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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I ended our 6 year relationship now I want it back but she doesn't want to see me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - I am 31 and was in a relationship with my ex for 6 1/2 years. For a while things didnt seem great. No arguments or anything but it seemed stagnent, a bit boring. Other girls turned my eye more than my girlfriend but i never acted although it was getting harder not to flirt. I... (354 words)

LAdies, why does this girl walk in and out of my life and hurt me all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - ladies please help i need your advice. Well here it goes I was with my ex for about a year when she broke up with me. It hurt more then anything in the world because i loved her. After about 2 months of no contact she called me out of the blue one morning and we meet up and ... (274 words)

Why does he constantly accuse me of cheating? Is he insanely insecure?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - My bf often accuses me of cheating, no matter how many times I tell him im not. And for the record, Im not! He accuses me atleast once a week, though he's been at it alot the past couple days. People keep tellin me that he sounds like he's the one feelin guilty and is probably ... (273 words)

I'm a virgin and I want to break myself in first, before having sex. Any tips on how to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

12 November 2006 (F)

- im a virgin, but i dont want it to hurt the first time i have sex... i want to break myself in... because i would be embarrassed the first time and dont want it to be unpleasurable.. any tips on how to do this??... (44 words)

My BF just suddenly said he doesn't love me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - My ex boyfriend and i had the most perfect relationship that anyone could ever ask for. We got along great we did everything together and we got serious. He was the one to come to me and tell me that he loved me. I knew he did and i know he still does. The question is when he ... (235 words)

About lube..do you put it under the condom (on the penis) or on the outside?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - Hi..i have a question about lubrication. Is it safe to put lube on my bf's penis and then put the condom on..or should i just use it on the outside? Thanks so much! ... (34 words)

I can only achieve orgasm with toys and in a certain way. Even my bf can't make me orgasm...is this unusual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

12 November 2006 (?) - My boyfriend and I have a healthy sex life with eachother and I love having sex with him. He also took my virginity. Our sex is great and everything and it feels good but I just dont think he can ever give me an orgasm and it kinda scares me.. Im 18 years old and I've given ... (209 words)

I feel he still loves me and is in denial on this. Am I fooling myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - If a guy tells you that he loves you and he never wants to see you and him break up but then out of the blue he turns around and says that he doesnt love you and he doesnt want a girlfriend or a relationship but he still wants to stay friends does he really mean what he said to ... (159 words)

Pictures of his ex gf, laying around are getting to me. Is he having a hard time..letting go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

12 November 2006 (?) - I have been in a relationship with a truley amazing guy..he's a gentelman, he's thoughtful,he cares about my feelings and unbelievably sweet..he's just an all around really good boyfriend and were in love. We've been together just a little over three months now and things are ... (448 words)

We talked online but we met for the the first time and now she's gone off me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - Theres this girl i really like n we used to tlk a lot on msn bt since we met up for the 1st time she seems to have gone off me (i would like to point out im very ugly) is there anything i can do to go out wiv her?? ... (51 words)

Can't get in touch with my friends! My confidence is at an all time low! What can i do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - hi iv come out of an army prep course after breaking my arm about 6 months ago and my self esteem has gone to an all time low i cant get in touch with any of my mates and have been sitting around all day scared to go out geting money off the dol i dont know what to write just ... (86 words)

I'vre had sex two times and I haven't enjoyed it at all. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - am i normal? i have only had sex to times and i havnt enjoyed either? does it take a few times to get used to or am i odd!... (29 words)

Do men like woman who are forward or..do men like to do all the calling and chasing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - Hello, I am 25, blonde, slim and I would say quite attractive. I would like to know the following: Do men like it if a woman is forward? Or should it always be about mind games and men doing all the chasing and calling. To be honest I get sick of all this and wonder... (97 words)

Can I be just too 'tight' for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - is it possible to be to tight to have sex? i do use tampons with no problems if that helps! ... (20 words)

Is losing one's virginity as bad as everyone makes it out to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - hi im a virgin and i was wondering to all those girls who have lost their virginity, is it as bad and scary as people make out? x... (28 words)

Things have cooled between us..Should I send him a naughty text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - Hello, I have been seeing a guy a few months and things seem to have cooled a bit. He is away with work for a few days and I was thinking of sending him a naughty text - for example me in my lingerie. Do you think I should and do you think he would like it?? Thanks x... (64 words)

Do I risk our great friendship and tell him I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - i have been best m8s with this lad for 2 years the problem is i think i love him and dont know wheter to tell him. i get the feeling he does feel the same but font want to risk are friendship as i would be lost without him can you help??... (52 words)

I can't remember the wonderful moments in my life..is my memory off or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - This may seem a little odd but when I have a really good time it often goes as a kind of blur and it's no longer memorable after a while. This happened when I lost my virginity (he asked me how it was a few days later and when i said i don't really remember we ended up having a ... (241 words)

I have strong feelings for my female friend. How do I go about finding out how she really feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (?)

