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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm getting mixed signals! How can I find out if he likes me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - Hi there, I met a guy a few months ago and we hit it straight off, we had sex within a week of knowing each other. I would text him and he would not reply so I decided to call him and when i say call i mean hounded down his fone as he wouldnt answer his fone to me. We lost ... (260 words)

I slept with him and after our second date said he couldn' comment about his feelings towards me!! Male pov's please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - Ive been flirting with a guy from my local post office we will call him Jon say. I have flirted with him 4 2 years now so i finally plucked up the courage and asked him out on a date. He accepted, we went on a date and we came home together.Things escalated and we had sex. I ... (249 words)

Our sex life has deminished! I don't want to be pushy or say something that would hurt her - please HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - Hello DearCupid users! First of all, i'd like to thank anyone who offers advice. I thought a little bit of anonymous help would help me reach a sensible conclusion to the "problem". A little about myself, I'm 18, male, and happy in life. My personality is somewhat arrogan... (753 words)

He lives far away but I still like him - should I make a move on him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F)

- i like a guy, he says he likes me he lives hours away but im infatuated... hes 18 and im 15.. and hes old fashiond about age, omg....help.. do i make a move on him? i mean ive been with guys older then thata.. 24 like.... i really like him... (50 words)

Haven't had sex in months, but missed a period - could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - i havent had sex with my boyfreind for 5 months, but hav just missed a period.. is there any chance that this could be pregnancy? ... (25 words)

Does anyone have any tips for giving good head?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - tips for givin good head?... (5 words)

We broke up, became friends with benefits, but she still means more to me than that! Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - Such a mess...we'd been going out for almost a year, went through a couple of rocky periods (including an abortion), and then a couple of months ago I broke up with her because it felt she was just not into it anymore (which she eventually admitted was true). however, i decide... (153 words)

My boyfriends coworker told him he was sexy! He doesn't want to stop talking to her - should I tell her to back off??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6623 days ago

1 November 2006 (F)

- I have been dating my guy for 2 and a half years or so, and recently we have been having a bit of trouble but I'm positive we can work through it however yesterday I found out this girl at work likes him. He left an email up on our computer of conversations they were having... (239 words)

We broke up and now I think she's going for my best mate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - me n my girlfriend of more then 5 months broke up the other month. she and MY best mate well one of them are really close, but they have been mates longer then i have with him, but i know they even RING eachother, tlak on msn all the time, and a BOY and GURL cant be friends ... (109 words)

Is dry sex the same as dry humping?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - Honestly what is dry sex? Is it the same as dry humping??... (12 words)

I like this guy I met at a dance, but my friend says he loves someone else! I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6623 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - At our school homecoming dance I danced with Adi a guy friend of Paul an aquataince of mine. Adi doesn't go to my school and I had never met him before, but he asked me to dance so why not. My close, friend Natalia is also friends with Paul and right after our dance was over ... (130 words)

My boyfriend won't let me go out with anyone!! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6623 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend wont let me go out with anyone but him he even gets mad if i want to be with my girlfriends for just a night what should i do? i know he loves me but this is not right... (41 words)

How can I take our relationship to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (M)

- What is the best way to initiate intercourse with my gay partner? We've "slept" with each other in the sense that we masturbate each other to climax, and do everything but actual anal intercourse. How can I get started with this?... (41 words)

I think my bf masturbates in his sleep!! Thoughts please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - Hi guys - I posted a few weeks ago about the fact that I think my guy is masturbating whilst asleep. We are not sexually active with one another yet and I have slept over at his house 4 times. Each night he has been masturbating (or at least i am 99% sure that is what he is ... (325 words)

I get sick to my stomach when I don't talk to him! How do I gain control of this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F)

- Im with this lovely guy He is so great the only thing is we are long distance at the min, although this will change soon. I am kinda new to the whole relationship thing and I think my guy has picked on this. He always offers me reasuranse when he thinks I need it. He is o... (259 words)

What does it mean when a guy says "keep in touch?" It's been 4 months and I haven't heard from him! What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - this guy told me keep in touch...i assumed he wanted to still keep in contact. so why haven't i heard from him? it's been 4 months now. what does it mean when a guy says keep in touch?... (38 words)

Do guys hate to give oral sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - Male readers!! do you hate givin oral sex to a women??... (11 words)

What is 'dry humping?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - right im 17 and iv heard "dry humping" a few times but never found out what it means, so what is it lol ???... (24 words)

Do guys think a lot about the girls they fancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - wat do guys think? do guys think about girls they fancy alot?... (15 words)

I want to make my chances better with him..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F)

- I really like this guy, I sit next to him in a few of my lessons. He'll like smile at me, and occasionally talk to me. On Msn and stuff like that he'll call me babe, and rated me 7 out of 10. However, he's more friends with the much more popular people in my school, who are ... (107 words)

