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anonymous
writes: Okay, so, I really want to get a vibrator...but I am only 16 so I cant go into a sex store to buy one...what should I do? How should I get one?Am I weird for wanting one? Or is it kind of normal? I feel weird about it and dont want to tell anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): try www.geocities.com/dtm_reallife for free samples
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): no your not weird. its a fact that more women in the world own a vibrator than a washing machine! just one of those things not many people like to speak about.
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reader, thenabear +, writes (15 November 2006):
I think that wanting a dildo at 16 is not weird at all. I on the other hand though want to make sure your up to speed on certain medical conditions that can arrise from using one at your age. I started dabbling in toys at 13 years old. So I speak from experience. Often girls of younger ages want the sexuall pleasure of a dildo but they are not aware of the sanitary measures one must take with it. As long as you know about cleaning it. And cleaning yourself after each use. More importantly the issue of using lube. You can do seriouse damage to the inside of your vagina if you are not carefull. Also you can do seriouse damage to your cervix if your not carefull. Start with something moderate. 6 inches in length and mabey 1.5 in width. Then slowly increase to the size you prefer most. I see alot of people incouraging the use of sex toys but not expressing the medical issues with it. Be clean, Be concience, Be carefull. Anything that hurts. Is bad. If you feel any itching, or tightness, like your inside walls feel raw, Stop immediatly. You may know all this already But I just wanted to make sure. Because the risks are higher at your age.
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reader, LISAG +, writes (15 November 2006):
Not at all ! Order online, companies online will send to your address in plain packaging (in case you're worried about your parents). I have two, they are brilliant fun! Get one, you're not weird - you're normal !
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): No, you are not weird. Do some research, and you will find that in the 19th century, physicians used vibrators to relieve women of stress. It is a huge industry, so you are not alone in wanting one.
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