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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why am I still single?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - why am i still single? ... (5 words)

The guy I like...ignores me when he is with his friend! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i am in love with this lad but ever since he has been hanging round with another lad that i have known all my life he has been ignoring me hurting my feelings, he never has time for me am scared cause i dont want to lose him help me please :( tell me what you think i should do... (60 words)

I just can't seem to get over him - how can I be strong about this break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

30 November 2006 (F)

- Am finding it really hard to get over my bf...we've been 2gether since Febr. and we've been seeing each others everyday untill earlier this month when he gradually stoped calling or caring...until I ended things (they were already over though) but I tried calling him and he ... (222 words)

I'm 15 - is it legal for my 18 year old partner and I to have sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Im 15 years old and currently dating a 18 year old is this legal if we dont have sex?... (19 words)

Why won't he orgasm when I give him a bj?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have tried giving my boyfriend oral and I know I am very good at this, But I want to know why he wont cum. I know he enjoys but it's upsetting me he always seems to worry more about my orgasm that his own what am I doing wrong?? Please Help I feel like nothing when I cant get ... (65 words)

I'm trying to get my best friend's husband out of my head! Should I just choose him over her though?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have liked my best friends husband ever since they got together. But then they got married and i to was married so i didnt think much of it. Well we have all been really good friends and i have always thought that he liked me from the way that he would act toward me but i ... (190 words)

I'm in love with someone else - but should I just settle for my less physical marriage or move on?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I'm a 25-year old christian guy that married his first girlfriend 2 years ago (after dating her for 3 years). Before I met her, I spent most of my time behind a computer, not meeting girls. Although I was not a christian when we started dating, I did respect her wish to save ... (236 words)

Is my vagina abnormal, or am I just worrying about it too much?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - im worriedthe skin around my virgina is to big! im 18 im sexualy active but im a virgin, am im worried when it comes down to me and my Boyfriend having sex or even giving me oral he will notice and think im odd and very unitractive! im i just over worriing or do lads get put ... (66 words)

I'm 17 and my BF is moving across country and has asked me to go with him! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I am 17 and i am with a boy that is 18, in january he is 19 and he is moving away, i have been with him for just over a month so far and we are so happy together, we spend as much time as possible together. He asked me to move and live with him when he goes. The only trouble ... (122 words)

I'm 32 and he's 58 - would a relationship with him work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi there, i am in love with this guy, he is 26 years older than me (I am 32)..i have connected with him like i never had with anyone before. I know he feels something, he has mentioned it to my colleague..saying its not just my looks, its something else, alot more. We are just ... (90 words)

My ex and I have the same friends, so I feel I can't confide in them. I feel so lonely - any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for five years now, but we were best friends for about 5 years before that. he has now decided he doesn't want to be with me any more and i don't know what to do. i really can't imagine my life without him, we have always done everyth... (174 words)

She broke it off - now she wants to move in together as friends! Is it a bad idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - Hi, I have been in a brief relationship with a wonderful woman who was my friend beforehand. She has now ended it and wants to go back to being friends. She wants us to move in together as housemates as neither of us have our own house and rent individually. She ended it ... (124 words)

I'm attracted to someone else and it's not my husband, what can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi, I am married but am really attracted to another guy. We are good friends - worked together, have since left my job, so at least the temptation is not so much there. I know for a fact if this person asked me out(I know he had feelings for me)i am not sure whether i could ... (147 words)

I found powder on his collar and he made excuses, are they believable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Quick question. Yesterday i thought i saw something weird on my boyfried's collar. Almost like powder. I said what's that on your shirt and he said oh fuzz from the dryer, the shirt is old. I said no--this right here isn't fuzz(there was fuzz in the other areas). And he s... (94 words)

Call for new moderators to help out on the site!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6461 days ago

30 November 2006 (M)

- Hiya, I'm looking for a couple of new moderators to help out with the approval of questions and answers. If you're a site "regular", have some time spare and would like to help out, send me a private message. Thanks! Andrew (site guy)... (56 words)

She is still cheating on me, what am I suppose to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

30 November 2006 (?) - please advice me on what to do. I have a girl friend as my lover, and I really love her that I never won't to loss her no matter what will happen between us, though she promised never to leave me. but now with all the promises she have made with me, I find out that she still ... (77 words)

I'm scared to leave him, he raped his last girlfriend, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6565 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i have found out that my boyfriend is a rapist, he raped his last girlfriend she used to be my best friend until she left. they have a daughter if i dump him i will get raped and that has happened to me before what can i do he is obssed in me... (53 words)

We have anal sex and stuff comes out, can we fix that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - sorry for being so grafic with this question im a gay man and its when im having anal sex only sometimes this happens when u pull the penis out the obvious comes out either on the penis or after it i have been told there is something you can do i dont know wht but aparently you ... (104 words)

He slept with me, then found someone else, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i slept with a boy the other day, people new we really liked eachother but ysterday he brought a girl home and had sex with her. what should i do?... (30 words)

What is the ideal penis size?

