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I can't flirt to save my life! Tips please!!

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Question - (15 November 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2007)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Can anyone give me any good tips on how to be good at flirting? I can't flirt to save my life. In fact my flirting is almost like (though not as bad as) Ross' in Friends when he tries to flirt with the pizza girl.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

Ok... eye contact is key if you don't look her in the eye she will have no clue you're interested...after you get the eye contact down dont forget you can only make eye contact for three seconds at a time other wise she'll think your creepy... after that turn with a smile and either walk away and leave her hanging on that last smile or start talking to someone near her... there are countless other ways to flirt after this step but I think this will be the most afective for you...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

Ok... eye contact is key if you don't look her in the eye she will have no clue you're interested...after you get the eye contact down dont forget you can only make eye contact for three seconds at a time other wise she'll think your creepy... after that turn with a smile and either walk away and leave her hanging on that last smile or start talking to someone near her... there are countless other ways to flirt after this step but I think this will be the most effective for you...

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A female reader, xbubblesx United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2007):

xbubblesx agony aunti have boy who does that and you know what it really works for me just smile at her trust it will work

good luck ;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006):

make soft eye contact, play the look + look away game, if she catches you + smiles at you then smile back. dont feed her a line, just relax, be yourself. see what interests her, look for common ground. be interested in what she says take a glance at her mouth + in her eyes when she talks, watch her body language, if she plays with her neck/necklace or her hair, shes flirting + a little nervous.

ross may not be good with the flirting but his kisses are passionate.

good luck xxx

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A female reader, Astrid Spain +, writes (15 November 2006):

Astrid agony auntSmile smile and smile, try to wink an eye from time to time only as a hello cheer up, look in the eye 2 seconds, look smart and move your head a bit when toaking so u look interested in the other's opinion... never cross your arms, toauch the other's person arm slightly andso on

love

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A female reader, mitta United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2006):

lol, im sure your not THAT bad. I find that the best way to flirt is to have a good sense of humour. You can flirt by having a laugh with a girl and by not taking yourself too seriously. A good joke is a great way to break the ice. Girls are generally turned off by guys who spin chat up lines and tell white lies to make themselves look better. Your best asset is you, so be yourself, just a more confident version of yourself.

Good luck

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