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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I find some females attractive...does that make me bi-curious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

17 November 2006 (F)

- i think i find some girls good looking (attractive) am i bi ? or bi curious or ?... (18 words)

I'm very shy and I like this guy! Should I hint to him that I like him? Or should I not do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Hey, Im 16 and have recently started full time work. I love it the staff are great and the job is never boring. One member of our staff stands out to me, I really like him. I've had crushes before but this time it feels different, alot stronger. I can't get him out of my he... (148 words)

I'm not ugly, I'm not fat, I have a good personality. Why is no one interested in me?.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Recently, I've noticed that I cannot get a boyfriend at all. My friends always have guys trying to be in relationships with them, and this makes me jealous. Everyone tells me to wait, I'll find someone soon but in my opinion, I don't think I will. I'm not ugly, I'm not ... (68 words)

What can I do to stop myself from orgasming too quickly? Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - I'm 18 years old and i have sex alot. But for some reason my penis gets on hard quick. sometimes i could just look at a girl and it gets on hard. Then when i have sex I nut quick. I try to think about other things but it never works what should i do.... (55 words)

Can't figure out if I love him or not. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F)

- Hiya i have a new boyfriend who i have known for a bit and met twice when we wasnt together and he asked me to be his girlfriend on msn and i said yes and i was out with him tonight and im not sure if i love him. help because i dont want to finish him in case i do like him but ... (69 words)

I'm falling for a female co-worker! Does this make me a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

17 November 2006 (F)

- I’m 21 and female. I have a boyfriend who is great and I’ve been with him for about 2 years. I lost my virginity to him, he was my first proper boyfriend and I would say I love him. He was cheating on me when we first got together but still going out with his ex, obviously I ... (184 words)

Attracted to my professor...should I pursue him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - I have a question, I have a professor that I am very attracted to. He is single,and older than me in his 50's, but I have just turned 40 and have been out of the dating thing while raising my daughter who is 24. I have spoken to other people who says that I should not persue ... (62 words)

Anything my bf tries, cannot bring me to orgasm! We need help...any good tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F)

- I have been here before for advice and got some really good answers from people, thats why I've come back! Ok, so the thing is I am a 20 year old female. I currently have a bf of 18 months and everything between us is great the only thing is I have never had an orgasm in my ... (228 words)

I am insisting on a deeper comittment from him..Am I being foolish to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of three years has relocated overseas due to work reasons , and we have been conducting a long distance relationship for the past two months now ; we keep in contact every day thru email; text and phone calls however the problem is that he told me he never wants to ... (112 words)

Frustrated military wife tired of being taken for granted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

17 November 2006 (?) - Thanks for taking the time to read this. I hope it doesn't end up too lengthy. I've been having some struggles with my marriage, and I was hoping some of the agony aunts may be able to lend some helpful advice. My husband and I are newlyweds, so you'd think that we'd be sti... (446 words)

How does a guy want to hear those three words?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - This question is for the guy"s reading, Let me explain situation some, i been dating a man for about a year now, everyhtig is great, absoulutly perfect actually, sex 3 times a week ,we talk hours on hours each day, But...i am a bit diffrent i am not one to touch on the sub... (191 words)

He blew up and me and now needs his space. What does that mean?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for coming up to 9 months now, it has been an amzing relationship. About a week ago we had an argument about something very small, (he called me at 3am when he was meant to have come round earlier to see me as he was going away for the weekend and ... (106 words)

I'm 13 and get embarrassed when I don't orgasm!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6572 days ago

17 November 2006 (F)

- please help im 13 and dont orgasm and i worry when boys/men go to do things with me i wont orgasm and i feel embarrased. ... (25 words)

I am never content settling for second best in life..am I expecting to much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Do I expect too much out of life? That's what my mother tells me. All I ask is that I am happy, but it's so hard to get what I want. I can't be content with settling for second best, I know I'm only young but I have no regrets so far, and compared to others my age I have been ... (117 words)

My gal has no sex drive at all! What can I do about this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - My partner and i have been togeather for 5 years and are now married. However she has no sex drive at all!. When we do eventually have sex we have only ever done it with her on top and she will not try any other position as she says it hurts. but manages it on top well enough.... (118 words)

I broke up with my lady of nine years for another women who now says she's not ready for a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - ive been working with a girl for 8mths and as soon as we met we got on like a house on fire,problem was she had a boyfriend in a another country and was hoping to go and be with him.i ended up sleeping with her before he came home,she ended up finnishing him,but ive been seeing ... (160 words)

His ex is a nuisance and uses their child as a pawn..to get back at my husband. What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Hi, i would like some advice on what to do. I posted regarding a prob with my husband ex girlfriend .Ive been with my husband years now and we have kids.He has a child to his ex that he has seen rarely !He was never married and with his ex girlfriend less than one year she end... (566 words)

