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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What the heck is a 'wet dream"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (F)

- Can someone help because I am lost. What is a 'wet dream'?... (13 words)

He's not my ethnicity..and my parents want me to break up with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - i am 16 and in love with this one nice guy...we have been dating for half a year now..he is everything to me and we love each other really much but the thing is that my parents do not like him because he is not my ethnicity..my parents are really old fashioned and so they want ... (85 words)

I can't get over her-it just keeps getting worse! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - I've liked this girl for about a year now and she has said to me that she only likes me as a friend even though she likes the attention from me, she has also recently broke up with her bf and shes been giving certain hints that she may actually feel that way about me on top of ... (91 words)

My bf was very distant and confused because he just found out he has herpes..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - BF very distant and confused why, just found out..what do I do? We have been dating for 2 years and fell deeply in love the first 5 months. We are both in our early 40's, never married, no children. Have successful careers and always receive comments from strangers as to ... (302 words)

Am I wanting this child for all the wrong reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - Recently my relationship with my boyfriend of 8 years has broken down we lived together for over two years and now the house is up for sale. Before all this happened we put our names down for IVF treatment as he had a low sperm count I really hate him for the way he has treat ... (159 words)

He's in Canada-I'm in the US...can we keep our long distance relationship going for now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I have liked a guy since 7th grade I am now in 11th he likes me also but in 9th grade i moved from canada to the united states we continued going out for 1 year but last year broke up because of the distance. We want to be together but we dont know how. He has graduated high ... (88 words)

I keep look for approval from others to validate that it's okay to be in a age gap relationship! Why do I do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - Hi, I am 18 and dating a guy eight years older than me. And that's not necessarily the problem. The problem is MYSELF. I feel like I'm constantly looking for the approval of others in this situation. When other people bring up "age gap relationships", I get uncomfortable be... (277 words)

I'm scared to have sex with him, because he's so experienced!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - There is a guy who is always flirting with me and touching me and stuff and he wants to have sex with me but im scared im not good enough because he is really experienced and im not. should i have sex with him or not?... (46 words)

We're more than friends but less than lovers. I can't keep away from him-what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I had all this stuff in my head about what my boundaries were and what I would say to my ex when we met up. We broke up a while ago, were sex buddies, and then didn't talk for ages but started flirting online a week ago, then suddenly he had a girlfriend so I had a go at him ... (451 words)

I think my bf is cheating on me...how do I stop being so paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - i have been going out with my b/f now for 4 yrs and i thought we loved each other very much but over the last year things have got bad. last year my b/f had a serious car accident abroad and nearly died. I stood by him and helped him with everything through this time. i tho... (219 words)

No period since September..am I bloated or pregnant? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I stopped taking the pill at the end of Sept, i had a period but this was only for one day. Ever since i have been using condoms. My problem is I haven't had a period since. My stomach is getting bigger but i think that could just be where I am getting bloated. deep down i ... (105 words)

Five5 weeks ago he tells me it isnt 'real 'love after all and wants to split. I need advice figuring this out...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F)

- hi this is another question from an ongoing saga, will try to shorten it , but it is a long one! im in my 30's , work full time ,studying also , teenage daughter , young son , was seeing a 'friend ' who is the widow of a friend of mine, difficult situation. younger children... (468 words)

I need tips for initiating conversation with this guy I like.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

22 November 2006 (F)

- i like this guy, and he has said he likes me. However, we only can talk over msn as we never see each other in school any more. However, i'm always stuck for conversation after the usual, how are you, what you up to, kind of thing. Any one got any tips for what to say, and to ... (67 words)

It's been 11 months since we broke up and I'm still having a hard time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F)

- its been 11 months now from i split up from my ex boyfriend of 4 years and i just cant seem to come to terms with it that we are no longer together. I have my good days but mostly i am depressed and hurt with the fact that he has moved on and i am unable to. With it coming... (354 words)

She says I am more like her best friend than her bf. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - Hi there, what should a guy do when his girlfriend mentions every few days that he feels like her best friend and not a boyfriend?... (25 words)

Photo of me in the paper portrays me as an abuser and I'm not! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - I'm 24 and have recently seen a photo of myself in the paper, where it looks, to all intents and purposes, as though i am abusing a young lady. even worse - the story's about domestic abuse. what the paper doesn't say is that i don't actually live with the girl who's in th... (91 words)

I allowed him to finger me but I don't want to take this further, yet. Is it too late to tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - im 19 and a virgin, i let my boyfriend finger me (i was a little surprised at myself) but im not sure if im ready to go "further" is it to late to tell him????? and what will he think of me? help!... (45 words)

His ex has made our life hellish...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner for 3 years now and we live together. He broke up with his ex 7 years ago who he has two children with and I have one from a previous relationship. My partner and his ex have been constantly arguing week in week out, on the phone etc: she even rang ... (228 words)

