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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend suffers from cancer but I think she is taking my help for granted...

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8 November 2006 (F)

- My friend Mary suffers from cancer I always try to be supportive and helpful and even change plans to cheer her up and be with her. Now I notice she takes me for granted and that when she's got entertanining things to do with other friends she's rather be with them as she ... (133 words)

He is going to break up with his GF for me but I'm just not sure of his intentions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6616 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - So there is this guy i have been talking to and he says he likes me but now he has a gf. Whenever my friends ask or he asks he says he doesnt like me and he doesnt want to start any drama so thats y he doesnt say i like her aswell. Yesterday on the phone he said in a week or ... (230 words)

I seem to be craving the attention from my co-worker rather than my fiance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Hey, Im looking for a bit of advise on my 6 year relationship with my partner. I'm 23 and he's 28 and he's my first 'boyfriend'. The relationship was always great between us, we have good laughs and I do miss him when he's gone. I recently started a new job and I am happy... (451 words)

I am tutoring my niece but she can be such a little brat - I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

8 November 2006 (F)

- I promised my sister to help my niece with her homework and study (9 years old) one hour a day and collect her from school as her father doesn't take the time to do so and she works a lot. The problem is the girl sometimes gets mad at me and said she'd rather be with her mummy. ... (197 words)

My kids and I just can't seem to make her happy anymore!

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8 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for five yrs. We both are in are early twentys and we have four kids together. The past four yrs we just fought and seperated now anything and everything my kids or i do upsets her a lot more. She's very controling and strong minded, ... (73 words)

We seem to have grown apart but we both can't work out why...anyone have similar experiences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I don't know if anyone will be able to help me at all, but maybe if you or you're partner has gone through this yourself maybe you could tell me what happened? I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months, and since we have both gone back to university this year we seem to have ... (166 words)

What do I do about my ex who maybe wants me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6616 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - I know im young and naive(16),,,but I felt my girlfriend was the love of my life,,,but she completly ignored me all of the time! I feel as though i need her,,,and as though she needs me,,,but dont know what to do about it??!! She wont even speak to me! But friends have told me ... (65 words)

Now that we're together he doesn't seem to have any time for me but he did when we were friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been with my bf for 2 weeks now, we've both liked each other for ages and only just got together. But I feel like I saw more of him when we weren't together, I haven't seen him out of school at all since our first date and he never calls or texts me, he did... (182 words)

I'm single now and finding my own identity again but will I lose that if we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Is it possible to be in love with someone but not want to be with them? I still love my ex, and I long for him sometimes when i'm alone and thinking about him, but right now I feel exhausted. We've been on and off since this time last year, and he's been such hard work to keep ... (200 words)

He broke it off, then we were back on, then he broke it off again - is moving away the best thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Hello, well ive been going through issues with my ex boyfriend. I love him very much and ive never felt this way for anyone my whole life. We fought alot during our relationship and we would always break up and one day he called me and he told me he wanted to end it because of ... (276 words)

How do I get past the hurt and pain of my first marriage without letting it destroy my current one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - My ex husband cheated on me and it destroyed me and made me very insecure. Now it is effecting my current marriage. My husband has never given me reason to believe he is cheating on me, but I am always looking for him to. I don't trust him at all, and it's not fair. How do ... (105 words)

We broke up. He states he doesn't love but he still cares. What does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been broken up for about 3 months. He says he doesnt love me but he cares a great deal about me. Wth does that mean? It confuses me so much. He says he wants to be friends for NOW but he calls me at least 5-6 times a day where we talk about 2-4 hrs a ... (200 words)

What are the emotional consequences of losing my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - hey im 17 and a virgin and i have been looking into losing my virginty, but whats with the emotional consequence that people keep bringing up, once iv had sex? i do see how it would effect me...advice please!... (40 words)

Do you think there's something disturbing about a 25 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Do you think there's something disturbing about a 25 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl? We've been friends for a good while and he's a great guy, but the one thing I've noticed people ask me a lot is, "Uh..what could this man possibly see in a little teeny bopper? Wh... (209 words)

I've been deleting her messages without telling him. Is this right or wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

8 November 2006 (F)

- I've been living with this great guy now for about a year. We met 2 years after he went through a horrible break up with a woman who completely devastated him, both financially and emotionally. The thing is, she's been calling our house lately and I've been deleting her ... (174 words)

Is it possible to fall out of love with someone after a long period of time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6616 days ago

