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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 41, he is 57 - is the age gap too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Looking for a man's answer as well. I am 41 years old and my boyfriend is 57 - this age difference has never been a problem for me, but it rears it's ugly head from time to time, like now, and it causes him to have concerns about a future with me and making a... (113 words)

I've had a bad year and I just feel so lonely now my sister has gone away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Hey guys Can anyone suggest how i can get over my lonliness? i have had a pretty bad year this year, through family breavements i have lost both of my nans this year and also my great aunt. Altho i have lots friends and see them all the time i feel sooo lonely. My big ... (146 words)

My friends ex really want to be with me and won't stop trying even though I told him I don't want to hurt my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - One of my friends ex boyfriends has asked if I would like to start seeing him. She is very upset about the split still and seeing him would be very hurtful to her. I would also be likely to lose her as a friend and in likelihood another two friends who are very supportive of ... (161 words)

I'm 15 and just met a fantastic guy but I don't know how to go about expressing my feelings to him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (?) - I'm 15 and this past weekend i went with my youth group on this retreat and one of the guys brought a friend along. His name's Jared and he's 16. We just met and all but i really like him. He's strong in his faith which is important to me. He's also smart and funny, which is a ... (146 words)

He gets to flirt with other people... I don't. What's really going on in his head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Does he still love me? My bf says he loves me, but lately it just seems like he says it to keep me around rather than actually meaning it :( he meets up with girls and constantly flirts, but says i cant meet up with my guy friends and he gets jelaous saying tha... (224 words)

I have to get over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I recently just broke up with my boyfriend, it was a whole mess and he cheated on me, and i gave my friend head when i was drunk and it was this whole saga. He ended it with me on saturday and im completely lost, we were together for a year but only has stuff been goign wro... (123 words)

I didn't give my GF enough attention and I realise my mistake and I just want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - about 14 months ago i split up with my 1st girlfriend who i was with for 2 years. I am 19 and i still feel like she is the only person i can love, i havent seen her since because it was a long distance relationship so i have given it space and time, she is with someone else and ... (147 words)

Can you still have your period and be pregnant at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - i am on my period as normal, however my friend told me that i could still be pregnant if on my period, is this true? i also only last 5 days however im on my 10th day now.... (38 words)

I'm back with my ex but i'm falling for his friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend 2 and a half years, 6 months ago we split up and got back together after a bit, then very quickly moved in together, thinkin we were for keeps, but now i'm finding myself attracted to his friend, Majorly. i think he likes me too. what do i do?... (54 words)

Should I go for the guy I've liked for ages or my new internet buddy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - ok heres the deal... i really like this guy and I'v liked him 4 ages and ages and ages and ages......... but, im 2 scared 2 do anything about it! now, theres this other guy that i met over msn but dpnt wory i know hes not a pedo cuz hes my mates friend and he really lik... (136 words)

He still sees his ex and I found a note and text messages saying how much she stills loves him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Hiya Basically I have been going out with my boyfriend since August 2005. I was in his room one evening, when he was downstairs, and I knocked his wallet off his desk. This note fell out, and it was from this other girl that he went out with before me, called Ash. He still se... (218 words)

Should I stay true to my friend or follow my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I found out that this guy that my friend liked likes me and I like him too but if we go out it will really hurt her. She is a really good friend and the last thing I would want to do would be to hurt her. I also don't want to ignore my feelings for him. I am so confused what ... (65 words)

Will his ex cause us problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - Theres a guy that im with who i am mad about. However his ex is apparantly very jealous and even 2 months on we r not together if n e 1 was to ask. Just recently his ex has been in contact with him saying that he knows, and now this guy says he wants to finish it. I like ... (90 words)

He screws with my head but I can't live without him! What can I do to get away from this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I'm angry because I can't live with this guy but can't live without, he means the world to me but all he ever seems to do is screw with my head and make me sad. We were together but broke up a few months ago, then became sex buddies but that ended about a month ago. I managed ... (482 words)

I really like this guy and need tips on how to take things further now he seems interested in me too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F)