- I am a 45 year old single female who has a 52 year old married female friend. We have known each other for a year and have become very good friends. I am very, very sure she knows that I care for her in a way that would be more than just a friendship. She knows I love her and I ... (250 words)

I miss him and can't move on. Please tell me how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - me and my ex split up because he cheated on me. we were together for two and a half years. i spent over 2yrs driving up and down motorway to see him at uni -i never minded. i did pay for everything and gave up job i loved but i loved him more. last oct he rang me one night to ... (272 words)

I suffer from premature ejaculation! How do I satisfy my wife with this problem?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - 2 years into marriage, but in this two years i can not satisfy my wife. what can i do now? help me when i have sex with my wife i discharge within 2 minutes. pls, help me... (41 words)

We've split up but I still have to work with him! How do I get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - I have just been dumped by the guy who I thought was "the one" as he is going throgh some family problems and needs to be alone and just focus on his family. To make matters worse we work together, we actually sit beside eachother!I am mad about him and I have to face him in ... (82 words)

If I think I love him still, then why did seeing the old pics of us together..make me feel physically ill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - Ok, so I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend, and I'm struggling to get over him, but I have to because he has a girlfriend. I was just deleting unused files off my computer when I found photos I'd saved of us together, kissing and being intimate. But when I saw them I ... (103 words)

How can you tell if you want your ex back or just miss them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - How do you know if you want your ex back or if you miss them? How can you tell the difference?... (21 words)

Is this confirmation that it's definatly over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about eight months ago. He met someone else, is with her and for this reason I saw no point in having any contact. We were together a long time but I wanted my dignity. My dad just passed away and my ex always really liked him. I left a message on ... (128 words)

What does 'first, second, third' base mean, in dating terms?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - Hi guys! I'm english and just curious really as to what exactly 'first base', 'second base' etc entail? Could someone fill me in?! Thanks!!... (27 words)

He dumped me because I'm not jewish! I want him back-Is there any way we can make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years recently broke up with me saying "There is no doubt in my mind that I love you, I would propose to you today. I am just confused because I am jewish and you are not and since we are getting closer to marriage age it is something we need to think about. ... (214 words)

I've decided not to call him but the no contact is killing me! What should I do to get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - I am hurting such a lot, i dont know what to do for the best. I still love my boyfriend/ex. he gives me mixed messages. I am so confused, i wrote him a letter 2 weeks ago putting my cards on the table and asked him to reply. He has not replied properly, i have seen him tw... (261 words)

I've developed a deep infatuation for this woman from work and I want more! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (M)

- Hi there, im in abit of a dilemma, i am crazy about this girl i work with in th office. I am 31 years old, and she is 20. The last couple of months there has been some major flirting going on between us which has been great, sharing long glances from accross the office then ... (196 words)

I'm bisexual..I like a girl but I fancy this guy a lot! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

12 November 2006 (F)

- hi everyone, i have a few problems, first Me and my boyfriend have been going out a month, I really love him problem is im Bi-Sexual! my best friend who is my also still my Girlfriend knows about him, she doesnt mind, it just a bit of fun when we are both single, then there is ... (206 words)

What does 'whiskerbiscuit' mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - some one called me "whiskerbiscuit" any1 know what this means?... (13 words)

My friend told me she gave 5 guys oral sex and I am disgusted! Am I a prude or do all girls consider casual oral sex..no big deal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - Dear cupid, I need some help! My gf and I were talking about our past sex lives and i was kinda shocked that, apart from the two guys i knew about that she had had full sex with, she had performed casual oral sex on five other guys that I knew nothing about. I really like her ... (199 words)

My bf does not look at other women sexually. Is this unusual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend said that he does not look at women sexually, for example he does not care to look at a woman's body ie; breast and bums, like many men do. He says that I insult him when I say he must do and that it is in a man's make-up to do that. He says that body parts do ... (97 words)

Not sure if my friend would like it if I dated her ex! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - my best friend is trying to set me up with her sisters ex. we are all friends. my b/f and i fight and they are trying to get me to give up on him. i dont know what my friend would say if i dated her ex ???? ... (50 words)

My relationship is on the rocks--should I move on or work at it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - I'm a lesbian in my mid-30's. My 4-year relationship has been in trouble almost since the first year we were together. She is a lovely, sweet person, and some years my junior), and I feel very affectionate and loyal toward her. But living together is a nightmare, and our sex ... (129 words)

