How do I get rid of my crush?
Q. I think i have a crush on this guy who is older than me, i hate having a crush on him because i dont think anything will ever happen, how do i get rid of it?...
A. 18 May 2008: Im afraid you sort of have to just wait it out.. Its one of those things that you cant really get rid of. You can try to distract yourself though, by hanging out with friends in places where you know hes not going to be etc. You could also start a ... (read in full...)
First my ex says he still loves me, then he says he never wants to see me again. How do I get over him?
Q. I need advice on how to get over my ex. He was my first proper relationship and we were together almost 7 months.He broke up with me beacuse he found out something at the start of our relationship and couldnt cope with it eventhough he told me he ...
A. 6 October 2007: Hey,
Dont worry it will be ok! I had exactly the same thing with my first boyfriend; who said and did all the same things that you describe.
You will get over him in time, but it might just take a little bit longer than you thought it would... (read in full...)
He turned me down for sex and now I am paranoid he doesn't like me anymore!
Q. My bf of 2 months turned me down for sex last nite and now im paranoid he doesnt like me anymore. I startd kissing him and he said 'no I dont want it' and I turned round and didnt talk to him for the rest of the evening - I was really upset as hes ...
A. 7 September 2007: Heya,
Yeh it is upsetting when this happens .. but it does happen to everyone, and is nothing to get upset about! Its absoultely nothing to do with him not liking you anymore, he simply just didnt feel like it! People steriotype young men to be t... (read in full...)
She says she feels like crying a lot of the time, but also that there isn't a particular reason. I want to help her.
Q. Girls and emotions, very hard to understand sometimes! Well my gf seems to get really emotional for no reason. I know when it happening because she seems to go really quiet and as if shes thinking about something, when i ask whats wrong she says she ...
A. 27 August 2007: Hi,
It sounds like shes the sort of person who is prone to mild depression. I am, and what your girlfriend has sounds exactly like what i experience. Its very common, and often runs in families.
Its basically just a feeling of 'not being happy' f... (read in full...)
My High School Life being bullied
Q. As thousands of kids have to go through it I was 1 of the unfortanate 1's to be bullied in high scool. It was worse in year 7. I had no friends, the older lads kicked the ball at me constantly and i'd walk round the school on my own trying to find a ...
A. 19 July 2007: I was bullied by a group of girls who were supposidly my friends. It was never physical, but they turned everyone against me at my school... their parents were as bad as they were to my mum and tried to turn a load of the teachers against me too. It ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend pregnant? Her period has changed.
Q. Me and my girlfriend just had sex last tuesday (june 12)and when we did there were two problems. the condom was too big and it fell off once. even though im sure it didnt touch her in any way, she is worrried that she is pregnant. the next day (june ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hey,
From what you say, it sounds like she isn't. The day after having sex and conceiving is far too soon to be feeling the affects of pregnancy. I wouldn't worry at all. Strange periods like you described can be caused by many different thin... (read in full...)
is there a way your boyfriend touches you that helps you know how he deeply feels
Q. This may seem like a strange question .. is there a way your boyfriend touches you that helps you know how he deeply feels ? for example, he might touch your face a lot or he likes to put his hand on your leg, does different way of touching or place...
A. 28 May 2007: If he interlocks fingures with you that is supposed to be a sign of love as supposed to lust. ... (read in full...)
The condom split but he didnt cum, could I still be pregnant ?
Q. i recently had sex with my boyfriend and the condom split, however he had not come and had only been inside me for a short while, is there a chance i could get pregnant?...
A. 20 April 2007: Hi,
There is a small chance yes. Before men ejaculate, some men release what is called pre-cum. A tiny amount of cum. Not all men pre-cum, some men do only occasionally and some every time. As it is cum however, it does contain sperm. And only a ti... (read in full...)
These guys are staring at me and looking at me out of the corner of their eyes. Do they like me?
Q. I like this guy. I've already asked him to a dance and he said no. Sometimes he looks at me out of the corner of his eye, though. Does he like me? Also, I've been hearing for three years that another boy likes me. The other day, in a classroom ...
A. 24 March 2007: Heya,
Yes he probably does! But you dont have to act on it if you dont want to. In fact boys at that age often really like girls but dont really want relationships with them - they prefer more of a flirtatious thing. So lucky for you, the best thin... (read in full...)
Please write back... do YOU think I may be pregnant?
Q. Omg I need help soooo bad. I'm 14. My boyfriend is 16. I had sex with him February 14th (Valentine's Day) but here is the twist, I think I'm pregnant! Around February 26th I had a very light period (that was brown) sooooo... then my boobs have ...