Enagaged to her but she won't let me make love to her, for the past 2 years! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - SO I have been dating my financee for almost 5 years. In the first year it was pretty hot and heavy. But after the first year its been all down hill from there for her. I still want to have sex she wont even make out with me anymore. I dont want to end the relationship because ... (125 words)

Update: My husband who left me for a much younger woman...should I confront this woman?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - i would just like to thank the people who took the time to answer my worries on my husband left me for a girl 15 years younger . and to say yes i do have kids but they dont know about this because im hoping to get back with him. i love and miss him so much and yes we did all ... (181 words)

Will being all dressed up for the prom...catch the eye of a guy I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - hi question 1: im 16 and got my yr 11 school prom in a few months time. the thing is everyone is going to obviously get all nicely dressed up in dresses and make up and stuff but im not like that. i dont wear dress/skirts and make up. i do my hair and things and im not a tom ... (190 words)

My husband (late 30's) is winking and eyeing up a 15 year old girl. Is there something going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I'm very concerned my husband who is in his late 30's as been winking(more than once) and eyeing up a 15 year old girl. He barely knows her and they've only spoke once or twice. Do you think there is something going on? or am i just been paranoid?... (49 words)

I'm a virgin and having fears about sex with my bf! Will he leave me and what can I do about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I am 18 years old and a virgin (iv only ever kissed),but my bf who iv been seein for 6months isnt. He has made it clear that he wants to have sex with me,but everytime we get close,I stop him. I become really uncomfortable and have no confidence at all,I dont want him to change ... (78 words)

I can't seem to let myself go and come to orgasm with my guy! Any advice to getting over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I'm 27, and have had a few sexual partners, but have only come through penetrative sex with one partner (a summer fling). I'm with a lovely new man now, and have been with him for a couple of weeks. I enjoy sleeping with him, and have felt more relaxed with him than any pre... (161 words)

He's become distant and hardly phones me! What should I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - The guy I have been seeing the last few months has suddenly become quite distant after being very attentive, caring and telling me how much he liked me. He now hardly phone and hasn't wanted to see me as much. We are in late 20's. I really like him - what should I do about ... (63 words)

Why are people's sexual pasts such an issue for some people, mainly women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (F)

- Why are peoples sexual pasts such an issue for some people, mainly women? I have a problem with the number of women my man has slept with (over 100) and some of my friends do too (nowhere near that many!) What causes these problems? Why can't we move on? Do we expect a virg... (119 words)

I think he's pushing me away and when I ask him about it...he says 'nothing is wrong'. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - hey, i need help i love my boyfriend more then any thing in the world he has changed my life, he help me get into college he is an amazing guy. but now i feel as if he is pushing me away and sending me mixed messages, we hardly ever have sex and i dont know what is going on i ... (108 words)

He admits he doesn't love me and it's been a year? Do I stay or go?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. Whilst he behaves in a loving manner and is respectful and caring, he never tells me he loves me, in fact he tells me he doesn't. Should I accept this at face value and leave, or could it be self preservation on his part and I ... (63 words)

I love someone who doesn't love me and it hurts! Any tips to dealing with this?

This question has 61 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I love someone who doesnt want me. It hurts so much. I wake up thinking about him and cant seem to get him out of my head or heart. He told me he loved me then ignored me. He came back to me 2 months later and has repeated the same thing. I have reached the point now wh... (184 words)

I am female and over six foot tall! I'm insecure about it. Tell me-- Do men find tall women attractive?

This question has 183 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - This is a stupid question, but I am very insecure as I am so tall. I am six foot and tower over people, especially when I wear heels. I am very slim and used to be a model so everyone thinks I am so confident, but the truth is I hate it so much. I always worry my boyfriend is ... (139 words)

I feel so insecure and depressed, lately. I need my confidence back! Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I feel so insecure. i'm depressed most days, don't want to go on medication. live with bf with his son and mine. Life is tougher than i thought it would be. I wish i hadn't given up my rented house so soon. I don't feel like the same person who walked through the front door. I ... (131 words)

First time sex and I orgasmed way too fast. I think it pissed her off! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

22 November 2006 (M)

- I had sex for the first time last week not only with my girlfriend but also my first time. The problem was that I was lucky to make it last 5 minutes before I, basically, came out too soon. She says its ok but I'm pretty sure she's pissed off. Is this normal to happen?... (55 words)

Do teen girl masturbate as often as teen boys?

