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writes: How can i be more than a fu@* buddy? I gave this guy a blowjob but i really like him ive known him for 4 weeks and each time we see each other we flirt like crazy. The problem is.. he has loads of girls and he calls them his b****** they call him up all the time and i dont wanna be 1 of them but im sooooo attracted to him i cant help it. I dont wanna be branded his b**** but its my own fault. How can i be more than that??
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (16 November 2006):
 Ugh, if he's got girls that he's calling his "bitches" - you don't want anything to do with him. Clearly, he doesn't respect the girls he's with and he probably won't respect you either.
Have some respect for yourself and leave that loser.
You're way too good for that.
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reader, katybear  +, writes (15 November 2006):
If you like him and wanna get down with him do it if it feels right but make sure you can handle cas wit out getting to involved and focus on making yourself a little unavaliable to him . Guys always want what they carn't have it's part of their and our human nature i guess and if you don't call and text him and approach him with confidence that demands his attention and respect there is no way that he can treat you or call you a B#### cos you know u got it going on and deep down he does too!! the thrill of the chase is the funist thing there is in relationships but make sure their is a chase babe don't give yourself to him on a silver platter... Get out there and give this approach see how it works ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): How can you be more than his bed buddy? Refuse to give him any more blow jobs, or to have sex with him, that's how.
If he really likes you, he will respect your decision. If all he's interested in is sex, he won't respect it.
In any case, if he has all these women and calls them his ---"whatever" it does not sound good.
I wouldn't hold out too much hope for this one, if I were you. Cut ties now, even if you like him, it won't be too hard after only four weeks.
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