Six months dating her, do things that she likes, she does not want to have sex, as much as I do, I am feeling neglected, how do I let her know, I may go elsewhere?
Q. Been with this girl for 6 months now and sex between us has slowed down to the point that it is unhealthy. In the last month and 1/2 we had sex like 3 times. When ever I start to make an advance on her she tells me that she doesn't want to get ...
A. 16 July 2008: I'm not 100% aware of your situation, so i comment merely on what I have taken from what you have written.
You seem to be putting so much focus on sex sex sex. Perhaps your girlfriend of 6 or so months is wondering if she means more to you than... (read in full...)
What does 'falsetto' mean?
Q. hey!!! i got a question! what does a falsetto mean![lol] im listening to one of my favorite songs by the dream and all he mensions is how his gurl talkin in a falsetto!?!? can any one tell me plezzzzzzz!!! ...
A. 16 July 2008: I'm sure there are better websites out there for finding the definition of a word than a relationship advice website(try an online dictionary - or Wikipedia), but, never the less - an answer:-
Falsetto is usually a form in singing. It is singing ... (read in full...)
I like this girl, we went out and the conversation, turned to a subject about other guys, and she hit my jealousy button, how do I keep my emotions under control?
Q. Okay, so there's this girl I just asked out and I like her so much. Anway about 2 hours of being in a relationship with her and she's made me jealous already! I know! Here's how it went. I told her about how much I had a crush on her and asked he...
A. 16 July 2008: Hope this helps:
I'm sure if you asked her out, you think she's attractive, right? But I'm sure there are plenty of other girls out there you find hot, or sexy.
She may find other people hot, just as you do. I admit it's a little tackless ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't talk to me...
Q. My girlfriend doesn't talk to me? I have tried everything to get her to talk to me. I text me but she just sends me one word replies back, I feel like she is uninterested. I know she cares about me. She cares about me so much she has told me ...
A. 18 February 2008: I don't want to sound like a prat or anything, but try just talking to her about it.
Don't come on heavily, and making accusations, because you'll come over aggressive, and you don't want that.
Arrange to meet her, life you normally would, ... (read in full...)
She gives me mixed signals, I'm confused
Q. Looking for any advise here, I'm really confused. And sorry this is long, I like to ramble, and there is a long ish back story. I met a girl about 3 weeks ago when I was out with friends. There was an amazing attraction between us both straight aw...
A. 14 February 2008: I'd like to thank you all for your responses and all the help.
Especially to Danielepew, who's advise I will be taking, and moving on.
I plan to keep this girl in my life, as she is a good friend to me, but to move on and find the girl who is ... (read in full...)
My (and her) biggest problem - lack of sex. She is already in a relationship but we plan to act upon the mutual sexual attraction. Should we do this?
Q. I need help. I know what I plan to do is wrong, but it doesn't make me wanna stop. I met a girl, across the net on a game, long story short, both her and her partner share the account, he has become a good friend to me too. Although a ...
A. 22 December 2007: Thanks to everyone who gave a reply.
Firstly, I do know for a fact that they are 2 separate people, as I have seen and spoken to both of them, using cameras and mics and the likes.
Secondly, They are not married, they are just in a relationshi... (read in full...)
I date women but my boss asked me if I was gay? Now I'm really confused --help!
Q. Hi, I am a 21 year old male currently experiencing some confusion. Over the past year or two their have been rumours from other people about me being gay. At the moment I am pretty depressed and these rumours just make things worse. FOr a bit of b...
A. 22 December 2007: The only piece of advice I can offer you is be true to yourself.
Don't act the way you think or feel others expect you to act. I know a good sized handful of straight guys (myself included) that fall into a lot of the things you were saying. ... (read in full...)
I want more than just friendship with her, how can I tell her this?
Q. I think im in love with my best friend. We've been friends sice probably infants school and are now both in year 11 at school. I'm 16 shes 15. I first startd having feelings for her back in juniors but it was more of justr wanting to be with her all ...
A. 9 March 2007: I agree with cd206
Tell her openly and honestly you have strong feelings for her.
I loved a girl in my life a long time ago, and never told her.
Meeting her recently i mentioned how I used to care and she said she used to feel the same, a... (read in full...)
We're much better off now but I still act as if we're living on a shoe string budget. How can I stop feeling like this?
Q. Hi. I'll try to make this breif :) My fiancee and I live together, and thus we share the finances. He recently got a new job and a promotion to Case Manager, which means he makes 14$ an hour. He works 30-40 hours overtime also, and so is bringing h...
A. 9 March 2007: Just be careful.
You can afford to spend a bit of money, treat yourselves to nice things, but my advice would be take some of both your wages, say 5% of your pay packet and put it into a savings account.
That way, if something does happen you ... (read in full...)
I love my gf, but my ex who helped me through so much is back on the scene, what should I do ?
Q. My girlfriend and I had decided to move in together in September this year, when I move to go to university. We've been together for 7 months, and by September it will be Over a year. Both of us have had doubts but we came to the conclusion that ...
A. 9 March 2007: She wasn't my ex, I always had feelings for her, but she was one of the pretty popular people in school, and i... wasnt?
I want to be my girlfriend, I really love her, it's just the worry that if something happens, then she has lost so much, I'... (read in full...)
Can anybody help with baby names??
Q. I need some suggestions on baby names. I`m due at the end of the month and its a boy! I want something different but not CRAZY different! HELP!...
A. 9 March 2007: Ben
FTW... (read in full...)
How can I relax more while making love?
Q. Ok so this problem is very embarrasing for me. I was 19 and a virgin, My girlfriend was 17 and wasn't. When we finnally decided to have sex, this may sound daft but I put all my concentration into not cumming straight away because I wanted her to ...
A. 9 March 2007: Oh god, this sounds EXACTLY like what I used to be like.
I have a problem when I'm having sex where I worry too much about the partner, if they're enjoying it enough, am i too going too hard, what if i cum early and disappoint them etc.
You nee... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're in love?
Q. how do you know when ur in love???...
A. 9 February 2007: You just... do...... (read in full...)
I know she is THE ONE!!! Should I let her go?
Q. I am a 33 yr old male. About one year ago I met the love of my life. I have been through two marriages and divorces and this has enabled me to grow and know what I need and want in a partner. This woman is all of that and more. She is my first true ...
A. 9 February 2007: I went through something similar a while back.
The girl in question was in a long term relationship, her first serious relationship, and when faced with facts of him cheating denied them, and was always taking him back no matter what he did beca... (read in full...)
Why do guys always seem to go for matchstick blonde women?
Q. hi i am a bit confused. it seems like only all the skinny blonde, tall girls get boyfriends! i am 16 and i weigh 8 stone :s i am about 5ft 1 Brown hair. is this any boys type? or do they only go for the skinny tall girls?...
A. 9 February 2007: Hey, not all guys go for long tall blondes.
My girlfriend is 4' 11", brown hair, and I don't think I have ever dated a blonde, let alone a tall skinny one.
Remember that there are a lot of men out there, and yes, I admit that the majority may... (read in full...)
Help! Who should I choose?
Q. Hi my names mike and Im 13yrs old. I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months now.I was recently at the mall with my friend my friends girlfriend and one of my friends (also a girl).The first thing the girls wanted to do was to go ...
A. 9 February 2007: You're only young and inexperienced!
Choose whoever you want, but try and not hurt anyone in the process.
Also, be careful of what this could do to you, if you leave your girlfriend, the word might spread, and it can be harder to get a relatio... (read in full...)
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