home and we've started dating again, but things aren't the same for me because i sometimes think about him kissing other girls while i ... (86 words)

It was supposed to no strings sex but--I've let myself become attached and now-he dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - hi i need some advice pls. i was with my ex for nearly 3 years and we split up about 4 months ago. when we were together we had our ups and downs split up but always got back together. latley hes been in contact sayin our sex was amazing and we agreed to do the whole sex and no ... (137 words)

I'm 16..is masturbating 2 times per day too much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - Im 16 and i think i have a problem. I masterbate about 2 a day or maybe more and finish everytime. I think i am doing it to much or is this normal? and all of a sudden i keep looking at porn sites again, can someone please help. Please.... (50 words)

I love her very much, but she wanted 'space'. How do I win her back? Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6488 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - Please help me. My gf broke up with me a couple of months ago, she said she needed space and just wanted to be friends, until she got her things sorted. When we met we just clicked and it was awesome. Recently she said that she couldn't promise that we'd get back again. I don't ... (73 words)

The sensible thing to do is make a clean break but...I don't want to hurt him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - Hi there. I split up with my ex boyfriend 18 months ago. He didn't want to break up because he loved me. I was honest that I didn't feel the same, but I care for him a lot as he is a kind, good and genuine person. We have tried being friends since. However, its a confusing ... (198 words)

Friendship problems...do I talk to him about it or just leave it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F)

- A friend keeps puting down my ex and my decision to go out with him in the past many times, also about my degree tough I have a Ph and work for uni, he also talks badly about my best friend who suffers from cancer and who is a nice person without malice, he also came to be ... (141 words)

Mother wants me to date a boy of her choice! How do I deal with Mom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F)

- My mother keeps insisting I go out with a boy I cannot stand I always end up upset with her and now she's telling my sister to tell me off because of this fact, I am getting vey upset with my mother and Think she is a bit stupid in her behaviour, any tips to deal with ti? ... (61 words)

He doesn't seem interested..so should I let go of this good opportunity and just date others or hang in there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F)

- A group of friends insists that one of their friends is after me, he takes time to talk with me when we meet by chance and texts me sometime but he has made no effort go out with me for a coffee or anything, moreover he's always talking about sex and he's 4 years younger than I ... (145 words)

I want my husband back! What can I do to convince him, that our marriage is worth it? Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I need advice on how to get my husband back. He left three weeks ago to stay at a friend's place. We were together ten years before our marriage four months ago. He wanted out three weeks before the wedding, but we still got married. He was a virgin when we met, and claims he ... (182 words)

When we quarrel he gives me the silent treatment and ignores me! I don't like this, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i just want advice. i have a boyfriend and actually he treats me really well,but there is a small issue. He always replies my sms late and sometimes doesn't reply and recently we quarrel a little and he doesnt reply to my sms and didnt chat to me online. Is this a silent break? ... (75 words)

I love her but I feel our relationship is not going anywhere! Are we just too different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 20, have been dating for 2 years since we met in high school. Coincidentally we both planned to go to the same college (before we got together), so we've dated since. However, I feel like our relationship isnt going anywhere. We fool around alot, ... (197 words)

I'm 20, in college-I'm lonely and am trying to figure why guys won't date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i am a 20 year old going to college, for me its a lonely part of life. I work too much, i have hard classes and i am very shy. the only real serious boyfriend i had was 1 1/2 years and that was two years ago. i havent dated yet. i dont know what my problem is...I find guys and ... (124 words)

He's away for a semester and he rarely calls. Do you think he's cheating or is he just busy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is in new zealand for a semester so he'll be back in dec. and weve been together a little over a year. what am i suppose to do when he rarely calls, never does what he says hes going to do anymore (get on aim, get a phone card, etc.) just basically taking me for ... (87 words)

I feel used! I trusted him and he dumped me! How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i have this huge problem! i was going out with this guy for almost a month, then all a sudden he dumped me! not sure exactly why, but i figured out that it was becasue hes not totaly over his ex (he still loves her). of corse im totaly hurt because i really liked him. the other ... (381 words)

I am afraid I may lose my bf because of my parents! How do I get them all to get along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I am a 19 year old female. During highschool, I had a steady boyfriend for two years. I was devestated when he broke up with me on my 16th birthday and I had a hard time getting back to living my normal life. He left for school, I immersed myself in college, and after dating a ... (444 words)

My co-worker is irresistable, but there's still one problem...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i have a crush on this guy. I work with him. Hes the greatset the person i have ever met. We are always texting each other on our cell phones and when i'm not with him, i think about him constantly... There's one little problem.. I'm 17 going on 18 and hes 26. I'm hearing ... (107 words)

Can a 12-year age gap work out or should I let it go?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Okay, so I've been reading some of the posts on age differences and they're all pretty reassuring. I'll be legal (18) soon and have had a pretty strong interest in someone 12 years older than I am. We've developed a really great friendship and everyone who has seen the two of ... (125 words)

I think I was jumping to too many conclusions with my male friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F)

- My problem is that in the past I have been badly betrayed/hurt in a past relationship (ok haven't we all!) Basically I found out that not only was he sleeping with co-worker behind my back he also lied to me about his marriage when we first started going out. Basically he was ... (614 words)

Is there any possibility that I could be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Hi there i am 17, i have sex at least once a week every week, my boyfriend wears a condom every time, but just lately i have not been interested in sex with my boyfriend. I am also begining to worry that there may be something wrong with me because my period is a week early and ... (87 words)

How do relationships work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - im a 16 year old boy and i've got a bit of a problem, i havent had a relationship for 6 years and i've basically forgotten how relationships work, so if anyone can give me ideas on this i will be vary grateful. i also need help in how to approach girls that i like the look of. ... (65 words)

Can you ever take back someone who has cheated?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

25 November 2006 (M)

- What are your thoughts on cheating? It's a long story so I won't go into too much detail right now. If someone cheats and then realises they have made a terrible mistake...have taken steps to try and put things right...begging for you to take them back...what do you do? My ... (97 words)

There this boy I'm madly in love with...but he sends me mixed messages!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

25 November 2006 (F)

- im a teen and theres a boy i like who sends me mixed signals . one time he will kiss me the next he doesnt want to . he doesnt want 2 be my boyfriend but im madly in love. but sometimes he tells me he does fancy me but the next he says he doesnt.help... (56 words)