8 November 2006 (F)

- Is it possible to fall out of love with someone after a long period of time?.....I no longer have sexual feelings for my spouse. I care about him like I would a brother or other family member whom I have no sexual chemistry with. I've gone to counseling, had my hormones ... (104 words)

I always have to initiate with him...does he not like me or he just shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - i have to initiate all the convo's on msn, myspace and txt! but he always reply's! also have to ask 2 see him, he neva asks me! but always agrees to meet up! is this guy jst shy, or not into me....any opinions! the day we met he was all over me (but drunk), the nxt time i g... (90 words)

He belittles me and I can't do anything right...What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - hey im only a young girl and have been goin out with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months i used to love him dearly and i know he loved me so much to.but now i always seem to cry after seeing him and i dont understand why. i feel he belittles me and i can do nothing right when im ... (112 words)

We want to lose our virginity together, I need some advice please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I have resently started going out with this lad i have known for years. I liked him for ages and finally got the courage to tell him however we have been going out for 3 weeks and were both virgins, we came to the desion to lose our virginity togeather but i feel very anxious. ... (73 words)

Can my hymen be broken since I use tampons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - hey im 18 and iv been using tampons for 3 years now! and i regulaly take part in sports, i was woundring is it possible for my hymen to be broken already?... (32 words)

I feel my girlfriend is stressed out from college and work and only wants to lay around, what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - I have a slight problem. My girlfriend has not long got a job which means she has too work evenings three times a week sometimes four times per week if not on the weekend. The thing is she has college full time and does not have a day off. She is at college from 9 till half 4 ... (278 words)

She used to be really affectionate, but not so much anymore, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - How do I get answers out of her? We used to call and text all the time, but recently she said it was annoying when I did that, so I stopped. She used to be extremely affectionate all the time, in public, private, wherever. She is still affectionate, but less often, and it makes ... (100 words)

His girlfriend hates me because he flirts with me.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - there is a lad who likes has a gf and he flirts wiv everyone the thing is his gf hates me for it so what can i do? wb xxxx... (30 words)

I really like this girl and want to go to the dance with her, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - hi. i am a shy and unconfident person and want to ask this girl to the school dance. the only thing is i don't knw if she has a partner. she smiles at me every time we see each other and will sit next to me in my classes. i will wait for her at the end of our classes and we w... (151 words)

My bf didn't want to get tested for herpes and I feel he was being selfish! Am I right?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Hi, I'd like some advice on my current situation. It took my boyfriend six months to get tested for herpes 2, and I'm really confused on what is going to happen after we hear the results. This is what happened: basically a few months ago he found a sore on his penis ( now we've ... (973 words)

It's been 10 months, but I still feel hatred for what happened!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6616 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - it has been ten months sence i discovered the father of my 3 children and live in partner of 8 years,had an affair with his ex.i was in shock to realise just now that it has been so long sence it happened,and to feel as devestated as if it happened yesterday. i still love ... (153 words)

I can't have sex with my husband anymore, what can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I am no longer in love with and have not been able to feel enough physical attraction to have sex with my husband for the last year. We have not slept in the same room for one year. We have been married for 21 years and were mostly happy - he has been a very good husband in ... (216 words)

He said he didn't like me when I called him, then called and let me know he loves me....What with that??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I really love my boyfriend. This morning I called him and he got in such a bad mood just because I called. He told me "you know how you said theres just some people who you just don't like? that's how I feel about you".. basically I just got off the phone after that. Then he ... (128 words)

She cheated on me and now he is her best friend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - This is my first time asking for help on one of these boards but I need some advice... Okay first a little back round I had known this girl for 7 years, We meet and REALLY hit it off sadely she had to go back to a far off place, Now fasfoward nine months. She stays... (311 words)

I have insecurities about his ex....how can I fix all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Hiiii I am a twenty year old female and of East Indian origin. As you may or may not know my cultural background taboos issues like dating and having a boyfriend. Amidst my recent migration to Canada has led me to the world of internet chatting and IMing. Six months ago I me... (313 words)

After an argument he ended it, then we got back together - and now he's acting funny! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend now, on and off for 13 months, but recently things have been even worse. These past few days have been especially bad. We had a major argument two nights ago something insignificant and he just blew his top, and ended it right there on the spot, he ... (186 words)

I don't want to snoop, but I've found stuff...what should I do about all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I'm embarassed to admit this, but I think my fiance busted me snooping on his computer this morning, and I'm feeling very regretful and nervous. If he did catch me, he pretended like he didn't (and I pretended nothing happened), we had a nice morning together before I had to ... (477 words)

