Will God forgive my dead cousin for her gesture? I am open minded to all different beliefs.
Q. My cousin killed herself. She was 27yrs old. In my church we were always taught that if you kill youself then you are going to burn in hell forever. And I was eavesdropping when some family didnt know I was there and I heard them saying things about ...
A. 2 September 2008: Hello there.
I wanted to tell you. I have a best friend who tried to kill himself and survived. Although he was clinically dead for 10 minutes at one point. I won't give his name here, because it's not my place, but he overdosed and went into a co... (read in full...)
My fingers are deformed and I'm scared it's putting the girls off me
Q. Hey, well Im 18 years old and as of yet had not had a girlfriend. I was born with a birth defect to my hands in which my fingers are deformed.The only relationship i've had has been an online one and she knew about my situation. I'm not anti-social. ...
A. 14 May 2008: Hello...
I have physical problems as well...and I have become anti-social because of it, but now, at the age of 28 I have realized that most people react badly to physical deformaties because they just don't KNOW any better!
I find that in my ow... (read in full...)
Why are westeners so prejudice, ignorant Bible lovers?
Q. I grew up in one of the biggest cities in North America. I’ve accepted baseball and McDonalds, but what I can't accept are there BS " morals ". Whenever it comes to love, sex or any other issue people turn to the book of lies, distortion and gene...
A. 13 May 2008: hi
Well...this an interesting post, and I have to say I agree with question asker on some points...I was raised Christian and want everyone to know I have the utmost respect for everyones beleifs so if anything I say rubs anyone the wrong way I hope... (read in full...)
Caught between two cultures - other than break up with my intolerant BF, is there anything I can do?
Q. Hi, I'm not quite sure what to do. My boyfriend (for want of a better word at this point) constantly bashes Muslims to the point where it's ridiculous. He justifies his hatred by saying that all monotheism is "bull" because he chooses to follo...
A. 8 April 2008: Okay well..I practice Wicca..
so I thought I should chime in on this one...lol
First off. Oldersister, male Wiccans or Pagans are not warlocks..thats sort of a hollywood twist that got caught up in mainstream about wiccans.
:)
and secondly,... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm uptight but I just don't see myself with a non-Christian...what do I do?
Q. I have a hard time asking yet another question on here, because in a way I feel that the more I seek advice, the more I am enabling myself to not trust myself. But, I guess in my journey of setting boundaries and becoming less codependent, I feel ...
A. 22 March 2008: Just to clarify for everyone...
Pagan is an old religion...older than christianity.
it's alot like...Wicca, or witchcraft.
I'm wiccan...
But I believe alot of people say the same simply for the mystery of it...
here is some information:
http... (read in full...)
Humans before pets no matter what?
Q. My guy hates my cat, and told me that I can't take him with us when we buy a house. He's not allergic to the cat, and the cat hasn't done anything bad or been mean at all. He just thinks my cat is annoying. I had the cat before I meet him. Should...
A. 29 December 2007: Okay...
I have 3 cats, so I speak only from personal experience...I would NEVER give up my cat..esp if there's no logical reason to do so. He's not allergic or anything..and my cats are my children in most ways, I care for them..I watched them grow... (read in full...)
I found photos of her naked ex in our room!
Q. I (we've) got a little problem (or not). My wife is always very honest with me. She has never slept with anyone but me, but I know the first names of a few guys she dated and fooled around with some prior to me. Anyway, we bought our house a little ...
A. 29 November 2007: Okay, I can see your point in wanting to just toss them...but they are not yours to throw out! You need to have respect for her things and ask HER to throw them out...
and your comment about the size of this guys private parts proves that you're f... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant by another man and claim it was my husband's child?
Q. I have a husband,and want a child from him.He also likes a child from me. But he can't give birth.Can i get pregnant from other and tell him that it is yours? Is there a method of checking who the parents of the child are?What can i do-please help...
