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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 15 and totally in love but she has stopped talking to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - I was to scared to ask the first girl I loved to go out with me. She obviously liked me to, she asked me to save a seat for her on the bus, rubbed the seat next to her when she wanted me to sit down, asked me to dance at 2 partys and a school dance. And I was in love with her. ... (204 words)

Dating for 9 weeks but he hasn't contacted me in 2 days!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F)

- ok so...been seeing this guy 4 about 9 weeks now. at 1st he was perfect! ALWAYS taking me out, inviting me over and wanting to see me. We even went abroad together a few weeks ago. now hes moved into his new house and its all gone down hill! i hardly ever see him, at 1st he ... (207 words)

Someone said that he was using me for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - i have a boyfriend, its been almost 1 week since we started dating and he says he loves me and isnt using me for sex but then again he acts like it and someone said that he was...what should i do? should i beleive him??... (45 words)

She's known as a bit of a pyscho

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6145 days ago

29 November 2006 (F)

- my bf has been seeing his ex alot that i dont mind because i see mine every week so i cant complain but im worried coz his exs mate is in one of my classes and tell me that his ex is still madly in love with my bf and will do anything to get him back she know as a bit of a ... (157 words)

She doesn't believe she has ever made a mistake

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - As of late, I seem to be worrying about the relationship I have with my girlfriend. She seems insensitive to my feelings most of the time. She brings up things that her ex did and makes me feel like I'm not "measuring up." I also feel like she does not believe she has ever made ... (196 words)

We started dating 6 months after his wife died, now he tells me he doesn't love me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F)

- hi have split with my boyfirend, has been 6 weeks now. i wrote ina while ago and explained it all but to recaphe's a widower, and we started seeing eachother 6 months after his wife died.over two years we'd fallen in love ,and then as it all started to get a bit more serious ... (222 words)

I cheated, he forgave me, then believed a rumour we were having an affair so he dumped me! I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend of 6 years 2 years ago and he found out, he got really angry but he said he would forgive me, stupidly i started talking to the guy i cheated with and we became friends, my boyfriend found out and we fought constantly about it. He heard some thing ... (125 words)

We are good friends and 'f*ck buddies' but I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hi there. I really like this guy and we were just good freinds who went out on night outs together. Then one night we ended up going together we are now"fuck buddies" but i have fallen for him in a big way....how do i explain to him that i want more than just going home wit... (64 words)

What can I do about my depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F)

- I feel tired and like sad all over I haver even the feeling of this sadness in my bones I don not know how to cheer up any tips to get ok?... (33 words)

I'm feeling really down and my family is not close like we once were!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F)

- I feel very tired and depress today I was tempted to cry all day. I prepared a national exam very hard while I was working part time for uni last year, it caused the boy I was dating to drop me, and morevover I failed. My sister and brother are married and phone little, My ... (272 words)

He doesn't want to stop working overtime and his family would think I'm controlling if he did! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hey, i had put up a question yesterday "My BF works too much and I don't feel loved!" thanks for all the replies. but the real problem is that i have spoken to him about it. ive told him everything. all he says is that he doesnt no wot to do about it. he claims his overtime ... (228 words)

Is white vaginal discharge normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hi im 18 and a virgin, i have white stuff in my virgina from time to time is this normal? or when i get fingerd ect...that lad will think theirs somthing wrong!!? advice plz x... (35 words)

We like each other, but he sleeps with other girls! Why does he do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - i really like this lad we met about 2 years ago and we speak everyday but only see each other about once a month cuase he lives about 2 hours away, and i know he really likes me 2! and we dont feel like this about anyone else! i know he can see other girls and stuff as we arnt ... (113 words)

If you have that problem you need to register.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - just a minor problem here; whenever i type in a problem or an answer on this site i can never find it again, or if i do it takes ages. anyone else have this problem? ... (35 words)

I cheated on her when drunk... how can I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - Hi, i please need help i don't know what to do. i have been home one year now but i really wasn't content with my self, last week i got very drunk and cheated on my girlfriend, i know that this happened as a combo of my own state of mind and the alchol, i told her the next day, ... (121 words)

He has mood swings and will turn funny on me - what might be causing them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for over 6months we are really close and in love but every now and then he will just turn funny on me and always apoligies and says why am i still with him because he thinks hes a complete idiot for the mood changes. I just really want to know ... (108 words)

How can a woman stationed in Iraq put the spark back into phone conversations with her bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - My sister is in a serious relationship but has recently been stationed in Iraq with the Air Force. She feels her conversations with her boyfriend are running slim. How do they put the spark back into their conversations or create more things to talk about? Thanks so much fo... (58 words)