I need to feel better about myself after he lost interest, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Lately, this guy I really like has lost intrest in me and has moved on to other girls. And this has made me hate myself. I really don't want to go back to how I used to be, which was despising myself for being fat. Recently, I've been so happy with myself...but bec... (81 words)

I feel like his babysitter how do we overcome this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - im confused about my feelings when my fiance of 5 years goes drinking without me. im always invited to go and sometimes i choose to stay at home or do something else. im some what okay with him going. i have no reasons to distrust him. but i get worried that he isnt going to ... (270 words)

Do you think he fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - hey rite .. i totally fancy this lad who i see everyday at college. im sure he knows i like him because like a girl does has a little look and he just stares back. im not kidding even my friends have said hes always looking at me. my friends have given him my number and he has ... (155 words)

I feel invisible.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - i have a teacher at school.she is my counceler.i feel she has used me to keep in contact with one of my friends who is older and in a different school.they both dont talk to me that much.i cant tell my counceler how i feel anymore, thats if i have an appointment.because she ... (64 words)

Arrrggghhh I can't get over my ex!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I'm in love with my ex, but he's a different person now we're apart, so i'm pretty much in love with someone who doesn't exist. I can't seem to get over him, even though I know there's nothing I can do.... (41 words)

He calls me dumb and jokes about my insecurities! How can I talk to him about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - He calls me dumb and jokes about my insecurities. he rarely compliments me. How do I go about talking about this with him?... (23 words)

Why is it that nothing stays the same forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - is there anything called a perfect relationship?or is it a matter of adjustments?i somehow feel that in a relationship the starting is gr8 then slowly u reach a point where u wonder where were we months back are we ever gonna be like that again i feel no. Why is it that nothing ... (58 words)

A good friend is dating my ex! How should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, my ex broke up as after a few months she broke things off with her friends b/f and is now dating him? how should the girl handle this situation, cos she is a good friend of mine? ... (39 words)

Weight loss advice anyone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - whats your advice for someone trying to lose weight? coz ive tried everything!... (13 words)

She flirts with my partner and he slept with her! This has ripped my heart apart! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Hi! My partner always flirts with female friends. One married polish woman even ended up sleeping with my partner a day after we had broken up with her husband included. She and my partner had been warned how i felt about the flirting. She put a short skirt on in front of him, ... (206 words)

My ex invited me to a family party. Is there a chance for us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 months ago now but we still remain friends and still love each other very much. He's invitied me to a family party this weekend for the first time since we broke up. Could this be a slight indication that he's slowly coming around again ... (56 words)

Do I tell her exactly how I feel and risk changing our friendship or should I remain quiet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - heya any advice would be greatly appreciated right now. Basically I went out with this girl for about 3 years, and 3 years ago we broke up. After about 6 months of no contact, we started being friends again. I would say we are extremely close friends now, and by some bizarre ... (298 words)

My gf left me for another guy. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - i am in university my ex g/f called it quits for another man yet i still love her what do i do/ ... (22 words)

Why can't she see I am different?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a wonderful woman that has problems. When she has a drink she brings up the past alot mostley bad things. I know she does love me but its tearing me apart. This wonderful woman runs a pub and we fall out quite regular and she sends me home, I'm the ... (170 words)

Is a missing condom a clear indication of someone cheating on you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Is a missing condom a clear indication of someone cheating on you? I'm a suspicious person, i admit. I try to find ways to make sure someone isnt cheating on me. My b/f says in the past he has gotten very tired of my behavior which i can see but i still am most definite... (191 words)

I found a a clumpy white discharge in my vagina! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - this will sound weird, but i found something in my vagina that was white and kind of like a booger. i dont mean to be gross, but its the only time i've found anything like that, i dont have my period and havent had any other discharges, is this normal?... (50 words)

I'm crazy about him and want him back! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I got together with this guy,he was all over me,we were crazy about each other,we got on so well. After 3 months he decides that he is not ready to commit himself to just one girl.he has chatted to lots of people and tells them that he still likes me and he can say one bad ... (158 words)

Do I keep hoping we'll get back together or should I give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Hi I’d been in a long distance relationship with a guy for about 10 months everything was going ok and we used to see each other every month then about 2-3 months ago we started continuously fighting and I always wanted to sort out the problems but he always wanted to avoid ... (302 words)