A. 12 November 2007: Err...well I would hope he can't give birth.....lol
okay sorry, couldn't resist that one...anyways. It's unfair to the biological father, your husband and the child if you did this..it's selfish and eventually all lies come out. What if the chil... (read in full...)
Why are you so sceptical about LD relationships working?
Q. This isnt a question really, Just an email for all of you. There are many people out there askign questions about relationships, where you are 60 miles apart and only see each other on weekends. Why are you all so sceptical about this wor...
A. 1 November 2007: IIeana....I totally agree...actually my BF is from New Zealand originally as well. :0) and I'm in the states...
It can work, but it takes alot of trust and compromise. We have our problems when I need him here to help me feel better about some... (read in full...)
How do I confront my 10 year old daughter about sex?
Q. Is it possible that my 10 year old daughter could be having sexual relations with her 12 year old boyfriend. If so how do i confront her, do i just ignore it or do i beet the living crap out of him. Can she get pregnant at 10. I've seen them both ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hi!
Unfortunatly kids are having sex younger and younger...so yes, I suppose it is possible she may be sexually active with this boy...and yes, she could possibly get pregnant, even more possible if she is an early bloomer....
I don't suggest ... (read in full...)
How many partners have you had?
Q. This is a very general question, based on the numerous questions that I see posted about couples dealing with one partner's sexual past. How many sexual partners have YOU had? Do you regret the number, be it big or small? How many "one-night-stand...
A. 31 October 2007: I'm 27, and I've had 3 sexual partners and 3 one night stands... ... (read in full...)
Bullied into marrying this man, should I leave him now?
Q. Hi there. I married last year in response to an ultimatum-move to the next level or break up. I knew at the time that fear should not have been a part of my decision, but I was not ready to let go-even in spite of the many emotionally abusive ...
A. 29 October 2007: Hi
I really think you need to get out of this now, as you said, before children are involved..because you wouldn't want your child to think that treating someone like that is okay...
I know it's scary to be alone and having to make ends meet by ... (read in full...)
Could this be a mommy complex?
Q. hello, My boyfriend of 3 months has a peculiar fetish that turns him on like nothing else I've tried: he likes it when I smoke. He likes it a little too much (to the point that were I to parade in all my naked glory suggestively, it would still n...
A. 29 October 2007: Shania is right...once in a while is one thing...but you need to set up boundaries NOW, because if he thinks he can get it every time you're intamate it's just going to get harder to tell him "look, I'm not really into that right now" because he's ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is moving away, I'm staying put, is this the end for us?
Q. Oh, I'm desperate! My boyfriend and I have been "together" for almost 9 months now. He decided against coming to school in the town I live, and is interviewing for jobs in his own country- and that's far away! He always told me that he didn't ...
A. 29 October 2007: Hmmm...well that is a tough situation...but I wouldn't call it the end over that...what you need to do is compromise...maybe move somewhere between your home and his so you're making equal sacrifice? Or maybe as hard as it is, remain in a long ... (read in full...)
Are women naturally territorial about their men?
Q. How do other women feel when their man has to work one-on-one with a cute, much younger female who is single and looking for a bit of adventure? This was never a problem with my previous mate, as he really didn't work around women, and was so ...
A. 27 October 2007: Okay...
I'm exactly the same...but it's a catch 22...you can't fault him for being all the wonderful things you said he is, because obviously thats what attracted you to him in the first place...
However, I learned from my experiences with my BF th... (read in full...)
I like Michael Jackson... but my friends take the piss!
Q. HI,im back lol after the update on my last question which i stupidly put as an answer i think lol anyways i have yet another question **so glad i found this site haha** anyways ive been a michael jackson fan for like,well for ever -since i was 5,...
A. 25 September 2007: Hey
I had to chime in on this one...
I used to love MJ...and my so called "friends" used to tease me so much about they brought me to tears a few times over it...
but now that I'm older I'm known for being unique and marching to my own beat...s... (read in full...)
Myself and my husband to be have been trying for a baby for almost a year without any luck. My cycle has become erratic, has anyone got any suggestions please help!!!