He hates public affection! Is there a reason behind this feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I just started dating a man who informed me he does not like "public affection" I tried talking to him about it to understand it. I am very opposite and like holding hands. He does not. Or any sort of affection. Is anyone out there that can explain to my why men do not like it ... (94 words)

I'm in love with a guy who uses me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F)

- I'm deeply in love with a guy that completely uses me. He flatters me (an unusual occurance for anyone to) non-stop until I feel safe enough with him and trust him enough to take my clothes off, on webcam. Then, he'll reluctantly talk to me and if i ask him if he meant what he ... (167 words)

Didn't know he was married and now I'm 5 months pregnant by him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Ok. Well, I've contemplated writing in here, but ever heard the saying "You'll go nuts if you don't talk to someone?", yeah. Well that's me. I'm a single mom of a daughter who is 13. I got into a relationship not knowing this man was married. When I found out he was, I split ... (185 words)

I cry after sex from being so emotional! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hiya, i know people are going to laugh at this but, well i do like sex its just it makes me so emotional afterwards and i go into the toilet n cry, once i actually cried while we were having sex and so it took a lot of convincing to my bf that it wasnt his fault. i was raped as ... (110 words)

How long should you know an internet friend before meeting them in real life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - whens the best time to meet someone from the internet? how long should u wait before u meet them? ... (19 words)

For 2 years, I've had a 'mirena' and I'm wondering..how safe are they?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Hi there, i just wanted your advice on a matter pls, i had unprotected sex with my bf today, he ejaculated inside me for the first time and i know i have a high chance of becoming pregnant. However, for for 2years now Ive had a 'mirena'. That thing you can have put inside ... (86 words)

My nightmare came true...my bf doesn't feel the same about me as he used to! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - PLease help... my boyfriend, after two years, has decided that he isnt sure Im the one for him any more. He doesnt think he feels the same as he used to... that he wanted to marry me, that i was the one for him, etc. I cant bear it. its my nightmare come true. He says he still ... (177 words)

His ex says she pregnant w/ his baby, but he says that's impossible! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend said he received a text message from his ex-girlfriend saying that she is pregnant and its his child. We have been together for 2 years now. He has cheated on me in the past with her but her swears that the last time he was with her was the end of August 2005. ... (225 words)

He visited me after I exposed everything about him to his new gf - they're still together! I'm so upset.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - well here i am back again to let you know what happend after i expsoed my husband to his new girlfriend .he was here with me yesterday talking to me about his new house and telling me he was moveing into it maybe today and telling what she was saying about our three way chat ... (410 words)

Should I tell my coworker my feelings for him before I start my new job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - My feelings for a work colleague have developed over the last year and i have been in a dilemma for a while as to what to do. I have now just found out that I will be starting a new job by the New Year. Should I tell him how I feel or should it just wait to see if he will make ... (70 words)

We spent hours together laughing and kissing - now he hardly talks to me and flirts with other girls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - okay well.. theres this boy i'v known him for three years now and we have been really good friends and av always had a thing for him and he says to me all the time that he's had a thing for me too.. recently i told hom i liked him again anf we met up and kissed but me being me ... (161 words)

She changed for the worse and we seperated. But I still love her! How can I forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - Hi, everyone, I will appreciate your time and you advice on this please: I have been in relationship with my partner for 2 years. I have to say, from the first few months of knowing her I felt that we might not be right for each other, but I kept saying to myself no one ... (605 words)

how can I tell if a guy is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - how can I tell if a guy is interested?... (9 words)

He still seems to have feelings for his ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now, and things have been great. We are so compatible and have connected so well. But I just get this feeling that he still has something for his ex. They were together for about 2years, and broke up about 2 years ago. She was ... (344 words)

I'm afraid of him having a female lodger - Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - My partner has always had lodgers and now his male lodger is about to leave. I realise I could be worrying needlessly, but what if he has a female lodger? I know you will say, well if you trust him (the fundaments of a good relationship, etc, etc) then all will be well. I... (151 words)

The married coworker I've been seeing asked me to marry him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - What does he mean? My boyfriend is very much in love with me and we've been dating since summer. The chemistry between us is amazing and he treats me like a queen. Sadly he is still married and has a family to take care of. I never intended to hurt them but since we work to... (132 words)

How do I let him know...we can work our relationship problems out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, to cut it short my boyfriend and I have split up. We have decided to go out tonight to see how it goes, pretty much make or break. I want to make it work and get him back, he feels the same but isn't sure whether it's right and whether it will work. Any advice or ... (83 words)

