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23 July 2009: One of our agony aunts is going to have a baby soon, so I thought it might be nice to send her our best wishes and our tips, the practices on parenting that we have learned from our experiences! I'll start the ball rolling - - If you don't want a...
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Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 8 April 2007: Hi Hun!
I had my first child at 26 and my second at 30. I'm a very young and active 51 now and both kids are out on their own. I travel with my husband on business and we are having a great time! A lot of our neighbours are our age and still have... (read in full...)
I was forced to have sex with this boy, my friend now doesnt want to know me, and I feel I have no one to talk to!!!
Q. i feel as if i am alone i have no one to talk to i am due to go to counselling in a few weeks i feel as if i cant go through with pretending everythings ok when its not. i was forced to have sex with a boy. my best friend tried to help me but ...
A. 4 March 2007: Please go and talk to your Dad. I know he's your Dad and that this will be hard for you to do, but you really need the help of an adult, not your sister or a friend. Trust me your Dad will know what to do and take care of you. ... (read in full...)
So many thoughts are running through my head. Should I stay in this relationship or should I go?
Q. Goodness, where to start! I met my husband in 1998. For me it wasn't love at first sight, but rather relief that I was still atractive to the opposite sex after several hideous relationships. We married in 2002 and our son was born in 2003. ...
A. 2 March 2007: Is there any hope of your husband changing? Have you told him how you feel? If you think there is the slightest chance, then try coucilling. I'm going to have to quote Ann Landers and Dear Abby - "Would you be better off with him or without ... (read in full...)
I get a nasty rash everytime I shave my pubic area! Help!
Q. Everytime I shave my pubic area I come out in a rash that looks really horrible. I don't want to wax, I want to shave but is there anything I can do that will stop me coming out in a rash? Such as a cream or a certain razor? Only whenever I go on ...
A. 1 March 2007: That "Tend Skin" stuff is effective, use it right after you shave and the next day too. Never shave two days in a row, better to leave it for 4 or 5 'till you shave again (so shave Thursday or Friday for the weekend). Always exfoliate before you ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 1 March 2007: Hi,
It sounds to me like you and your partner are extremely mature for your age. You have considered many of the important issues already. The final decision to go ahead a start your family is always going to be a scary leap of faith, but you seem... (read in full...)
Could I be interested in sleeping with my friends?
Q. I'm always having dreams of my girlfriend and her husband sleeping in bed. Then i get in the middle and they start making love to me. I seem to enjoy it in my dreams and i wake up weirded out. Could i really be interested in "sleeping" with my ...
A. 1 March 2007: I think the previous writer said it all. I don't think you are desiring this other couple physically, you are desiring what they have together - for yourself. You did not say if you were single or not - but if you are lonely, maybe the dream is ... (read in full...)
Planning on doing "it" tonight... but should I trim first?
Q. Im 14 and planning on having sex at a house party. It is my first time and I was just wondering if anyone knows if teenage boys prefer shaved or natural hairs? Please reply asap as the house party is tonight and I would like to know. so i can ...
A. 1 March 2007: Hi,
Have you ever hooked up with a guy and then regretted seeing him at school the next day? And then seeing his friends laughing everyday at school for the rest of the year? Give some serious thought to waiting until Uni when you are a bett... (read in full...)
Married and have feelings for my married boss. What should I do!
Q. I am married and so as my boss. We worked in different states. However, I do communicate with him constantly through IM, emails, phone call ... etc. I only see him once every few months. Lately, I looked forward to see him in person, his phon...
A. 27 February 2007: Hi,
There are always going to be people that you are attracted to and you have to realize this and decide if you are married or not. Marriages have good and bad periods and there are always temptations, but once you act on them - it is no long... (read in full...)
My ex secretly filmed us having sex and put it online! My new bf now calls me a slag! What can I do??
Q. hay really need help im 22 and ive just found out 2 years ago some guy filmed me and him having sex and took pictures with out my consent god knows how i didnt see the camra or owt! but now there all over the internet i dont know what to do? people ...
A. 27 February 2007: Hello Dear,
I am so sorry that this man took advantage of you. What he did was wrong. I would try to talk with the local authorities (bring a trusted and supportive friend) and see if there is any chance of pressing charges. If he is in the film... (read in full...)
Any tips on taking this relationship further or just staying away from this guy?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for 18months on an ad hoc basis and to be honest, when we see each other its always for kinky sex. I've tried dating other guys but they just don't compare to him and always keep being drawn back to him. Now I'm not na...
A. 26 February 2007: Hi, I'm wondering how you have communicated that you want a relationship with him instead of being just an occasional lover. You stated that you TRIED to be upfront and honest - but it has been my experience that you have to be BLUNT and DIRECT. ... (read in full...)
I am a teen (15) and I am fat. How do I lose this fat...any tips?
Q. dear cupid i am a teenager 15 years of age and i am fat, i would like to know can i lose this fat and get a thin stomach and also can i also lose the man tits that come with being fat, as i am always being bullied n told to go and by bras because ...
A. 16 February 2007: Hi,
I'm so sorry that you are being bullied. Try to ignore the idiots, if they are saying things to you, you know that they are also saying things to anyone else that they can pick on. The reason they do it is because they are insecure and thin... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to spend some time travelling with the boys first before I join him, should I be worried?
Q. hi, my boyfriend-26 is goin away soon, i will be joining him after a couple of months coz he wants to spend some time travelling with the boys first... should i be worried? i keep hearing of people who go away and then ring up their other half and ...
A. 14 February 2007: I'm sure this is just something he has been planning with his friends and looking forward to some guy time. He wouldn't plan for you to join him later if he was looking for a way out - he wouldn't have planned for you to be included at all - Right? ... (read in full...)
It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?
Q. i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he ...
A. 13 February 2007: Hello,
I believe you, I had a creepy teacher when I was your age too! You are smart to pay attention to your intuition - it is there to tell you something is not quite right. Don't put yourself in any situation where you are alone with this guy.... (read in full...)
What's the difference between love and lust?
Q. I know this seems like a really simply question but im so confused ... whats the difference between love and lust? see i dont want to make a fool of myself if its just lust...
A. 7 February 2007: Hi,
This always worked for me -
Love is when you consider the other person and their happiness as much as your own, when you enjoy their company in total silence and when you can be yourself around them. You have the same outlook on life and... (read in full...)
How do I orgasm during sex w/out touching myself? And how do I tell him I faked it??
Q. When ever i have sex i never climax.If i do it is because i touched myself but i never get one if i leave it up to my partner being inside of me. What's wrong with me? Is this normal? i want to be able to do this without touching myself but how do i ...
A. 2 February 2007: Hi There,
Don't worry, You are perfectly normal! Less than 25% of women climax by penis alone, so almost 75% of all women need direct stimulation of the clitoris to reach orgasm. A small percentage of women (less than 1%) can achieve orgasms by s... (read in full...)
Am I average height and weight for a 16 year old?
Q. hi can anyone tell me the average weight for a 16 year old. iam 136 pounds and 5feet 8 inches. is this normal?...
A. 2 February 2007: Hi There! Ask your doctor about your concerns - he'll let you know how you are doing - but you a certainly in the normal range. I remember my kids putting on weight (sometimes around their stomachs) and then the next month shooting up an i... (read in full...)
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