She is with someone who doesn't appreciate her, but I love her! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - Hi I have a problem similar with Jim and Pam from the show "The Office". The only thing is that I never told her that I loved her. Her name is Kassie and my name is Steven. We've been friends for God knows how long and she knew that I liked her in the past. The reason nothing ... (183 words)

My boyfriend thinks anything but FULL SEX isn't cheating. I disagree... please help us out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - What constitutes cheating? Is going to a strip club cheating? Is being very friendly with the opposite sex cheating? Is being flirtatious cheating? Is touching someone else cheating? Is having a secret crush cheating? Is having sinful thoughts of someone else cheating? Is ... (128 words)

I don't like the party scene... so how do I meet somone nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - hey guys. Im a 17yo female and iv never had a bf before. Theres only been one person iv had a crush on for the past 8 months or more but he musnt be interested cos he never emails back...All the otherguys i know of only want to go out, get drunk and get laid. All my friends ... (133 words)

My boyfriend is cheating on me with my ex best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I had boyfriend which i loved very much, but my ex-best friend, had sex with him, because i wasnt ready! and she loves to ruin my life! i have been going out with this lad now for a year, but the other week my ex-best friend was kissing my boyfriend! i havent told him that i ... (92 words)

I broke up but I still love him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Please Help me guys - iv need my boyfriend to love me again.... Basically, we have been so in love for a long time, over3years but due to distance (countries) we;ve only been official for 10months. then i had to move away again - not to another country this time but several... (466 words)

I'm going under the knife and my boyfriend is going into debt to pay for it... Is this wise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I am going to have cosmetic surgery to correct a problem with my body. My boyfriend is going to pay for the surgery. He is concerned about going into debt. I dont blame him because he is scared that i will leave him stuck with the payments to the credit card . He also fears ... (88 words)

My ex became my rebound - now I don't know how to tell him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - dear cupid i have been in a relationship for 10 years minus 2, i broke up with him to be with someone else because he was really making me sick. to make a long story short the man that i ended up with took me out of my misery but then me and him split up because of diffe... (157 words)

I want to know about my partner's past, but she refuses to tell me! Am I being unfair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is 6 years older than me (29). She is a very decent,church-going girl, she has even been a virgin till we met (2 years ago). Thing is she told me recently that she hasnt always been like this, that in her younger age (19-25) she was going out a lot, partying, d... (214 words)

I get sick thinking how he was married before me! How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Help! My partner is 30, and seperated. They were married for 4 years, together 8, and he left her for me. It sounds like they weren't very compatible, and he just got carried along with things. Our relationship is secure, 2 years down the line. After having to attend... (159 words)

What can I do about the moles that make me self concious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I have very pale skin and a few dark moles on my torso which make me feel very self conscious. They are not raised so I don't think they could be surgically removed. They are flat. So, is there a procedure or something that could permanently lighten them?... (51 words)

My boyfriend is trying to make me jealous but why!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Can men and women be purely platonic friends? See there are two sides to this problem relating to me and male friends and my boyfriend and his female friends. I would really like to make some really good male friends but in my experience they have all eventually wante... (711 words)

She said she has skeletons in her closet but won't tell me what they are!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

8 November 2006 (M) - Pls Help !! Hi , I have an issue with the relationship i'm having. My girlfriend is 29 now, i'm 23 and we're thinking of getting married in a few years. I love her dearly and believe it or not, we were both phyisically virgins before we met about 1 1/2 years ago. My problem is ... (154 words)

We made a plan but he never called or showed up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I have been dating someone for a few weeks. He asked me to be exclusive. I called him to ask him if we still had planned for that night. He said yes he wanted to go eat and dancing. He would call me after he ate and got a shower. He never called or showed up, why? ... (57 words)

We fight all the time and after our recent one, I see him with another girl sitting on his lap!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - Hey, well i am in this relationship and we fight all the time. it is usually over stupid stuff. This time it is because our friends are dating and they were fighting and now they are fine but we are still stuck. Well he is, I want to move on and forget it all. He just never fo... (154 words)

I am so scared this beautiful love we share will eventually end!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I've been seeing my bf (23) since the end of January. We both said i love you to each other, he said it first, i did it 2 weeks later in August. I feel like i fall more in love with him everyday, and I find it heartbreaking sometimes when we have to part. I'm only 22 and ... (173 words)

I broke up with him but I still want to be with him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - friday jus gone..i broke up with my boyfreind of 3 years..we were friends long before we got together and decided to stay friends now..the thing is..i never wanted to break up with him (even tho it was me who ended it) i tried so hard to make things work..i guess we both ... (91 words)