- I really like this guy, like really like this guy, I'd even go so far as to say that I love him, I've been in a few relationships and have NEVER felt this way about anyone. I've liked him this way for the past 18 months, and we occasionally flirt via instant messaging. Howeve... (159 words)

I'm back into dating but men run a mile when the relationship status is broached!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have got back into dating after a 4 year relationship. When dating I have found that many guys say they really like me etc, until the subject of the status of the relationship is brought up. Often I have found that men seem to then back off. I am 26, attrac... (102 words)

My husband wants a divorce but we aren't having any problems I know of!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - My husband of 4 years told me he wants a divorce, yet he has made no move to leave the apartment we rent. We were not having any problems that I know of. Should I broach the subject of reconciliation or just get him out?... (47 words)

I need tips on how to please a guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Guys, which do you prefer: head or hand job? and any tips? x... (13 words)

We have both been burnt before and I love him so much so why won't he say it back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together going on 7 months. I am 31 and he is 37. He was married for 13 years and had two children. His wife was unfaithful numerous times and then was in another serious relationship for 7 years she was unfaithful. I was married for 6 years with ... (308 words)

He seemed to fancy me but suddenly stopped flirting and talking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Hi, i think this boy fancies me! I really do. cos its kinda obvious, i fancy him too and we flirt with each other quite a lot. The thing is oneday he just suddenly stopped flirting with me and talking 2 me! Just suddenly everything stopped and now we hardly ever talk! i real... (79 words)

What are the signs love has faded away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - How do u know you have fallen out of love?... (10 words)

Did I do the right thing...making him burn a note... from someone long before I came along.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Ok, I was sleeping over at my boyfriends house, and everything was going great, until I found this little dusty note above his computer. It was from 5 years ago and he warned me not to look at it, but I did anyways...I got really upset about it, and all I wanted to do is burn ... (127 words)

She cheated and I gave her a 2nd chance. But how do I get these vision of her and this other guy having sex...out of my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - Ive been with a this girl for 3 years i feel she is my soulmate. a few months ago she cheated on me with another guy 10 years older than her after having a sexual realtionship and even giving him oral about 10 times she said she relized what she lost. so know im trying to give ... (112 words)

I'm too tired to have sex. Now he is threatening to go get it elsewhere!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - i have been with my partner for 5 years and i am 22 years old and he is 37 years old and we have 3 children 2 of them his and 1 not but that was before we met well the problem is that we dont have sex its not his fault he wants to have it but im so tired all the time and i am ... (94 words)

How do you have sex with a virgin without hurting her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6462 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is a virgin and I am not. She wants to have sex but I have never had sex with a virgin. How should I have sex with her with ought hurting her. ... (34 words)

He finds intercourse tiring but prefers I give him blowjobs! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 11 months now. I was a virgin when I met him but he wasn't. I'm 18 he's 20 and besically after about 4 months he told me he loved me and a couple of weeks later i realised i loved him (first guy i've ever loved) and anyway I lost ... (218 words)

I want to try again with my ex bf but now...my parents despise him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and me were going to move in together.My parents supported me in my decision.I got cold feet regarding the situation and the relationship and ended everything. I still love him and he loves me.I wnat to try again the only problem is my parents now despise him and ... (56 words)

We broke up so what does he mean when he says..he wants to be friends with "somebody that he's cool with?" Does that include me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - im so confused.....ok my bf and i broke up a month ago becuz he said that he dont love me and that he dont want a relationship right now and just wants to be friends for right now........( well i know that he does love me and that he didnt want to break up with me but he felt ... (446 words)

My parents separated but told me they still loved each other! Should I try and get them together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (M)

- Hi I'm 14 and a few months ago my parents separated. My mum had an affair and thats why my dad left. My mum realised whta she did was wrong and my dad (now) realises he took my mum for granted. I spoke to both of them and asked if they still loved each other. They both sai... (87 words)

I want to get revenge on my bf for what he did! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I want to get revenge on my bf for what he did but i dont know what to do. I want him to regret leaving me cuz i was the best thing that ever happend to him. He didnt cheat on me......he said that he dont want a relationship right now and just wanted to be friends for no... (129 words)