This question has 71 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - What do women consider to be an ideal penis size? My friend told me all women want a penis that's at least 8 inches long and 6 inches around. Is this true? I'm way below these numbers in both categories and I'm really afraid to have sex, now. Any opinions?... (50 words)

My boyfriend hates it when I'm "on"... Should I let him sleep with other girls? Is there a "third way"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

30 November 2006 (F)

- I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. He's a great guy but, lately, he's been annoying me a bit. I'm 20 and he's 27. We have a good sex life but he moans when I'm on my period. I am usually on for about a week and he moans that we can't have sex. I am thinking of allowing ... (132 words)

Girls say I'm sweet and funny, so why won't any girls go out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - hi i am the one that posted the question on how to lose weight faster and that girls wont go for me, i would like to let all of you know that i have had a long term leg injury playing football and i cant do anything like running or playing football (which makes me sad as ... (111 words)

I drive myself crazy with guilt. Can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

30 November 2006 (F)

- Guilt is running my life and driving me crazy! I work very hard at college and it really means a lot to me. But if I can't get there for some reason or I'm ill and can't do the work I said I would, I feel guilty for days until I've done something to ease the guilt! It's real... (185 words)

I don't want to break him away from his friends, but this is important to me. Am I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

30 November 2006 (F)

- Hi, Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for just over 6 months! I really really care about him, but last night we had our very first row. I dont know how to make it better and i dont want to loose him - this row is playing such a big part on my mind. I dont know which of... (371 words)

What should I get my 6month boyfriend for xmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - It is my first xmas with a boyfriend. by that time we will have been dating for almost 6 months, but i dont know what on earth to get him for xmas? Any ideas? The only thing i have thought of is terribly unromantic (a wireless keyboard for his PDA). ... (61 words)

I want him to realize that we can do this long term, how do I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - How cnn you convince someone that you are right for each other long term? My boyfriend is having a crisis that we cant make each other happy if we stay together and get married, etc. He doesnt feel the way he used to - that we were definitely going to be together long term. I ... (88 words)

I think I'm in love with my sister-in-law! Please help!

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I told my sister in law that i fancy her a couple of months ago she lives 200 miles from us but i can't stop thinking about her sexual ,i am married with a son but feel traped in the marriage very distent from my wife.My wife has put on weight that she can't get rid of after ... (152 words)

We are married to other people, loved before, but I STILL love him, what am I to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Ok well here goes, I broke up with my ex 6 years ago and have remained close,close friends ever since and have been able to tell each other anything. We have both got married to toher people but still I can't get the fact that I love him out my head. He is a very very go... (159 words)

My baby stresses me out, my husband and I get into fights, we have no sex life - I'm totally depressed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i m married since 4years. i had 14mnts old son. since then me and my husband has problem we dont have sex life coz i m not attrected to my husband as he has put on lots of weight. i m so much stressed out with my baby so at the end of the day i and my husbant end up with fight ... (122 words)

I keep thinking about my ex, but I DO want to be with my new bf, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - hello, I am really struggling to get over my ex. I have a new boyfriend who is lovely, and have been with him for 4 months now, yet I still find myself feeling so low and crying about the loss of my ex. My ex was the first person i have loved and even though he didnt tre... (297 words)

I want to be friends with this male, but my husband don't like the idea, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I am 34 and have been married for 9 years. Like all marriages, it's had its ups and downs but on the whole we're very happy. Or at least that's what i thought. When i married my husband, he discouraged my having male friends. While this didn't bother me at first, it is ... (231 words)

I just started seeing my dad, but now we're already growing apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi im 17 years old and i started seein my real dad last year in november 2005 at 1st it was great but now a year on we have grown apart..i am so scared of losein my dad to his ex who has recently had his little i was his only girl till then..n i feel like he dont want to no me ... (164 words)

What should I say to my ex (23 years ago!) who wants me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - hi there please could you help me my ex wants me back. i have been with my husband for nearly 17 yrs. my ex and i parted 23 yrs ago.i just want to be friends nothing more but he dont what should i do?... (44 words)

I'm having an affair, his girlfriend knows about it, what am I suppose to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6591 days ago

30 November 2006 (F)

- i met a man that i used to go out with when i was younger,but i was married.To cut a long story short, i started an affair with him.My marriage came to an end,which was hell for me and my girl.This man isnt married but lives with someone.He has no children. 3 years ive been ... (117 words)