Q. Myself and my husband to be have been trying for a baby for almost a year without any luck. My cycle has become erratic, has anyone got any suggestions please help!!!...
A. 1 September 2007: Sometimes, as odd as it sounds...it doesn't happen because we think about it too much...stressing over it can make it hard to conceive..have you tried an ovulation predictor? they make some pretty fancy ones..that might help you catch that egg! good ... (read in full...)
I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when she is on her period and I insist that she sits on my face...
Q. hello my name is vince and I am curious to know whether anybody else out there believes in vampires, I believe I am of this origin. I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when ...
A. 31 August 2007: Duce...you made me fall off my chair laughing! :D... (read in full...)
I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when she is on her period and I insist that she sits on my face...
Q. hello my name is vince and I am curious to know whether anybody else out there believes in vampires, I believe I am of this origin. I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when ...
A. 31 August 2007: Umm...How did this get past everyone? this is obviously a wind up :) however, on the off chance it isn't...thats just gross...ewwwww... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and he's 32 and I'm very afraid of hurting cos even though it all sounds fine it's still on internet and he may be "fake" even though I dont think so.
Q. I met a guy on internet just for cybering about a year ago, then I didn't enter for about 10 months, after 10 months I started to enter and blocked all the people except for one in particular. Anyway we started to chat not only cybering, I mean ...
A. 12 August 2007: Ok...I had to chime in on this one...
I'm involved in a similar situation, although I'm 27..and he is 38...but I can say, I have family members who have met people online and gone on to marry them...my brother met his wife online...so it CAN work... (read in full...)
I'm still bleeding, should I be worried?
Q. Hi all, I'm 18 years old and on Tuesday night I lost my virginity to my best friend, who I really love. we've told each other we love each other blah blah, and I'm really glad I lost my virginity to him as I could never imagine it being anyone else. ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey hon..
I wouldn't be worried...sometimes you bleed quite a bit. the brown substance could be old blood...so no...I wouldn't worry...but if it doesn't stop in a few days it's probably best to see your doctor about it...... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Call for new volunteer moderators (please read carefully)
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING! Moderators approve new questions, think up of interesting and accurate titles and approve/reject a...
A. 15 June 2007: Hi Andrew!
I'm on this site everyday! I would be happy to be a mod. :)_
Sara... (read in full...)
I don't think women working has a positive effect on society. What's happening?
Q. I am frustrated about the entering of women at workplace and can't see it to be having much positive effect on the society. I am a kind of guy who wants his girl to need him, to be dependent on him for some reasons, may it be financial or emotional. ...
A. 25 April 2007: Hi
Alright...I HAD to weigh in on this topic...
Firstly I want to say that my mother was a stay at home mom for the first 14 years of my life..she cooked, cleaned...had kids (I have 2 brothers) and did the whole dependent thing with my father...... (read in full...)
I'm 15 years old with a baby on the way and I'm incredibly afraid about my future. I need help badly!
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl with a baby on the way and has a 20 year old boyfriend. I really don't know what to do. I am incredibly afraid and I have no idea what's going to happen. I am NOT getting an abortion, it's totaly against my morals, plus I ...
A. 18 April 2007: Hi!
I thought I could help, as I am also in the US. There are alot of programs for teen mothers out there.
Please have a look here.
http://teenmoms.ourfamily.com/
Its a hard situation, but it's not immpossible!!
Let me know how... (read in full...)
He fingered me hard and I bled with clots! Did he do some tearing?
Q. I am 14 years old and my boyfriend started fingering me. We have done it before and i havent bled but yesterday he went faster and harder and longer and i noticed blood. i put in a pad last night and it seemed light but today its getting heavier and ...
A. 14 April 2007: Hi Sweetie,
Sounds like it's your period. Sometimes sexual activity can make your period start a little earlier than normal. If you're not in any severe pain and it doesn't stop I would say for sure it's your period.
If he somehow cut you or damag... (read in full...)
