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writes: im 19 and a virgin ive been seeing this guy for 3 months now and im really shy how do i tell him im not ready for sex just yet without completely destroying him, i mean is there any nice way to put it
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2006): well I think if he care about you then he wouldnt mind waiting till your ready. you cant be scared to tell him becsaue if you dont he will think you are
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): Just tell him straight you're not ready for sex yet - My girlfriend told me - i did not get "completely destroyed" if he has any other interest in you other than sex then he can wait
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (15 November 2006):
 just let him down gently and tell him ur reasons if he wants this to work he will respect ur wishes and wait until u are ready, dont keep quite for too long as he cant read ur mind. another thing is that he might not be the only one destroyed by this u are part of the equation, so prepare urself he might not take it well and break it off so leave a room for this. good luck
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reader, jack23 +, writes (15 November 2006):
 The best way is to just sit down and tell him straight. If he is a decent guy he will understand and give you the time and space you need. The worst thing is to feel preasured into it, it will me you uncomfortable and you wont be able to enjoy it.
Just be honest with him, its your body so dont feel obligated :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): Dear Friend,
I read your question and Am interested in it.There is no crime in keeping your virginity,infact its a great self esteem a lot of gals lost and trying to regain.But,you have done well in preserving yourself as a teenager.I appreciate that.Now about your BF,don't be shy about that,just work up to him or when you see him to be in a good mood,tell with questions.Ask him how he feels with a virgin gal?Ask if he meets someone with her virginity?How does he treat a virgin gal trying to know if he respect that.check if he loves sex and if he love a decent gals?I think with all these questions you should be bold enough to tell him your problems and i know if,he loves you he will accept you and even love you more.
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