How can I approach this girl on the bus???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - How would i go about approaching this rele cute girl on the bus, i've never talked to her but i see her every wednesday and would rele like to get to know her... (33 words)

A friend told him stuff about me and he doesn't want me! I love him..what can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F)

- hey...sorry i didnt finish my problem ok ive been with him 6 times and we kept it a secret once and it worked out fine. it was only when i over reacted about something really really small that it fell apart (well we agreed friendship was better for the moment) anyway, ... (120 words)

He talks to his friend A LOT...is there something wrong here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - Hello, i'm writing a long long message, but plz do take some time out and read it.I, especially need to know guys' response to it.i'm really confused and in need of some suggestions. I'm 23,married for almost a year. My husband is 31 yrs old. we belong to a society where it... (649 words)

What the heck does nip mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F)

- i have been dating this boy for ages now and he asked me if i would nip him what do i do when i nip a boy as i have never done it b4 this is really important help!... (39 words)

Because I didn't have a threesome with my hubby, he won't have sex with me anymore!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 24 years. I love him more than anything in the world, and I have never been out on him. We used to watch porn movies, and fantasise about bringing another female into our bedroom to share, and play with. Because I got scared and backed out, ... (145 words)

How can I ask her out without embarrassing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - hi. i am a shy and unconfident person and want to ask this girl to the school dance. the only thing is i don't knw if she has a partner. she smiles at me every time we see each other and will sit next to me in my classes. i am always first in to my afternoon class and she... (115 words)

My married lover said his wife and him don't connect...she gave birth today!! I had no idea she was even pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6623 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - Hi, I need help.. I fell in love with my married boss.. i know its stupid.. but i did..this was over 2 years ago.. both of us had moved into a new city and were working in the same organization. His family (wife and kid) were in another city and we landed up spending a LOT o... (375 words)

What makes a guy think a girl is pretty???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - Hi there. I was just wondering what boys condsider to be "pretty" in a girl. Are some girls prettier than others if they have.. blonde hair, blue eyes, straight teeth , clear skin, are thin- or whatever? What makes them pretty? Do boys care if you have a flat stomach or not? ... (65 words)

I got drunk and kissed another boy! Should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6492 days ago

1 November 2006 (?) - hello i really need some help ive been with my boyfriend for a few months now and i really do love him but when i was really drunk i kissed another boy i know i cant blame it on the drink but if i wasnt drunk i know it wouldnt have happend i feel so guilty what should i do ?? ... (66 words)

Public Sex was a go with her and now it's a big no! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (M)

- Public Sex was a go and now it's a no. my girlfriend 4 month's ago was so mad about us haveing so many fight's over nofthing. she said i sould write down what i want from out her and stuff so i said public sex would be a Big plus sign. she agreed to. sex in park and anyw... (197 words)

She only wants missionary!! HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (M)

- missionary postion is boring me to hell but my girl only like this postion HELP!!! when i got with my girl she loved doggy and going on top cowgirl style but now she's only want missionary because when we do it doggy (i love it) she say's it hurt's her 2 much (no idea why) sh... (246 words)

Should I give this guy a try or find one that is "my type"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F)

- The situation is like this...I met this guy at a club about a month ago. I gave him my number. I wasn't really interested and I didn't really fancy him or anything I just gave him my number not to kill his ego and all that. He isn't bad looking though and he seems to be a nice ... (427 words)

Husband can't decide who to pick...his gf or his wife and child.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - i'm married from 3 years and have a relationship for 7 years.my husband is always an attention seeker and because I had to go somewhere else he met a girl and went to bed with her.He was sincere with me when I came back saying he didn't know if he was still in love with me,he ... (149 words)

Bf with a bad attitude is getting to me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F)

- Ive been with my boyfriend a year and 3, weve been through loads and love each other but hes so difficult! Hes had a hard past, which maybe explains why his attitude stinks. Its always me getting frustrated and he has a care free attitude which makes me worse! He never texts me ... (109 words)

dont know wheNot sure if I should give up on him and go out with someone else or hang on. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - I am 16 years old and in love with a boy but don't know what his feelings are for me. He asked me to the prom in May but he didnt try to kiss me that night and since then we have been mixing in the same social group but he has made no moves towards me. We have been to a few ... (185 words)

An 'age of consent' situation...what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

1 November 2006 (M)

- A friend of mine in his 20s is dating a girl who is 15. As far as they tell me, there has been no sexual contact at all. Not even kissing, they are just madly in love. However, her parents are aware of the situation and have informed the police. They live in the UK. Her pa... (221 words)