I think my boyfriend only wants to take a break to keep his emotions to himself

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17 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We had talked of marriage and kids, where we were going to live, we had even started the process of building a house together. About 2 months ago the job he had taken out of town 3 months prior started to turn bad. He was ... (320 words)

I need help with my erection problem before it ruins my relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - Does anyone have any advise for men with erection problems? Sometimes I cannot get an erection with my girlfriend when we are going to have sex and other times I get an erection but I cum as soon as I enter her. I have diabetes many years,but I have kept very good control of ... (225 words)

I want to stay close to my male friend, but we have nothing to talk about anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

17 November 2006 (F)

- i dont really know where to start, I have a very complicated relationship with my best male friend. We are so close and speak to each other evernight on the phone usually for an hour maybe even two or three hours at a time. Since the summer ive had deeper feelings for him, ... (133 words)

Could I have an eating disorder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Do I have some kind of eating disorder? I'm 16 years old and I've gone down 2 dress sizes in a year. My attitude to food changed when I broke up with my boyfriend in January. I just didn't like eating and would sometimes just forget to, whereas I used to snack all the time and ... (212 words)

Is he drinking to keep his mind off me? Or has he just moved on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - I need help on an issue My ex boyfriend who we've been apart for a month and together for about a year and a half broke up. we've said to each other that we miss each other but we dont know if we love each other anymore as this break up has been hard on the both of us. ... (141 words)

If I wasn't enough for him before, will I be enough now?

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17 November 2006 (F)

- Hi, Im eighteen and im female . My ex broke up with me around 2 1/2 years ago. We've remained really good friends over the years, a few months ago he moved away, but hes coming back in a month. The other day he told me he 'loves' me. Ive always 'loved' him and its come as kind ... (125 words)

I'm so heartbroken -I can't sleep at night! Should I see him again or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - hello, NEED HELP well, me and my boyfriend have been broken up for the past month and it started off to be very hard to be apart, it was sleepless nights cryin myself to sleep,waking up dreadin the day and always trying to preoccupy myself. that went on for about 2 weeks an... (222 words)

We broke up and found new partners..but I love my ex gf so much! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - after 2 months i still love my ex girlfriend and we now both have new partners. we went out t chat and ended up kissing, i feel strongly for my new girlfriend and my ex girlfriend likes her new boyfriend alot but we have both decided we need to be together. I really dont want ... (81 words)

He ignores me..why doesn't he have the balls to be honest and tell me it's done?

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17 November 2006 (F) - I am feeling very blue today. I am still in love with my ex who after giving me mixed signals for months of us dating again, i think has now decided he doesnt want me as hes not contacted me for 2 weeks. I love him so much. I want him to be happy, so i am willing to let h... (236 words)

My husband is a pig, but my kids love him to pieces

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - hi i married at 19 after being 2gether 4 3 yrs. 18months of marriage he had an affaire with my friend from work. we split but never divorced. since then i had 3 lovely children by a man who i was with for 7 yrs. one of my sons was very ill and need extra care 24/7 he said it ... (388 words)

I'm in love with her and she won't even talk to me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - i am 14 years old and i am in love with a girl in my class.i asked her out but she refused and doesnt even talk to me and now the whole school knows about this matter.yesterday i saw her bathing naked and this has made my matter even worse. i am sincerely in love with her.... (57 words)

How can I tell if I'm Bi or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - I thought I was bisexual, but I've realised that I like doing stuff to girls but don't like them doing stuff to me. Does this mean I'm not Bi?... (29 words)

We have had sex and we flirt constantly! Even though, he says he doesn't want me..what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Me and my ex have been talking over the internet every day for about 3 days. We flrt a lot, and we obviously both still like eachother, but we are both confused as to what we want. We broke up 2 months ago but it didn't really end, as we were like sex buddies but with a little ... (231 words)

Being with him would make life bearable, but he doesn't want me! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Feel as though my whole life is slipping through my fingers. I'm 16, and 4 months ago I was perfectly happy. I had an amazing boyfriend who I loved to death and loved me too, I had a great social life, making new friends every day and keeping good relationships with old ones, ... (464 words)

We flirt but I have asked her out, yet! Do you think she respects me more for holding out with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (M)

- Hi there, I posted a question a couple of days ago, about the 31 year old male, who's flirting in the office with the 20 year old female. Well the flirting is still going strong which i am more than happy with, still sharing loving glances, still whispering our little sa... (281 words)

He has money problems! Should I marry him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - me and my partner have been together for 1 year and 2 months and it was love at first sight, but he always has thing about lieing to me or like he says he doesnt want to hurt me so he keeps it from me, it always has to do with money problems and he has a problem with money. i ... (111 words)

Sent him kinky picture of me to liven things up, but he seems so uninterested! Advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Advice needed as I am feeling pretty down. I got involved with a guy about 2 months back who didn't think was that nice but after a few dates I got to really like. We met each others friends and he insisted on meeting my parents. Everyone thought he was lovely. We are i... (394 words)

