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writes: i was married for 23years have 4 kids and grandchild on the way my husband who always told me he could never stop loving me no matter what has just walked out on me he told me he does not love me any more and fell out of love about a year ago. i am so worried now as to what will happen because i still love him so much its killing me to think hes gone.i've just been told he's been seeing a 21 year old for some time now. he is 41 and his daughter is the same age as this girl it makes me sick to think about it. i also know he took her away for a weekend. he said he never had sex with her and swears its just a friendship. he said thay kissed and hugged went for walks that thats all thay done. do u think thats true or is it all lies?i would really love to fix our marrige and have my family back together again. he still says he does not love me. he also said he's not with her anymore that thay just text once now and then. but sometimes he comes to see me and asks for us to make love. i just dont no what to think anymore. he says he not ready for a relationship just yet but hopes it will work with him and this girl in the near future that he has to have time to think and sort out how he really feels and what he wants for him and not anyone else before he can move on with his life so in the meantime i should move on too. but im finding it wery hard because im still in love with him i never thought we would end like this. i thought we would be together forever.what do you think i should do please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): just like to say thankyou to the people who tuck the time to answer me . im just very upset at what has happend its broke my heart . i have not sleept with him in 5 weeks now but miss and love him so much i just cant seem to get over him.now he tells me he not with her but needs time to c what he wants for his life .he said he has so much love to give to someone but not me that made me cry so hard i cant understand why hes been so hurtful to me when all i ever done was love him thanks for ur help x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): I can understand the hurt your are feeling. He has been with your for the best years of your life and dumps you for a girl the age of 21!!! What a blow. How can you still love him. That would of died for me the moment i found out. You must keep yourself together but also with the thought that your life will get better. But please dont let him back into your life and NEVER sleep with him when he comes around. You have to move on and leave this PIG to roll in his own c*ap!! She is way too young for him and will get bored. There are things that she will want to do in the future that this old man will not be able to keep up with. I'm sure he will be back with his tail between his legs, just make sure that yours are shut!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): I am so sorry to hear what has happened. If you are in the UK I would recommend a book called 'I love you but I'm not in love with you' which I am reading at the moment. Even if it turns out that your husband refuses to try to work things out, it might help you to come up with some answers and explainations for yourself of how/why this has happened, which I think can be one of the most difficult things to deal with in a "one-sided-breakup". I hope that you find a way to come to terms with what has happened and (hope not to sound patronising) remember that whichever way things go, you have now probably learnt the most "hurtful" thing so things will get better eventually and the future brighter, with or without him. xxx
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