A. 18 March 2007: Hi,
It sounds like a possibility. But think to yourself - did you use contraception? Buy a home pregnancy test - or if you look young get him to get one for you. Take it, and if it comes up positive you will have to go and see a doctor or visi... (read in full...)
He said he is bored in the relationship, how can I make the relationship more interesting?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months now. The beginning was amazing, but after 6 months we knew so much about each other that nothing was new or exciting. I love him with all my heart and he loves me too. But he's continued to ...
A. 17 March 2007: Heya!
Im in a similar situation with my boyfriend, we're 17 and have been dating for about 10 months, he hasnt said or lead me to believe that he's bored, but long relationships especially at our age can get quite intense. It is realy normal for ... (read in full...)
I like this guy and so does my friend. We share all our secrets but I just don't know how to tell her...
Q. Hey, got a kinda problem on my hands at the moment, well i like this guy, so does my best friend, she does not know that i like him yet, i want too tell her becasue we share all our secrets, i just dont know how she will take it, i have tried not to ...
A. 11 March 2007: Hey,
You've probably heard this before but it is really important that your friendship with this girl is your main priority. Tell her the truth. Tell her that you like this guy quite a lot but you dont want him to hurt your relationship with thi... (read in full...)
I'm 15 dating a 19 year old guy. Is anything wrong with that?
Q. i am 15 dating a 19 year old guy is somthing wrong with that?...
A. 21 February 2007: Hi,
The age gap is quite big for someone of your age - you grow up and mature a lot in those four years.
Im 17 and I dated a guy who was 24 for a while - which i soon thought was too big of an age gap. But you dhould definately keep seeing h... (read in full...)
We are going to lose our virginity together and I need tips!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been "dating" for about 4 months and we were good friends before we started "dating". I love him, I really really do. I want to give him my virginity, he is also a virgin. My question is; i know sex will hurt and the best ...
A. 18 February 2007: Hi,
I recently lost my virginity with my boyfriend of 7 months at the time! And there are a few things you should be aware of before you do it.
Firstly make sure this is exactly what you want and that you really care about each other - you... (read in full...)
How do I know if I have had an orgasm?
Q. How do you know if you have orgasmed? I've had sex a good few times but i dont think i have ever properly orgasamed. How do you know? What's supposed to happen and how long is it supposed to last? xxx...
A. 18 February 2007: Hi,
If you can't be sure you've ever orgasmed then i am guessing you probably haven't. It is usually something that is quite obvious - however if memory serves, the first few times i did were very subtle and i couldn't entirely be sure whether ... (read in full...)
My guy can't last longer than 10 seconds! What can we do?
Q. is it normal for guys to only last no longer for 10 seconds? the guy im with now cant last longer then 10 seconds we even clocked it one day....its sad i feel like its getting in the way of our relationship i just dont know what to do i need help ...
A. 14 February 2007: Hi,
Sadi+ is right you must not keep bringing the 10 sec thing up otherwise he will become insecure and it will make things worse.
Why not try masturbating him or giving him a blow job an hour or two before you have sex - that way when it come... (read in full...)
We spend so much time together that conversations get boring! What can we do?
Q. i have been with my current boyfriend for 2 and a half years. i love him to pieces, but because i spend all my time with him, (which i love!) we never have anything to talk about apart from work (which gets boring after a while). can anybody help?...
A. 5 February 2007: Hi,
I know exactly how you feel, and it is something that is quite normal after being in a relationship with someone for a long time. I think its great that you spend lots of time together and are still really close. However it might be good for ... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're ready for sex?
Q. How do you know if you are ready for sex? Because i want to and i feel like im ready but i have a really big problem with a fear of pain! ...
A. 25 January 2007: Hey
I had my first time several weeks ago and i had a MAJOR worry about it hurting!
But when it came to the crunch it wasnt that bad. Everyone said to me before hand 'you must use lube' and they were right - surprisingly it made a big differen... (read in full...)
I can't cope through this breakup!
Q. I feel so stupid posting on here. But, I am so distraught. I know that no one can really say one thing to make me feel better but I need a helping hand. I am going to see a counselor, too. But, I am falling. I had a break up a couple of months ...
A. 23 January 2007: Hi,
You shouldn't feel stupid about posting messages on here or being upset, you have split up with someone who you obviously cared about a lot and it is perfectly normal and human to be upset. 'A couple of months ago' is not very long ago so plea... (read in full...)
When I masurbate, I always fantasize that I am the man-is this normal?
Q. Hi guys and girls!! Well I am a bit embarassed to be putting this on here as it is a very personal thing, and hope that some people can give some constructive advice. Or reassure me that I am relatively normal...if there is such a thing!!! Thin...