Is our relationship going downhill or am I simply too needy? Which is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - Is our relationship going downhill or am I simply too needy? My girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now, and I am completely in love with her. I know I have not lost any of the drive (emotionally or physically) that was there at the beginning of the relationship... (522 words)

Bf ignores me completely when we visit with his family! What do you think of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Odd question but am curious for opinions?? My boyfriend always takes me down to see his family, which i think is quite nice as it shows he wants me involved with them, etc... but then when we get there he completely ignores me!! He never talks to me in front of his parents, ... (137 words)

Broke up with her 2 months but we still fool around. Now, her period is late and I'm worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - Hi, my i broke up with my girlfriend a couple of months ago but we've been continuing the physical side (not full sex, just everything else). She went on the pill for the first time about a month ago and after about the first 21 days we were just foolin around and sort of ... (172 words)

I love him a lot but feel he doesn't pay enough attention to me! Should I call this a day?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Please help. SORRY FOR LONG POST.. please read!!! How do you know when to call it a day? I have been with my boyfriend over two years, and my feelings for him have bordered on obssession at times. I believe a lot of this is down to his personality... he is very indiff... (649 words)

Guys...do you look down on women who agree to have 3-somes with you? Honest answers, please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I am female 24 and had a 3 some with my boyfriend 27 with another female. We had a lot to drink and both enjoyed it and thinking about doing it again. Do you guys look down on a girl that does this or would you ever consider marrying a partner who does this with you? Please ... (72 words)

I miss him so how do I behave when I do see him? Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - ok after alot of thinking, and confusion for the past week, i've finally decided that i still do love him, i know we arent gettin back together, i miss him dearly but i dont know how to cope. I havent told him since about 2 weeks ago that i still love him. because i only ... (112 words)

Guy I like isn't ready to begin a relationship with me! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - there is a guy i really like and he likes me too but he is not ready to start a relationship. something happened between us but thats it. even if he likes me he think he is young to have something. please help me thanks ... (49 words)

Do I continue communicating with the man that I love even though... he's married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6290 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - should i continue communicating with the man that i love, even though he is married? We met before his engagemnet, and liked each other. He lives in India -a country where there are immense social pressures, and was unable to stop his wedding to someone he doesn't lo... (132 words)

My step-dad is moving his new gf into my deceased Mum's house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - hi all. hopefully someone can help me. my mum died 2 years ago. i really miss her. i recently found out by accident that my mums husband ( my stepfather )has been seeing someone else. He said when I seen them that they have only been seeing each other for a week. This weekend ... (196 words)

Oral sex and the lifespan of sperm

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - If u come through oral sex, and then in a couple of hours have sex without a condom but do not come is it possible your girl friend could get pregnant or would the sperm from earlier on be dead?... (40 words)

He loves his ex and claims to love me, too! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - well i met this guy on the net he is 18 im 28 he fell out with his x and started chatting to me sying he really like me and stuff, then a week later he got back with her, he says he loves her but he loves me to.he also texts me and still talks and chats me up what should i do ... (72 words)

Suffering from depression...any advice and help out there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I suffer terribly from depression. I don't want to go on medication. Today is a very bad day, everything is so black. I just can't get my head together today. I wish i knew the answers. Is there anyone out there who can give me some advice. I need a hug. ... (51 words)

I've never looked twice at a married man, before...what is going on with me!!??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago. I moved here with him but when we broke up he moved away. I am hoping to leave here soon. I have dated a bit but there has been no one serious in my life for quite some time. I am working on a committee right now and there is a ... (124 words)

My ex is still in my life... How can I move on with peace of mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - i have been to this web site a few times in the past to deal with my issues and it has helped me a lot. i am a 25 male who got dumped 4 months ago. i went out with her for almost 2 years and it was great. one day she decides that she wants to be single and that she doesnt love ... (419 words)

Will he ever get over my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Hi. I'm a girl in my late 20's , I met my bf about 2 yrs ago and everything seems to head in the right direction. He is 5 younger than me, but I've been ok with that from the start. My problem is the fact that I cannot help but feel guilty towards him about my past. He's a ... (244 words)