My bf's mate told me that my bf wanted to break up! My heart is broken so what should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

17 November 2006 (F)

- Hey guys... i need a little bit of advice... Me and my boyfriend split up last night after being together for about 2months. I really really loved him and when i was told by a mate ( because he was too scared to tell me himself) that it was over i littraly felt my heart br... (207 words)

I'm a bi female. I like this girl who said she likes me but she says she's not gay! She sounds confused..what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - hi im bi i like this girl so i told her and she likes me i asked her is shes gay but she said no so i was like ok then she dont know about me being bi but anyway this has been happerning for like 3 months we get somewhere but then begin at the start again she says she loves me ... (119 words)

We've been seeing each other again and been intimate but he doesn't regard me as his gf! Should I just stop chasing after him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - hi, I am in a bit of a emotionally stressful situation, and would really appreciate some advice, because i think at the moment im in "tunnel vision" mode. i have recently started seeing this man, who is much older than what i am, however he doesnt act or look his age so it is... (292 words)

My step sister exposed her breasts to me! She has never done anything like this before! What does this mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - The other day when me and my step sister were at home alone she took a shower, to my surprise she came out wearing only tight panties, her breast and everything else were revealed to me she has never done anything like this before, What does this mean?... (52 words)

I am emotionally/mentally attracted to him but 'not' physically! This really bothers me so what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Hi there! To start, I'm a bit ashamed to be writing this message asI don't beleive I'm a shallow person. As a matter of fact, I really have no reason to be as I ad,it to MANY personal flaws and imperfections in me. It's not fair for me to feel the way I do...but the truth bl... (316 words)

I love this guy who I began dating 2 weeks ago..but he lies all the time! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - We started dating almost 2 weeks ago. He lies about the dumbest things but then i caught him lieing about liking this other girl before we dated. I don't care who he liked in the past but he shouldn't lie. Last night when i was in the shower, he was on my computer messaging ... (334 words)

We've been online dating for 8 months and he wants me to 'conceive' when he comes in December! Should I just stop all this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Hi,i have been dating a man online for the past 8 months,we planned a lot about our future including starting a family, the problem is he always keep on chatting with other women online and another thing he lives miles away from where i do but promised me that he will come this ... (93 words)

In a relationship for 6 years and I'm fed up with doing everything! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for six years. I'm getting fed up of doing everything around the house, but when I mention it he always has an answer which I can't argue with. He also has a mother who constantly calls. She is ill but I feel as if she only carries on about it to ... (124 words)

I like my friend, but the thing is she is a girl! am I bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - i have a boyfriend right now and i'm really happy with him. but i have this new friend and i'm attracted to them. but the thing is, is that my friends a girl. i'm still attracted to my boyfriend and other guys but i'm starting to find my friend attracive. and i catch myself ... (77 words)

We're both in bad marriages and cheating on our spouses, but I'm not sure of his true feelings...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - I am married and also in a relationship with a married man. Our spouses are very much alike, so we can relate to each other. We are both in bad marriages, but do not want to punish our children by divorce. This has been going on over 2 years. I am deeply in love with him and we ... (174 words)

My sexually-experienced girlfriend says I'm "too big" and that being on top hurts...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - I am 18 years old and my girlfriend is 16 years old. We have been dating for about 1 month now. When we first had sex she was on top and said that it's too big, that it goes in so far. I found this kind of hard to believe becuase she is no virgin, more like borderline slut. I ... (76 words)

I think I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend. Then I'm not. Then I am again! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - My bf wants us to sleep together, and I think I want to also, but at the same time, I'm scared of how attached it might make me. I already love him so much, and I don't know how I'd get by if we broke up ... I can't imagine loving him more. I've never been any good at being... (199 words)

Is my vagina too big?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

17 November 2006 (F)

- I'm 13 years old and I think I have a wide vagina as I can fit about 4 fingers inside. It makes me worry about what boyfriends will think. Help me please ... (32 words)

I need help surviving a long-distance relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend recently moved overseas for work. I'm 21 and he's 25- We have been together for almost two years and I really miss him but am unable to join him until next year- probably March. I never wanted to have a long-distance relationship but I love him and we are both ... (101 words)

My GF's so busy she doesn't have time for sex any more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - my girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and for the first year things were absolutly great. We had sex every possible time we could and she instigated it so many times. She was always calling me and asking to hang out and holding my hand and touching me. ... (439 words)

Are phone calls to her ex considered a form of cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 November 2006 (M) - I have been in an up and down relationship for almost three years. There is a difference of 15 years between us and I know that there is a generation gap of sort here, but my girlfriend says she has no problem with the age difference. I have recently discovered that ... (312 words)

He's a virgin but I want him! How long should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - My sex life is aweful!!! I've been seing this guy but he's still a virgin and he says he doesn't think he wants to have sex with me and that he's scared. I'm really frustrated because i'm used to being sexually active and now he's not making me happy at all. I don't know how ... (73 words)