My bf has a terrible temper - should we continue together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend of one year has a terrible temper. He feels very bad about it, knows it is wrong, says it makes him a "shit" person and will try to get better. Soon afterwards he is very very remorseful but I am worried that I will never know in the future how he will react. It is ... (188 words)

He left me b/c he said he was bi, then he came back! I love him, but I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - here is a gay related question. I was in a commited gay relationship for a few years long distance, now my partner several months back ended it saying that his feelings changed and that he thinks he is bi. Several months later while picking the pieces of my broken heart he... (282 words)

I'm confused about his weird pick-up line- what was he really trying to say??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - what is a pick up line?? this guy what's telling me that I had something on my eye and then he said: Oh! nevermind it's just a start! I didn't get what he was trying to say but my friend told me that it was just a pick up line and that he was just tryint to say that i'm pretty. ... (76 words)

White discharge...what causes it and how can I get rid of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I have this white discharge from my vagina and When I have sex I get embarrassed because it is yuckey. You can see it and I know my guy doesnt want to eat me out after me have sex because you can taste it. He says go to the DR. we are engaged and he doesnt down me for it. I ... (90 words)

Bumps on my butt! What is causing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I get bumps on my butt, I dont have bumps on my face though. What is causing this. I wash very good its not that I dont. It makes me self Consious. How can I clear them up. The tanning bed does butt I dont want to abuse that. When I stop laying in it they start back ! ... (59 words)

Will this girl be able to tell I'm a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - I am a 20 yr old male virgin.im seeing this girl now that is a little more experienced than me do you think she will be able to tell during sex ... (31 words)

Why is it important to have a pap smear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Why do I have to have a pap smear? I don't like doctors and haven't been to since i was probably about 12. Why is it important for women to have a pap smear, i'm fairly strongly against this because i believe that the female or anybody for that matter cleans itself (this is why ... (145 words)

Not sure but hubby may be cheating. What are the signs to watch for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I think my husband is cheating on me with my brothers wife. What do I do? I can I find out. We fight every night. We never spend anytime togther. If she comes over he will sit up and talk. But if its just us he goes to sleep on the couch. Everytime he goes across the street to ... (93 words)

We're drifting apart..is he seeing someone or just not bothering to call me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hello my boyfriend appears to be drifting apart from me sometimes. we have a good time together and he seems like he is happy to see me. but sometimes he is unpredictable. sometimes he will not call me i dont know if he is seeing someone else or he just dont wont to be bothe... (69 words)

My best friend is in love with a married man! I want to help her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

29 November 2006 (F)

- My best friend is inlove with a married man who has 2 children with his wife and is the stepdad to her other 2 kids. He lives about 1,000 miles away too. He keeps telling my friend that he can't leave his wife because of the kids, and i know this is every married man's excuse ... (192 words)

Can I pop a pill to make my breasts bigger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I have small breasts, like just a handful, and my guy wanted to tit F*** me and I felt bad because I have nothing there. What can I do to make them look bigger in bed or is there a pill that will enlarge them? I dont want surgery. That is a NO NO NO ! HELP PLEASE ! ... (59 words)

How can I get my fiancee to fall so deep in love with me he won't ever want to be away from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - How can you make your guy your engaged to fall so deep in love with you and cant stand to be away from you? I know he loves me but it isnt like it use to be how can I make him just gush about me?... like cant stand when we arent togther and I miss those days where he would ... (86 words)

After I lost my virginity, I haven't stopped bleeding and it's been over 2 days!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Ok i was wondering... I am 18 and I just lost my virginity with this kid i have been dating for about four months. He was a virgin too and we did not use a condom. We stopped not long after he finally got in because I started bleeding really bad... I know that a litttle ... (93 words)

I want my guy to stop getting more tattoos!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - How can you make a guy not get any more tattoos ? ? ? I hate them so much they are ugly to me ! HELP ... (30 words)

I'm 16 and can't get a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (?) - i'm 16 and have never had a girlfriend! what's wrong with me? i have many female friends and go out with them but never ever had a girlfriend! i'm not annoyin, i'm caring, good listener, and girls only keep me as a friend, but i'm not very good lookin. although i'm busy in ... (83 words)

My GF doesn't want to be with me anymore, we have a 7 month old baby - could it be post-natal depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - hi just recently my girlfreind told me doesnt want to be with me anymore. She said we have lost the spark and we have two kids 7 months and 2.5 years. I think she still loves me. I love love her more than anything. I think she might have post natal depression. What can i do to ... (69 words)

How can I move my thoughts away from past negative experiences and focus on the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Im single and 17 and I get myself really down whenever im alone because i think of past things too much, like fun times i have had with friends, and crushes i know are never going to happen. I try to keep myself busy all the time but good times get me upset! How can i make ... (83 words)