Do men like the larger ladies? Sensible answers, please!
Q. Hi there, this is a really boring question but I have to ask it as when I have asked male friends in the past they have literally made me feel worse. Right do men like larger ladies? I myself am a larger lady im a size 18-20 and fairly attractive. ...
A. 23 March 2007: Hi
I just wanted to say that I've been on both ends of the spectrum on this...I lost a lot of weight and I could finally wear those tight jeans and half shirts. But thats not all it's cracked up to be eather..
I would be around men who would ta... (read in full...)
I switched her contraceptive pill with sugar pills and now she's pregnant and crying all the time, I feel so guilty now, should I come clean and tell her what I did?
Q. [Moderator Note: If you don't have anything helpful to suggest then don't waste your time replying] Hi, I did something stupid, please don't judge. Right well, I've been with my girlfriend Vanessa for about 4 years now. I'm 32, she's 25. Ev...
A. 18 March 2007: Wow..I've seen people do that sort of think in like...movies, I never thought people actually did them tho...
I wouldn't tell her, she's already overly emotional and upset, couple that with her hormones going crazy and she's likely to fly off the ... (read in full...)
I think he loves his DOG more than he loves me!
Q. My boyfriends dog was diagnosed with cancer, and it tore him up. So much now that he spends more time with his dog than me. Im worried about him and jealous of his dog, wierd as it may sound its true. He sleeps on the sofa to be closer to his dog, ...
A. 23 February 2007: Hi
I can see what you mean if he's ignoring you..but I had the same sort of issue with my fiancee who was mad because I cuddled with my cat and rabbit more than him
The fact is..emotions with animals are much more complicated..It's just about lo... (read in full...)
Here is my list of the "perfect" boyfriend! What do you think?
Q. Here is my list of the perfect boyfriend. Are there any men like this? 1. Shares all email and IM passwords 2. Has none, or only one, female friend 3. Tell's me when his only female friend calls 4. Tell's me when he goes basically anywher...
A. 11 February 2007: Ok..
This may sound odd...but that list describes my fiancee to a T.
He's exactly like that..although I don't expect him to be...he gave me his IM amd email passwords without my asking...just becauase he wanted me to know I could trust him.
If... (read in full...)
I had a terrible cramp and discovered I was covered in blood! I'm not on my period!! Help!!
Q. Ok I'm freaked out about this!! Last Monday morning I was walking from the car to work when I suddenly got this terrible cramp in my stomach, when I got to work I went to the ladies where I discovered that my jeans and under clothes were cov...
A. 2 February 2007: That sounds like some sort of hemmorage...unfortunatly us Aunts and Uncles are not medically trained..you really should see a doctor ASAP for a loss of blood like that.
... (read in full...)
Girlfriend refuses to stop seeing this other guy. Does she love me?
Q. There has always been another man who my girlfriend refused to stop seeing. She said she loved me and wanted to get married. I bought her a $12,000 ring as she promised me he was gone out of town forever.. Three weeks later I found them together at ...
A. 31 January 2007: Hi
First off, I'd just like to say that I don't think the original poster of this question could have possibly told all that past history without the question being 9 pages long and incredibly confusing.
Secondly, she did accept the ring, and TH... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed by my gf's crass comments to other people. How do I deal with this?
Q. My girlfriend is quite eccentric and very over the top and I cringe so much when she speaks now. Before I could cope with it but now I cringe too much when she speaks. For example when she speaks with her friends she calls them stuff like 'Whor...
A. 30 January 2007: Well..
I talk like that with one of my friends :) She'll call me up and say "whats up slut?" or something like that...and I'll say something like..."Not much Douche Bag" and we'll laugh
Granted, it's only with this one friend...I would NEVER sa... (read in full...)
Whats wrong with ginger?!!
Q. Hi, I dont understand, my boy mate has ginger hair and he finds it really dificult to get girlfriends. but I dont understand it, I have been out with ginger boys, I love ginger hair :D so why wont other girls go out with ginger haired boys???...
