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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She is 38, I'm 27 and her biological clock is ticking but I just don't know if I want this anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - My dilemma, I'm 27, my girlfriend is 38. We have lived together for 2 years in a rented flat and have been together for 3. Her biolgical clock is obviously ticking and i need to make a decision sharpish if we should get married or i leave. We get along well mostly but recently ... (114 words)

Will our major taste differences in music cause our new relationship to fail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - right ok, i might sound stupid, but here goes anyway.. I've have recently met a guy that i really really liked we both have the same sense of humour and make each other laugh...but..we have very different tastes in music he is into all this screaming goth hardcore punk ro... (109 words)

He said some shocking things to me over out breakup! Do I let this go, due to the stress he's under?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago. It was my decision, he was upset about it but we were still on decent terms. A week ago he left a message saying his father was really sick and that it did not look too good and then he said some things that let me know that he is ... (154 words)

Could I grow to love him or should I end it as soon as possible? What do you all think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - I have a problem in that i have been seeing a guy i met over the internet for nearly two months and he is a proper gentleman, always taking me out and paying for meals and nights out, and for all this kindness i dont think i fancy him. He says he is content with being friends ... (101 words)

Why don't the boys want to give me attention anymore? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - right im quite concerned! i usealy get alot of attention of lads and i always go out and pull, but lately i havnt been gettin as much attention and i have even got off with someone for 2 weeks now!!! thing is i havnt changed anything, i havnt put wieght on etc soo wats wrong ... (58 words)

We're due to get married but I'm soo bored with our relationship. How do I tell her it's over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years and are due to get married next year. The only problem is that i really don't like living with her and i'm bored of our relationship. I don't know how to tell her that it's over, i'm hopeless at things like this. Help!... (59 words)

My gf has missed a period! Does having first time sex throw off a woman's menstrual cycle? Advice please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - I'm 18 years old and my girlfriend, who is also 18, just told me she's a week late. Does this mean she's pregnant? I'm not sure because she was a virgin and by having sex doesn't that throw off the menstruation cycle? Please help. ... (47 words)

I'm 13 and want to try sex with my bf...but I'm afraid!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6589 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - welll im 13 and i am very grown up for my age i have bin with much older boys than me and had to pertend that im older like 15 i am with this booy i realy like him to we are getting along wiked but l8a he has bin asking me if i wanna have sex with him and trying to get me in to ... (124 words)

I'm 17 and a virgin! Is this a bad thing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - right im 17 i have only done sexual things once! and so ye im a virgin!! do you think this is kinda sad as im 17! and most people my age are sleeping around! i was to lose my virginty its just in scared and have no idea what im doing lol advice people thankss x... (56 words)

Dating for 2 years yet he treats our relationship like a cheap affair! What can I say to him..to make him understand my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - Hi can somebody please give me some advice im dating this lovely guy for 2 yrs well he is lovely to me he has helped me when things have been bad for me in the past.But he dosent really make me feel very secure about us and when ever i want to talk about us he gets very distant ... (240 words)

I love my bf..but am falling hard for someone else! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - hi my boyfriend has been on holiday and ive met someone else which i think im falling for im so confused because i love my boyfriend and cnt imagen life without him but im falling for someone else pls help xxx... (41 words)

I like this boy..so what compliments can I give to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - what compliments can you give to a school boy?? im 14 and i really like this boy, we get along great all the time and i was thinking of trying to get him to like me as more than a friend. I've been smiling at him more and talking to him when ever i can and complimenting hi... (105 words)

He insists we are a couple but won't break the news to his family? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

5 November 2006 (F)

- Hello, i've been friends with this guy for years (10+)since HS. we finally slept together this summer. it was great for him, (guys can't fake it 4x in one long hot summer day, can they?) good for me (i wasn't as fulfilled, even tho he tried his best, i faked it good). but i ... (229 words)

He points out all my body flaws and it's soo hurtful! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

5 November 2006 (?) - My boyfriend is 48. And I am getting more and more despondent and discouraged with this relationship, as time goes on. He keeps on making hurtful, digging little remarks about any flaw, on my body. I had cancer surgery back in 1993 and I have a scar, on my abdomen. He hates ... (186 words)

How do I get a bigger penis...without surgery? Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - helo, please help me!!! i am 22 years old... i am from india... my problem is i have a small penis it ranges from 2"(flaccid) to 3-4"(erect)... please tell me how to have a bigger one without any surgery...... (39 words)

I need on how to make sex more spicey and horny for both of us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so annoyed with just lying there during sex, my boyfriend has never questioned it and has always said I am good in bed, however, I still don't feel satisfied myself. I'd rather not introduce toys because I don't want that to ruin the sex by my body ... (113 words)

We're reconciling, so how do we handle issues like visitations with our ex spouses?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6620 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - I've been asking and searching for advice on this one. I hope you can help to some degree. I was married. The marriage lasted 4 years. During the 4 years, my ex-husband cheated with his now current wife. They already had 2 kids before we were married. He had others ... (595 words)