A. 3 January 2007: This Fantasising is completely normal. A fanatasy can be about anyone or anything - a quick thought that pops up in your head or a long, detailed story. Thinking about what its like to be a man while having sex is the same as thinking about what it ... (read in full...)
He had a serious relationship before me so is this 'romance' just in my head?
Q. I have this guy that says he likes me and wants to get to know me..we went out on a double date with one of his friends and i thought it went well and he said he enjoyed it..the thing that gets me though is that he hardly ever texts me or ...
A. 26 December 2006: Getting to know someone new after a serious relationship is hard for anyone and so his reactions sound fairly normal. You have to be able to trust him about his feelings, if he says he likes you then he probably does! Hes probably unsure about ... (read in full...)
He dumped me for one of my best friends! What can I do to get through this?
Q. Hi me and my boyfriend recently broke up.. basically he dumped me for one of my best friends! I know that people don't believe that younger people fall in love.. they think its just some stupid phase that we're having and we'll get over it with ...
A. 26 December 2006: There is no method that will definately get him back - so dont get your hopes up too much! The best thing to do - id to show to him that your having a good time without him (even if your feeling like crying inside!) Show him that you don't need him ... (read in full...)
I am disgusted with my masturbation habit--how do I stop?
Q. Hi, I have a problem and a habit i know is natural but i just think is disgusting. I masturbate but keep telling myself i will stop but give in to it in the end. I know its natural and it does not cause me pain i just want to stop it all together. I ...
A. 26 December 2006: As you get older, most people tend to masturbate less and less as their hormones which are very intense during puberty tend to calm down and settle at the right levels.
The best thing to do when you get the urge to masturbate is to try and dist... (read in full...)
How can I move on from her!!?
Q. hey, i like this girl that i don't want to like anymore but the thing is i can't stop thinking about her, has anyone got any tips of how to move on from this girl? please help im 16...
A. 23 December 2006: To be honest the only thing you can do is simply sit it out. Even if you come to the end of a bad relationship with someone your glad you dont have to see any more - it is still perfectly normal to still feel attached to them or that you think about ... (read in full...)
I'm a 15 year old virgin and he's 20. Should I give up my virginity to him to make this relationship better?
Q. i am only 15 years old and my boy friend is 20 years old i now this relationship is not good..i say this because of the age. well my question is should i give up my virginity to him? i am scared to end up pregnet.but i cant control my orgasums no ...
A. 17 December 2006: You are very young and even though the age gap between you and your boyfriend is only 5 years, you are still very young and emotionally the age gap is much bigger. If you are scared of having sex with this person, you should not being having s... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend orgasm so soon?
Q. why does my boyfriend cum so soon?...
A. 17 December 2006: Hi,
Im guessing this is due to premature ejaculation, which is very common in boys/men who are just starting to have sex - you can normally put it down to nerves! Most men find that it happens less and less as time goes on - however some men cont... (read in full...)
We split and he 's now engaged to a girl he's been dating for 3 weeks. I am so hurt..how can I stop myself from going down, even further downhill?
Q. I'm so upset. Things ended between me and my bf in October, we weren't mature enough to hold down an adult relationship. But now I've found out he's just got engaged to a girl he's been seeing for about 2 or 3 weeks, but they've been friends for ...
A. 16 December 2006: Heya, Its perfectly normal to feel extremely down after a relationship ends especially if it is the other person who seems to move on first. It is really important that stop 'finding out things' about this guy. Continuing to 'check up on him' fee... (read in full...)
I told my friends a secret, and they told everyone and now spread lies about me!
Q. my friends never believe me, well here's the thing, i slept with someone i shouldn't have and i completely regretted it so i went to confide in my friends! When i told them at first they promised not to tell anyone and i felt much better after i had ...
A. 12 December 2006: It is a hard lesson to learn, but many girls of 16-17 just do behave this badly, it sounds like there is a lot of jealousy and immaturity within this group of girls and you dont sound immature like these girls.
Sex is a very grown up thing, and ... (read in full...)
We split but I can;t get over him! Will it always be this way?
Q. I split up with the father of my son who is nearly nine five years ago and still havent got over him. I get jealous if he gets a new girlfriend and get abusive and text him and ring him and make a scene. My life is just waiting for him to ring why ...
A. 11 December 2006: Having a child with someone and then splitting up with them is extreamly difficult and heartbreaking. You still feel very attached to this person for obvious and completely normal reasons. As you have had this child with this person, you have not ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my father passing away - Please help!
Q. my dad was my best friend, but he passed away 2 years ago, and i cant get over it. i mean i really cant! please help!...