This question has 238 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

22 November 2006 (M)

- hi, do teenage girls masturbate as often as teenage boys?... (10 words)

How can I get my girl to give me longer oral sex without hurting her feeling's?? Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

22 November 2006 (M)

- how can i get my girl to give me longer oral sex without hurting her feeling's? my girlfriend is hot and she's sweet when we first got together we loved doing 69er's and giveing oral pleasure all the time. now it's seem's i'm the only 1 giveing never getting any in return. ... (202 words)

Re: concert ticket update....what do you think of this plan to surprise her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - So I decided I am going to suprise my ex for Christmas with concert tickets (I think anyway). Here was the last post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-surprise-my-ex-with-concert-tickets.html What I think I would like to do, based on the advice of a frined (and ... (110 words)

MY husband has been having wet dreams a lot, What's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - Hi I have been with my husband for 13 years. Over the past 6 months he has started to have wet dreams. He tells me that he has no control over these, our sex life is still active but obviously not as much as when we first met! He is 34 I am 40. I am starting to feel a bit ... (86 words)

He hurts me, and changes his behavior but doesn't apologize!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - my b/f never apologizes. He has not not done horrible horrible things. But things that we have argued about and i tell him this isn't about me telling you what to do, i am telling you that you HURT my feelings by doing it. So most times, his actions do change to make me feel ... (112 words)

Need tips on how to get rid of blackheads!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F)

- I don't have acne, or anything that bad, just really bad blackheads, which then turn red and gradually grow into whiteheaded spots. I have a skin care regime, NEVER pick any of my spots, take all of my make up off before bed, Cleanse, Tone and Mousturise and use an exfoliating ... (77 words)

How do you get rid of pre-menstrual bloating? ANy tips?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

22 November 2006 (F)

- A few weeks before my period I bloat, and it really gets me down. Anyone got any tips how to get rid of it?... (24 words)

I think my house is infested with fleas...how do I get rid of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

22 November 2006 (F)

- I think my house is infested with some kind of fly or flea, me and my family are constantly being bitten. Anyone got any tips on how to get rid of them?... (32 words)

He wanted to be sex buddies-I agreed-and then he backed out. And now he's ignoring me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - Here is an update on what i was trying to say: So I meet this guy.We both like each other. I wanted a relationship and he didn't but he did want friends with benifts. Thats ok with me. He tells me I will be the only girl that he will have and that we both have never done ... (144 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years! I cant get over it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6574 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years tonight. We always seem to break up once and a while and we get back together. Tonight he was snooping through my mail and checked out my credit card statement. He immediately begn to call me irresponsible, etc. This upset me because his ... (156 words)

I'm curious on how pre-martial sex is perceived!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - what do people think about pre-marital sex? i grew up in a religious family, but waiting until marriage made a lot more sense when i was 19. now i'm 27, and i'm curious. does anyone really wait this long? is it bad if you sleep with someone in a long-term, committed ... (109 words)

I dont think she's over her ex, should I leave until she does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend can't get over her ex. She broke up with him two years ago because he cheated. Recently, she e-mailed him saying she thinks about him at least once a day and how she still misses him. She also tells him how lucky his new girlfriend is to have him and she hopes ... (86 words)

I am distraught because my soulmate and best friend has walked out of my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I am distraught because my soulmate and best friend has walked out of my life. Twelve years ago I met and became friends with a man at university. Soon we were spending every day together, sharing everything in our lives. We dated briefly for a short time, but it didn't wo... (670 words)

Can't get past her cheating! It's not the same anymore..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - ive been with this girl awhile she cheated relized what she lost and were trying to work it out, its not the same we dont get along until we cuddle at night. i get mad about her cheating and im having a hard time getting over it and making it work shes really trying its just my ... (69 words)

When we argue he calls me the most horrible names. This feels like emotional abuse.Normal or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. The question that I have is, whenever we have a fight he says really nasty things to me and calls me names, he says that he just says it in the heat of the moment and there just words. It really puts me down, is it normal to say ... (332 words)

She says she loves me but she chooses to be with her friends over me! What is going on with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - my girlfriend is always telling me that she wants to hang out with me. well we dont normaly hang out when she says so and she never calls when she tells me she is going to i always have to call her and she get very mad at me when i do so. this has been going on for a little ... (92 words)

Update on the guy who wanted life on the road....turns out he wants he was playing a big game between me and his ex! I am heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - The worst kind of liar in the world! That is my ex. I really need some feedback on this so I know how to proceed.... my heart is ripped to shreds. I posted earlier tonight. Here's the link to the whole story: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-left-me-f... (727 words)

He loves me but he doesn't trust me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - ive been dating this guy for a year and 1 month we were friends before and he asked me out over the phone after telling me he loved me knowing i was currently dating but i was suppose to break up with the other guys i didnt and i cheated on him he found out and i admitted i did ... (174 words)

He left me for a life 'on the road' and I need help moving on (long post)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - My name is Paula and I have just been left by my lover and partner, Joe. I am a 40 year old woman. Joe is 45 and divorced this past January. this is long, sorry but pls read it. i want your input. Joe and I met online in May. We fell hard and fast. It evolved into ... (1634 words)