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writes: My boyfriend is quite a lot older than me and when we have sex it does not last that long because he cums really quick, about a minute after entering me. Is there something wrong with him or is this perfectly normal for a man of a certain age over 50? Please help me on this one, as I would like to make our sex life better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): I can gurauntee you, even if he's not showing it or saying anything...he is feeling embarrassed about being this way. You can bet your bottom dollar, he wants to pleasure you more than anything.Premature ejaculation is common in men of all ages. I found a good website for you to check out:
http://www.themarriagebed.com/pages/problem/orgasm/rapid.shtml
Take note of the last paragraph where they specifically point out that "premature ejaculation can sometimes be a sort of side affect of erectile difficulty." in middle aged men. I am in no way implying this is his problem..but you still may want to encourage him to see his family doctor and then go from there. Good luck to you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): No insult was intended (to older women). Men just prefer younger women (whether this is right or not).
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): To the male anon who left such wonderful advice: You are full of it. There are plenty older women out there with great bodies who can do the same for him. I hope when you are his age you appreciate women more and if you are his age go find yourself a blow up doll because that is clearly what you deserve.
To the female anon: I agree with Astrid, he should go see a doctor. His doctor can prescribe medication or give advice about different things your man could try to decrease his sensitivity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): Take a look at 99% of all women his age. That's why (you are young, and they are not). If every old man had a young woman, there'd be no need for Viagra.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (16 November 2006):
 I know a boy who had the same problem at 19 I think he should go to urologist
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