A. 7 November 2006: My father was killed when i was 7 in a swimming accident, I am now 16 and still find it hard to come to terms with. Sometimes I still really believe he will come back so I can show him all the achievements I've made in my life since he went.
I... (read in full...)
I like her and need advice on what to do next
Q. i got off with a girl and i havent spoken to her since its been two days sinced it happened and neither of us were drunk i see her in skool but i didnt see her today, i like her but i dont know whether she likes me , i need advice on what to do next...
A. 7 November 2006: If you like this girl, the best thing you can do is tell her! But I dont mean go up to her and tell her straight 'I love you!' that would not be a good way to go about it!
Us girls like to be flattered and admired; so you should try and talk to her,... (read in full...)
Why do girls say yes to a date but they also say "don't tell anyone" What's up with that, girls?
Q. I don't get it. Does it just happen to me or do other guys get it too. Whenever I ask out a girl she says yes... but dont tell any one. Any girls here that can explain why?...
A. 31 October 2006: Yeh often do it for a number of reasons.
It is not uncommon if it is there first boyfriend, they probably feel slightly nervous about having a relationship for the first time and dont want the added pressure of attention of other people at scho... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity and found out sex with my bf doesn't do it for me. Is this normal?
Q. I lost my virginity, to my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, we've had sex twice since then. He enjoys it but it doesn't do anything for me, is this normal? ...
A. 30 October 2006: Yep! Totally! Expect your first experiences of sex to be bad. Many grown women who have had sex for years dont manage to come during sex ever - some cant come at all, many dont find sex as satisfying as other things you and your boyfriend can do.
F... (read in full...)
Do women really like to cuddle as much as they like sex???
Q. I heard somewhere that women really like cuddles. Almost as much as sex. Is this true? ...
A. 30 October 2006: How to please a women:
Love, hold, cuddle, kiss, nuzzle, snuggle, caress, appriciate, pamper, impress, adore, cherish, yearn for, worship, dote on, treasure, concern, infatuate, friendship, dutiful, attend to, embrace, smooch, canoodle, nestle, embr... (read in full...)
After celebrating our 5th anniversay together..he just picked up and left the next day! I am so distraught..how do I deal with this?
Q. Hi, I have been crying for a week now and I have just started to cry again now I am writing this note. I have been with a man for the past 5 years. In the first couple of years, I did not take the relationship too seriously. However, he w...
A. 30 October 2006: Despite being really upsetting, this must seem like the strangest thing that has ever happened to you! Having said that something similar happened to me last year and I know it is not that uncommon for men to just get up and go out of the blue one ... (read in full...)
How long do I make my bf wait before we have sex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been officially together about a month. Before that we were "together", but not official for about that long too. So we've been kissing and stuff for awhile. In the second week we were officially going out, he wanted us to ...
A. 29 October 2006: If your unsure about what he wants from you, then I think its sensible to wait before having sex - you want to make sure your first experiences are with someone you really care about. You can normally tell what he wants by the way he treats you; for ... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss
Q. Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss and make out? What is appropriate for this age group....
A. 27 October 2006: Appropriate is whatever you feel comfortable with. I would not recommend jumping into the sack with someone at that age - but kissing and making out is fine as long as you feel comfortable with the person and want to do it.
Don't feel pres... (read in full...)
How do I stop my crazy clinginess?
Q. Me and my fiancee have been together for almost two years now and we have been living together for about 6 months. when he goes out with his "boys" or anyone for that matter, I get upset and mad at him for going out and leaving me all alone. I want ...
A. 27 October 2006: It is not a particularly heathly habit, but it is quite a common one - so dont feel like your going mad or crazy its perfectly ordinary. It seems to be something that affects some women and not others, and those who it does affect simply have to ... (read in full...)
We've been dating a while and I please her sexually but she doesn't do me!
Q. My girlfriend and me have been dating a while. Well everytime we hang out she seems to always want me to do something sexual to her like finger her. But when it comes to me she dosen't like to do anything like give me head because she doesn't ...
A. 27 October 2006: This is a difficult subject to tackle as you obviously care about her and don't want to offend her or pressure her. Even if she feels awkward or shy about pleasuring you, relationships are equal and it is not wrong for you to want something in ... (read in full...)
I am finding it hard to deal with the fact he has got alot of female friends!!!
Q. Does anyone else's man make a lot of female friends and how do you cope with it? My boyfriend has always made friends easier with women than men and I knew that when I got into the relationship but I still find it difficult to cope with when a...
A. 26 October 2006: Firstly its important to remember that it is a good thing that your partner has female friends. It gives them a good insight into the opposite sex without him having a sexual relationship - this is something that is essential. Growing up with women ... (read in full...)
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