Me and my bf hardly get to see each other due to working. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - I just recently started my new job and its been hard on my boyfriend and I. We don't get to see too much of one another during the week but he promised we would spend the weekends together. And now hes too busy and has other plans. We have been together for 3 years. What should ... (58 words)

How can I tell my dad that my bf is 28? I am only 18!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - i am 18 and my boyfriend is 28. i know it is a large difference but im so in love, he is everything i want in a partner but the problem is my father is going to be so angry when i tell him. we have been together 2 months now, but i know my father would not aprove, how can i ... (67 words)

My bf acts and may have to kiss on stage. How should I react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - im in a loving relationship with a guy thats really passionate about life, music, drama ect.he studies drama at uni,we've been together for 2 years now, i really love him.the thing is im insecure about the people/girls he have to work with. The get physical and im always ... (138 words)

Hurt my partner during sex, now he finds it hard to trust me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, Since July 2006, I have been in a gay relationship and things have been great. This is my first gay relationship - I have discovered the fact that I am gay at 31 - and it has been difficult adjusting to a new way of life - however, overall, things have been... (305 words)

It takes me a long time to cum when I'm getting head. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - It takes me a long time to cum when I'm getting head. Is this normal?... (15 words)

Is it normal that I am more turned on while giving a girl oral sex than when she is giving me oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - Is it normal that I am more turned on while giving a girl oral sex than when she is giving me oral sex? I just find it a little strange. How can I give my girlfriends the best satisfacrion during oral sex? gimme some pointers.... (45 words)

Have I let go without realising it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (M)

- Without getting into too much detail i posted on cupid recently regarding me and my ex-girlfriend mutually splitting up and hoping to see if the spark comes back over time. My world was turned upside down even more when i found out she was with my friend within 2 weeks of ... (258 words)

The romance has disappeared from our relationship, its only early days. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - Here's the deal... I am dating a new guy... he showed interest in April 2006, I didnt get back to him until Sept. We started officially dating exclusively in OCtober but now it seems the dynamics have changed. He not as sweet, not as considerate. We talk everyday but the... (120 words)

I feel like i am being put in the back seat and being ignored. She says she still loves me but its hard when she chooses to work over hanging out with me. Should I move on or work at it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year we are both 19 and we are both in college. I have two part time jobs I work about 20 hours a week and i am taking 15 units in college. My girlfriend had a part time job that she would work 35+ hours a week and she is ... (191 words)

I need sex with this guy, but want to gain enough respect to become his gf. How can I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and 3 months about 3 weeks ago. I'm very over him cuz this was an abussive relationship. I've been seing this guy for about 3 weeks also. I can't wait to start having sex with him. I was sexually active until I broke up with my boyfriend ... (241 words)

My guy would rather go to Hooters than spend time with me. Please advise.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - am I wrong here??? Isn't this common sense??? I've been seing this guy for about three weeks and tonight we were at this dance with his friends. When the dance was over he said he wanted to go to hooters and his friends agreed to go with him. I was just standing there like a ... (256 words)

What is emotional connection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - Emotional connection, what is it?... (5 words)

Should I be offended because he masturbates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - my husband works 12 hr days and sometimes our schedule are not the same he works 6pm til 6am and I work 2pm til 1030pm. and sometimes I come home and find a towl that I can smell his man scent on so I know that he has maturbated should I be offended at this? somtimes before ... (75 words)

How can I get over the loss of 2 close people without affecting my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (M)

- Hey all okay, heres the story. over the past month, 2 people who are really close to me have passed away, one (being my grandfather) died (but we are all happy for him, cuz he was suffering cuz he was forced to live on an oxygen tank for years). The second (just 2 days ago... (158 words)

How can I just forget my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - my bf doesnt know of my previous relationships, i havent told him coz i never felt i need to, but he got to know of my ex through one of my mails i dunno how he got it but he was really upset abt it and i thought we were abt to split but we made up and we never had problems ... (145 words)

Our hearts want to be together, but our brains are saying no. Could we end up together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - i was only 14 and he was 17 when we first fell in love. i felt like he was my everything, we only dated for 10 months, but we've known each other for only 2 years. during the time we dated.. i started to get really moody, and i guess i took him for granted. i know that i cared ... (825 words)

Does she like me, or am I dreaming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6621 days ago

5 November 2006 (?) - does she fancy me. she has a 10month boyfriend. she sits and talks to me in our free lessons in a place like library nearly every day for about an hour so it's quiet! she meet's me whenever i text or phone her. she tells me to walk her home at least once a week just so we can ... (115 words)

He sweet and kind but...is he just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6622 days ago

5 November 2006 (F)

- So this guy (he's 30, I'm 21) and I made out three times before he said he doesn't date white girls. I eventually got over it and we're still friends--after a few weeks of major awkwardness. Last night we were out running errands together and then went over to a friend's... (204 words)

coffee on teh first date...but why is he too cheap to take me to dinner for a 2nd date. Should I ask him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - I'm going on my second date with a man that I met on-line (we are both middle-aged). We met for coffee on our first date. However, we are going out for dessert on our second date. He is quite comfortable financially as he owns a home, is a professional and his children are ... (171 words)