A. 27 January 2007: I live in the states, and I spend quite a bit of money trying to get rid of my brwn hair color for ginger...but thats the way it is around me. The more you can make your hair stand out, the better! :)
My mother is a natural ginger-head..and she ... (read in full...)
I have cheated on my wife numerous times, because she doesn't take care of my needs. What should I do?
Q. I have been married for 5+ years and have a 3 year old and one on the way. My problem is my wife is not as excited about sex as I am and I have cheated on her numerous times. I have not had sex with another person since the summer but I have had ...
A. 26 January 2007: You don't want your past deeds revealed..
Well, honestly thats too bad for you, you made your bed and now you have to lay in it..(Just not with someone else) ok..that was bad...lol
Anyway, your wife probably knows what you've been doing. My ex. w... (read in full...)
I get turned on by naked chicks more than men.. scared I may become a lesbian!
Q. I'm a female and not a lesbian but i get turned on seeing women naked than seeing men naked. What the heck is wrong with me!?? This is very unlikely for a woman but i do get excited when i see women's breast and women in bikinis (only those you ...
A. 11 January 2007: Hi..
I have the same issue as you..but..well..it's a long story...lol
But truthfully, there's nothing wrong with what you're doing..Personally, I find men attractive in nice clothing..or men in a uniform...:)
I don't really think naked men ar... (read in full...)
I have Dd boobs and I hate that guys like them more than ME! What can I do?
Q. i have DD boobs and yeh ok i don't mind but it makes having a bf really difficult. Boys say they like me gain my trust end up having more of a relationship with my boobs then me and then finish me, i want more then this. im not confident at all but ...
A. 6 January 2007: oh sorry...and to further answer your question...not ALL guys are like that. Just try to be open minded about it. they like the way you look, however, don't let yourself be used.
It's best to just try to accept them as a part of you, and trust in t... (read in full...)
I have Dd boobs and I hate that guys like them more than ME! What can I do?
Q. i have DD boobs and yeh ok i don't mind but it makes having a bf really difficult. Boys say they like me gain my trust end up having more of a relationship with my boobs then me and then finish me, i want more then this. im not confident at all but ...
A. 6 January 2007: Hi there..
I have the same problem. and it really used to bother me too, until I decided to make a joke out of it. I'd start talking to a guy (or vice versa..) and they would stare..so I'd smile and say.."umm...my eyes are up here..thanks"
Then ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and want to get married. Is there any way to bypass parent permission?
Q. me and my boyfriend live in kansas. im 16 and i want to get married to him. the only way to do that though is if i have parent permission. i know my parents wouldnt like the fact that i want to get married at this young of age. is there anyway to ...
A. 3 January 2007: Hello hon.
Please think twice about this...I can tell you from experience..
My mother got married at 15, so she could get away from her parents, and of course she thought she loved my father so much.
But she missed out on so much, and later ha... (read in full...)
My husband thinks about three things (in this order).... Sex, Food and Action Films. Nothing else!
Q. How can I persuade my husband to help me with the house work. Most of the time (not always) He's kind to me until we have sex. He smiles, talks to me with sweet words,etc. But after we made it, he just sit on the couch and watch TV, no matter if I'm ...
A. 3 January 2007: He's a guy..
I hate to use that as a reason as it sounds sexist...but truth be told, When my Fiancee forst moved in with me I had to teach him EVERYTHING! from washing the dishes to cooking himself food.
Maybe your hubby had a mother who pampered... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a man I disapprove of and it driving a wedge between us! Help?
Q. Hi, please help. My daughter is 18 almost 19 years old and dating a really old guy, he's 27 and I disapprove very much. My daughter lives on her own and pays her own bills so she assumes this means that i have no control over her. she's been seein...
A. 31 December 2006: I'm sorry to say...but with your control issues your daughter will soon want nothing to do with you. My fiancee's mother is exactly the same. She hates me so much...but I've never ever given her a reason to do so. She seems to think I'm not "good ... (read in full...)
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