Broke up 10 months ago but I like him again! How do I let him know this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - 10 months ago my boyfriend of a year and i split up. we are friends again now, but i've started really liking him again. how can i tell/show him i like him?... (32 words)

Is it safe if you get lube inside your vagina?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F)

- Hi, I was wondering whether it is safe to get lubricant in your vagina when having sex, (to leave it in there after sex!) Me and boyfriend are thinking about having sex together (we've been together for about 6 months) and we're planning to use lubricant for the first couple... (133 words)

He doesn't seem to notice me in the corridors at school..does he still fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and i fancy this boy whose 15 in the same school year as me. we are friends and i wanna know whether he fancies me too. we were on the coach on a school trip and i sat next to him cos none of my friends were going on the trip. he poked me on the arm so i poked him b... (351 words)

To look cool, I told my bf lies about my family. Now he wants to meet them!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 14months and it has been difficult due to his previous relationship but he has finally made a commitment to me. However I have told him major lies about where my parents are from and where I grew up which has escalated over time. Now he ... (95 words)

Do boys like girls that look younger or girls that wear a makeup and look older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and look about 14 or 15, probably cos i dont wear make up but i do my hair and im girlie, the only thing i dont do is wear make up. do boys like girls that look younger than they really are? or do they generally like girls who wear loads of make up and look older? ... (63 words)

I'm 16-he's 28 and he confuses me! Not sure if he's really interested or just stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - hi! well...ive recently got this new job which ive been at for a few weeks now. When i first started i connected really well with my supervisor, actually i just thought we were friends who just made jokes and acted silly. But one night at work i stayed back and we got into thi... (294 words)

My ex has turned wild and is hurting herself and me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - Worried about a friend... Three months ago my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me - she said her feelings changed for me (and they had suddenly, which I am certain was mostly due to a medication change for her chronic depression). It was a pretty nasty breakup that lef... (285 words)

I think I have lost him which really hurts...should I try and contact him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - I posted some previous questions about my relationship with a guy i met 6 months ago. we live in 2 seperate cities. He has been pulling back from me, after him pursuing me with constant texts/ emails and calls. I sent him a 2 page e-mail telling him how much i liked him, wh... (337 words)

I'm 28 and my 17 year old gf confuses me with her on and off behaviours. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - my girlfriend seams to be very serious when we started and she even make comments about us getting married but just one month in to it, she won't answer her phone some times, she won't even come over. am 28 and she's 17. when i ask whats going on she makes funy excuses but in ... (107 words)

Involved with a 40 year old guy! His interest in sex has vanished..is his age a factor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

12 November 2006 (M)

- Does anyone know if there is much difference between the sex drive of a 20 year old man and a 40 year old man? I am in a relationship with a man almost twice my age and everything was going really well until more recently when his interest in sex vanished. Would it be just... (72 words)

I like her but she's married! Do you think she'll realize she married the wrong guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - She is married and three years older than me. I'm pretty sure she likes me too, but because she is married I don't know if she would risk that if I became more forward than just exchanging a couple of smiling looks during the day. She is really one of those pretty and ... (73 words)

How do I get away from an abusive man who has threatened to kill me? Help me out here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F)

- I started messing with this guy while he was in jail for like a hole year he came home to live with me he got a job and helped me out alot but after about 3 months of him being home he started showing his other side and started drinking here and there but not someone who ... (606 words)

I want family and committment. My long term lover doesn't. Should I just dump him and find someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6614 days ago

12 November 2006 (F)

- I'm a single white female, satisfied with my career, have a great apartment in great city. good friends/family. i have an amazing sexual relationship with an exciting (single, not married) lover who lives in the same time-zone but not the same state; he's not my boyfriend; we ... (320 words)

Does she or doesn't she? She has me confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - I am infatuated with a woman I work with. We have kissed and cuddled but in a non sexual way. Neither of us are free. We have both agreed that casual sex would not be appropriate. The other day she arrived at work wearing a top which was quite revealing whereas she normally ... (173 words)

I'll be in her city to visit and I want to take her out. How do I ask her, without being obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6156 days ago

12 November 2006 (?) - i met dis girl on msn. we are both 16. after a week of chattin i really liked how she talks etc. so i asked for her number. now we text each other at least 20texts a day! it's been going on for 3days now. she lives 1hour away. does she like me? she texts me good morning in ... (214 words)

He liked both us girls at the party..but I liked him alot. How can I get him to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6149 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - Okay, well my problem is.. I've talked to this guy from my school [who is 2 years older than me - I'm 15, he's nearly 17] a lot on MSN and we met 'properly' at a party last night. We got on really well and he was pretty nice to me and friendly but nothing at all happened... (214 words)