Dating 2 months..had sex and now he's distancing himself from me...should I give him space and let him sort out his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - Hello Cupids, I have been seeing a guy for 2 months and everything was going great and we get on very well, sex is very passionate and we find it very easy to talk to one another. However recently he seems to have become a bit distant. I don't really want to nag him abo... (114 words)

Can't stop thinking about her. Will I ruin our friendship if I tell her how I really feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm in a bit of trouble. I literally cannot stop thinking about this girl I fancy and it's annoying the hell outta me. She's a good mate of mine but I don't want to ruin our friendship if I tell her how I really feel. Recently a situation cropped up to make my situatio... (270 words)

I thought after we kissed, he'd want to date me but...he still likes another. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6623 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - i met this guy on a kind of holiday thing with my skl n i really liked him, but my kind of mate (we arent really mates any more) flirted with him loads n he picked er over me. they broke up a few weeks later and then he kept telling me he loved me so much n we were kind of ... (135 words)

We broke up but I miss her friendship! How do initiate contact without her thinking I want to 'date' again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (M)

- My g/f and i recently broke up as we weren't putting the effort in. She actually ended it but basically, she was right as we had became more like friends than a couple. However, I do still miss her companionship. How do i re-initiate contact to see her without her thinking... (87 words)

She was with her new guy and wouldn't even say hi when she passed me...why would she do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - Hi everyone.. i seen my ex girl friend today after weeks not seeing her. she parks her car at a different car park from me now, but when i seen her today she was with this guy. i was cool about it all, but when she was approaching past me with her man she had her head down and ... (82 words)

I have the chance to make my marriage work but deep down inside..I want my gf back. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - I have finished with a girl who i have been seeing for 18 months, the relationship was one where i did not commit fully as i was still seeing my seperated wife, as friends nothing else, recently i made the decision to end it with my girlfriend, and be with my wife. In many ways ... (212 words)

My problems overwhelmed my bf and he ended our relationship. I still love him ..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend told me last night that he couldn't 'put up' with me anymore and wanted our relationship over. He said he believed I had too many problems and was always moaning all the time. I have suffered from agoraphobia for a couple of years but am recovering. I do... (147 words)

Should I accept the downgrade to "friends" from my affair guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F)

- Hi all, I am married and I have been having an affair for the past 10 months. I know its wrong and I have learnt to accept that. I fell in love with the new man. About 6 weeks ago, his attitude towards me changed.He keeps on saying he has to work longer hours, he is always b... (250 words)

Is having oral sex with someone under the age consent..still considered illegal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (M)

- Okay so i get the age of consent stuff, and how you can still get in trouble if you're both underage, but is it considered rape if you get oral sex from your GF if you're both underage? how bout if one of you is over the age?... (48 words)

Shes my best friend but I'm no longer attracted to her!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - I have being with my girlfriend for two years. I have moved away from my friends and family to be with her. I did this to patch things up, as we were having problems. I have cheated on her twice, and I feel trapped. She loves me alot, and I am scared to leave her, because I ... (127 words)

I am so scared she has cheated on me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating ever since January 10, 2006. Since a few weeks ago she has been acting weird, and talking to her friends more than me by far, but only when she is with them, when she isnt with them, she talks to me like nothing is wrong. Then today I ... (259 words)

Tomorrow I lose my virginity.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - on thursday, november 2nd, i will be losing my virginity to my ex girlfriend, and I am nervous, but in an extremely good way, because i know it is right for both of us. is there anything i can do to stop the nervousness? i smoke cigarettes, so maybe that will help, but im not ... (73 words)

I feel like I need to pull away from him to prevent me getting hurt!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - TORN................... I really don't know were to start for the most part of my life I've been able to handle me. I developed a non-dependant personality I guess you could say. However I am 6 months pregnant with twins and live with the their father. We are not together... (257 words)

How do I get him to take things to the next level??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

1 November 2006 (F) - I've been in this relationship for almost two years. He is in and out, claims he loves me, doesn't want to let me go, nor does he ever go away completely, but he won't commit nor take the relationship any further ( to the next level.) We were once about to get engaged, and ... (266 words)

Do women love doing oral on a man the same as we men love doing oral on her? Or do women do it out of obligation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6623 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - I have a question for female readers from a middle aged guy. Do married women look forward to, or crave performing oral sex as a man might crave performing oral on a woman? Or, do most women who do it do it out of obligation?... (49 words)

She wants an anullment now because she feels I used her for her money and to live in the states! This isn't true! help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - I don't know what to do here, I recently got married to a girl who i absoulutly feel is my life saviour and soul mate,I, over a 5 year term of dating her have hurt her a few times with my coldness and aloof attitude. In the 5 years ,it was a long distance relationship, i ... (285 words)