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writes: I don't know what I want for myself in life. I don't know how to make myself happy. Please someone help me as I don't want to end up in 20 years time, married with kids and still unhappy, because it's not fair on them. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Astrid +, writes (15 November 2006):
I think you need to relax, if you get too much self pressure you won't like anything and you won't know what you want ok? do things you enjoy and try to do your best a work then all will show up to be ok
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reader, farsight +, writes (15 November 2006):
Its easy to feel lost time to time. Everyone has those days. I suggest you try new things. Sort of brake the chain and find something you want to know more about. Go out meet people, study something you have always questioned, or volunteering. Don't worry about making the choice of what your going todo with your life, just do what you want now or what best suits you and take it day by day.
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reader, Tine +, writes (15 November 2006):
hun wat age are you?? You need to have a good think about this, there are bound to be some things that make you happy!! Even if its just small things. Personally for me, being with my friends and family make me the happiest person alive. Maybe you dont know where to you want your life to end up, but then again not everyone does.
you know what you dont want, so build on that. Devote your time at the minute to trying out new things and meeting new people to see what things you like and things you dont like. Stop worrying about your future and what lies ahead, because if you dwell too much on it, chances are that while your trying out new things you wil be worrying too much to have a good time.
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