Curious as to what my ex husband is doing...should I contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - My husband walked out on our family on March 2005 with no contact with myself and our 2 yr. old daughter for 6 months. We divorced in August 2005. I began a new relationship in Sept. 2005 and we were together for 3 mos. During that time I became pregnant with my boyfriends ... (451 words)

How can I be more supportive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope someone can help me asap! Basically, my bf has lost his job and is going through an awful lot of stress at the moment. I'm very sad to say, I haven't been that supportive. I've tried to be, but things have got in the way to cause arguments or atmospheres ... (126 words)

We've blended our families and live together, but my son and I still feel very left out of his life! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - My son and I moved in with my bf and his son about 6 months ago. His son recently had a birthday party and invited his friends and didn't invite my son. When i said how annoyed i was i was told to stop moaning. The two lads don't always get on. I feel like it is a them and us ... (185 words)

She is trying to be friends with her ex...should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (M)

- she doesn't remember why she got with her ex and is trying to get back friend's with him sould i be worried? on saturday night she went down town with my brother a few freind's and her mom and she told me she was talking to her ex. i don't normally have a problem but the ... (163 words)

My wife of 22 years is having an affair with a married man... What to do?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - I have a wife of 22 years who i felt was my selected partner forever. We have children in high school and college. About five years ago i took this new job that require i spend a lot of time traveling. She has been working as a manager locally and has a client that is very ... (207 words)

I want to ask my ex bf..if he would give 'us' a second chance. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I left my boyfriend of 4 years 8 months ago. I still love him very much... I needed to leave, to be on my own, in order to deal with old wounds. I feel that I have gained good ground. I haven't had much contact with my ex. We have each gone our seperate ways... but I c... (96 words)

Our first time sex was not that deeply emotional for me. Is this unusual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - What are you supposed to feel like after having sex for the first time? My bf and I have been together a couple yrs, and we slept together the first time (for both of us) last weekend. I thought it was supposed to change the way you feel abt each other -- like make you closer ... (95 words)

He says he loves me but I need more reassurance. How do I deal with my insecurities?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - what's the best way to deal with feelings of insecurity in a relationship? my bf tells me he loves me and, intellectually, i believe it. but he's not a very expressive guy, and i tend to be insecure. i don't want to constantly rely on him to reassure me and *make* me feel ... (160 words)

I trust her but I can't help but worry what could happens when she ges away to college. Any advice for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - I am worried about my gf going to college. We have been dating for a little over a year and she and i both want to make it work while she is gone. She keeps reassuring me everything is going to be fine and has never lied or cheated, or given me a reason to think so for that ... (166 words)

He's back to calling his female friend again and he hiding his phone! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

20 November 2006 (F)

- My bf and I have been together 3 years, i am 22 he is 26, when we first meet he had a younger female friend from the state he lived at before we meet, he says she is just like a little sister to him, but the problem was that he would spend all day on the internet chatting to ... (254 words)

I'm 15 and I've fallen in love with my cousin's husband! I don't know what to do...please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I'm 15 years old and i've fallen in love with my cousins 25 year old husband. and he loves me too. i know it is crazy, but i can't help who i love. i've known him my entire life, and we've always been really good friends. he started his divorce in june of this year, and me and ... (143 words)

I wear condoms in my new relationship! But I can't orgasm...why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (M)

- Hi I've recently started a new sexual relationship, but can't seem to orgasm when wearing a condom. What do you suggest I do?!! My previous girlfriend was on the pill so we didn't use condoms, so am very used to feeling 'skin on skin'. We've tried to make love 5 or 6... (115 words)

How soon after I go on the pill...will I have the most protection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Hi. I'm thinking about going on the pill. how soon after starting the pill will i be able to have the most protection from sex? I know the first week you need another barrier method, but will i be more likely to get pregnant if i'm only on it a few weeks versus a few months? ... (58 words)

I have deep feelings for my friend. I want to ask her out, so which is the best way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (?) - i have a very close friend. she trusts me and tells me everything whenever she is upset i'm there for her. so we are very close. recently i realized i have feelings for her. i want to ask her out. what is the best way? i really care for her. she really wants to get her room ... (226 words)