I'm 25 and fit... She's 23 and has piled on the pounds... how do I fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, earlier this year we unepectedly had a kid. I love my daughter and girlfriend very much but my girlfriend and i are suppose to marry next year and my girlfriend has piled on the pounds like no business at least a few stone and i'm ... (97 words)

I choke the chicken over my friend's younger sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (M)

- I'm 19 and I was round at my friends house who's the same age as me for the first time and I met her sister there. The problem is that she is 14 (in year 10) and I find her attractive. I've ended up thinking about her when I'm masturbating! But, that's as far as I'll take it. ... (82 words)

My girlfriend tells everyone at work about me, what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - Hi Everyone I really dont know what to think anymore with my partner.Firstly her work is getting to me.She sometimes goes to work and tells them every aspect of our relationship,i feel they know more about me than i do myself.And sometimes im judged by them for this like im too ... (240 words)

I know we're not ready for the relationship, so what should I be doing??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma with my ex (we broke up 2 months ago). I want to be with him, but not right now because the timing is all wrong. We broke up mainly because he was depressed and homeless/jobless, but he's back on his feet again and seems happy, and he'll sometimes call ... (389 words)

I'm depressed and I feel weak because I think other people need to help me through this. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I've been ill for a few weeks and I've also been really depressed. I'm pretty sure they're related problems, whther being ill for a long time made me unhappy or that i've been depressed and it's making me ill, which is more likely. I was ill yesterday and had to leave college, ... (194 words)

He's off on a lad's holiday! I don't trust him and I'm upset he's going..what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6493 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi please help, my boyfriend of nearly two years has said he's off on a lads holiday with all his mates next summer. what bothers me is the fact they're all single! i tried to explain how i thought this was wrong to do while in a relationship, as the whole point of their ... (109 words)

What can I do to make my guy go crazy over sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - What can I do to make my guy go crazy over sex ? Is there certain spots that will drive him nuts ???... (23 words)

Should the ladies cum first? (or after)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

30 November 2006 (M)

- I would like the ladies input on this one. Whenever I have sex, I like to ensure that my lady comes, either by manual or oral stimulation. I used to be a big believer in "the lady comes first" and then we'd have full sex. Now I'm not so sure. I wonder if the lady is more... (113 words)

He said he was 25... He's 30. He said he had a daughter... He has two kids.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have a question about age differences. I am 21 and my fiance is 30. When I met him he told me that he was 25; I was 19 going on to 20. He told me that he had a daughter and that he had been married before. One of my friends through which I met him told me that he had two ... (339 words)

He has a hard time with my past! He was addicted to cocaine..did the drugs mess with his head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - ive been with my partener over a year now,and he just cant accept ive had a past..he gets really wound up and jealous....a good few years ago he was addicted to cocaine but hes been of it for 4 years now!.do u think the drugs are messing with his head?... (50 words)

My husband has nudie pics on his answerphone and chats and flirts with girls online... My Christian beliefs tell me to stay in the marriage - what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi there I have a problem,I have been married for 4 years the years was not smooth.Now for the 1st time there is another females invovle.My sister told me that there is naked picture of a woman on my husband phone,when I qeustion him about it he said he downloaded it from a f... (269 words)

What should I look for? Dilated pupils?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F)

- I have been hanging out with this guy for 2 years. We are best friends. We have had sex a couple of times. We have had oral sex and foreplay quite often. I'm feel I am falling in love with him. I think about him constantly, I'm in a bad mood if I don't see him, and starting to ... (126 words)

He says he doesn't want to introduce me to his family until we're almost engaged! Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - advice from guys, please: how big of a deal is it if a guy doesn't want to tell his family about you? at what point in a relationship should he want to do this? my bf told me he doesn't think he'd want to really bring a girl into that part of his life pretty much until he ... (99 words)

He's lied to me..he calls me names and now I'm wondering-if he has someone else? Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - My bf of 3 years and 4 months is telling me he wants a break and he doesn't know if he wants to get back together. We fight A LOT and he said that that's why. Is he having someone else? He lives an hour and 15 mins from me. I 've never been to his college and never met his ... (244 words)

Some guys say I'm hot... Some say I'm ugly... Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hey, I'm a 13 year old girl. Some guys think I'm really hot, some think i'm really ugly or don' even notice me. How is this possible? I'm not a thin girl. I'm 5'4 and i weight 129 lbs. My measurements are 34-24-37 I'm just really curious, what are the things boys look... (69 words)

He dunps me! Then he says he go out with me again if ..I have sex with him! What do I say to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me after going out 6 months. He texted me and said if I have sex with him he will go back out with me. What do you I suggest I say to that? We are both under 16.... (43 words)